Women getting themselves off - the fascination?

[Smoothshavendad]

I'm not exactly shy I've often put on a show for a bf Tell him to sit back, leave himself alone and enjoy the display, with any luck I get to watch his cock twitch and jump all by itself I've never had anyone decline this offer and if the speed they get out of their chair, on top of and inside of me after I have come is a good guide, then they've been very turned on indeed by watching me fingering myself

I wouldn’t be able to resist. So arousing when I can hear how wet you are. Especially love it when you stop to lick your fingers. Drives me wild!

 

[PleasePeesMe]

If that's you in your avatar, a great deal of excitement is understandable.

 

[newhere2learn]

I'm not exactly shy I've often put on a show for a bf Tell him to sit back, leave himself alone and enjoy the display, with any luck I get to watch his cock twitch and jump all by itself I've never had anyone decline this offer and if the speed they get out of their chair, on top of and inside of me after I have come is a good guide, then they've been very turned on indeed by watching me fingering myself

As they should be. Sounds great, especially your confidence

 

[ladventures1]

My husband loves it when I get myself off

I used to have a lot of shame about masturbating. And even after I got married, I was to embarrassed to do it in front of my husband. He would ask me about it sometimes, begging for details. Eventually I opened up and talked to him about it. He got so excited. He explained that he loved the idea that I was so horny, I couldn't help but touch myself. That's the state he always wants me in. Since then, I sometimes tease him and get him to "catch me." I leave doors cracked, moan loudly and turn on my toys so he hears. I want him to come in and take care of me, but sometimes he plays the voyeur and touches himself while peeking into the room.

 

[HoldYouDown]

Long ago, I was nude sunbathing. The sun always makes me very horny. I began playing with myself and noticed that I was being watched. I pretended that I didn't know that I was being watched. I was very much turned on by knowing that I was being watched.

Fast forward to the man I ended up marrying. I attempted to masturbate in front of him. He was disgusted.

I haven't tried it since.

I would try it again for real. Never on cam. Not into that.

Was it a neighbor, someone at the beach, etc? That's a great story. That did happen to me one time, a neighbor spied me.

 

[gtnlynn]

I have always liked to watch. But I like to watch her face and chest primarily, and not just be focused on insertion.

Watching the face and hand play with her chest sells it for me, also it's kind of instruction guide to a guy to pick up on visual and audible clues as to what a woman likes. I'm someone that does a lot of watching and observation of people in all types of situations.

I watch her face and breasts, also. She likes to squeeze her tits while she pleasures herself. Watching her whole body move and listening to her moan is thrilling for me. She understands and likes to put on a show for me occasionally.

 

[hogjack]

I missed the poll but would have voted "Yes".

 

[Bigboobbabe]

Long ago, I was nude sunbathing. The sun always makes me very horny. I began playing with myself and noticed that I was being watched. I pretended that I didn't know that I was being watched. I was very much turned on by knowing that I was being watched.

Fast forward to the man I ended up marrying. I attempted to masturbate in front of him. He was disgusted.

I haven't tried it since.

I would try it again for real. Never on cam. Not into that.

Your husband is missing out on one of the most natural and erotic pieces of you.
It's a shame he didn't realize that. But that's a "him" problem, not a "you" problem.
Love yourself. Pleasure yourself. The endorphins releases will amaze you.

Good luck.
PS. I would find someone who thrives on watching. I know I did.

 

[CandK_inSE]

My wife rarely masturbates on her own. Rarely.

However, she loves to do it while I watch. I think she knows that it will get me so excited that I’ll just end up fucking her.

I will say that watching a woman masturbate might be one of the hottest things she can do to turn me on.

 

[phil1955]

My wife and I are in our 60's. After retiring a few years ago, we spent a lot of time talking about what we wanted out of life and ways to improve our sex life. She confessed that she has always loved to masturbate. Starting as a teenager and more often than should have been needed in our marriage. I did travel a lot and work long hours so I was not as attentive as I should have been. She invited me to watch which was hot as hell. She did not want to fuck but did want me to jack off and watch my cock spurt. At this point we do masturbation more than we fuck.

 

[phil1955]

I should mention that she does not use toys but just her hand and fingers. We have done this a variety of ways but one of the best is for her to sit on the couch while I sit on a chair in front of her. I will hold her legs and massage her feet and calves while she slowly builds to her orgasm. She can go a long time so I try not to touch myself too early as I find it difficult to hold on once I get too excited. Often she will ask me to cum on her as she hits the peak. A couple of times we have moved to the edge of the bed when she was near orgasm. I would stand on the floor and hold her legs and stroke my cock. We would try to time so I would shove my cock into her cunt just as she started to cum. When we got it right, I would push all the way in in one thrust and explode inside of her while she worked her orgasm. The first time we tried, I lost control and shot my load on her cunt and hand.

 

[newhere2learn]

Some very hot contributions, glad I'm not alone in this

 

[phil1955]

I had never really thought of doing something like this together but it is really hot just to watch her cum and their are a lot of options. I would expect this could be a nice option for old couples.

 

[Paradox]

One of the reasons I like watching is because it helps me know what she likes. Does she push fingers inside or lightly tease her clit? How many fingers? How hard? It gives me clues for when it is my turn to please her.

 

[newhere2learn]

One of the reasons I like watching is because it helps me know what she likes. Does she push fingers inside or lightly tease her clit? How many fingers? How hard? It gives me clues for when it is my turn to please her.

Amen to that. Exactly the same here

 

[NEOhio1972]

Amen to that. Exactly the same here

Really?? I just think it is hot!!! watching her enjoy herself- making me want to enjoy myself!!!

All in fun!!!

 

[newhere2learn]

Really?? I just think it is hot!!! watching her enjoy herself- making me want to enjoy myself!!!

All in fun!!!

With this girl, yes. She's had some selfish partners, so really struggles to tell me what she wants (verbally). So to have her show me, would be amazing.

 

[Mtnmike]

My wife and I are in our 60's. After retiring a few years ago, we spent a lot of time talking about what we wanted out of life and ways to improve our sex life. She confessed that she has always loved to masturbate. Starting as a teenager and more often than should have been needed in our marriage. I did travel a lot and work long hours so I was not as attentive as I should have been. She invited me to watch which was hot as hell. She did not want to fuck but did want me to jack off and watch my cock spurt. At this point we do masturbation more than we fuck.

Sounds Hottt, wish I could've gotten my wife to do that.

 

[Mtnmike]

I should mention that she does not use toys but just her hand and fingers. We have done this a variety of ways but one of the best is for her to sit on the couch while I sit on a chair in front of her. I will hold her legs and massage her feet and calves while she slowly builds to her orgasm. She can go a long time so I try not to touch myself too early as I find it difficult to hold on once I get too excited. Often she will ask me to cum on her as she hits the peak. A couple of times we have moved to the edge of the bed when she was near orgasm. I would stand on the floor and hold her legs and stroke my cock. We would try to time so I would shove my cock into her cunt just as she started to cum. When we got it right, I would push all the way in in one thrust and explode inside of her while she worked her orgasm. The first time we tried, I lost control and shot my load on her cunt and hand.

Sounds exciting, like to try that sometime.

 

[Mtnmike]

I am not ashamed to admit I love to masturbate.
Hubby and I have mutually masturbated as part of our sexual menu for decades.
Recently had some phone sex and my FB loves to hear me when I cum. If we can't coordinate timing, and I use his pictures to cum, I record the audio and send it to him. He loves it.
Recently met in person and he wanted to see what he had been hearing.
No shame. I showed him and had fun doing it.
It's just another intimacy that shows how open you can be together.

Ladies, be proud to be sexual. Love yourself, then you can love others and receive love back.

Wise advice BBB, wish more women would open up, personally I think it's hot to hear and see a woman masturbate.

 

[SweetCuriousDarling]

I feel like it would be incredibly dull for anyone to watch me masturbate. I've watched videos of women masturbating where they were clearly putting on a show for the camera, but I can't imagine ever managing to orgasm that way. I mostly just lay back, turn on some porn or read some erotica, and direct my vibrator (a small Hitachi type) to my clit. It takes very careful placement and particular pressure. I'll usually edge awhile before I let myself slip over the edge. But it's not flashy. I don't move around much, I don't grope myself, I don't make any noise. Boring. But it still feels amazing.

I guess the closest I've come to 'showing off' was when I was dating a guy I just knew wasn't going to be able to bring me to orgasm. It's very difficult for me to cum with a partner at the best of times, and I simply decided I wasn't interested in not having an orgasm though he did. So when we would finish, I would remain in bed and carefully rub my clit until I came. It often took awhile, and he would lay beside me and stroke my hair and just quietly watch me. He seemed to enjoy it, but at the same time, I think it made him a little insecure. Ah, well.

 

[Paradox]

I feel like it would be incredibly dull for anyone to watch me masturbate. I've watched videos of women masturbating where they were clearly putting on a show for the camera, but I can't imagine ever managing to orgasm that way. I mostly just lay back, turn on some porn or read some erotica, and direct my vibrator (a small Hitachi type) to my clit. It takes very careful placement and particular pressure. I'll usually edge awhile before I let myself slip over the edge. But it's not flashy. I don't move around much, I don't grope myself, I don't make any noise. Boring. But it still feels amazing.

I guess the closest I've come to 'showing off' was when I was dating a guy I just knew wasn't going to be able to bring me to orgasm. It's very difficult for me to cum with a partner at the best of times, and I simply decided I wasn't interested in not having an orgasm though he did. So when we would finish, I would remain in bed and carefully rub my clit until I came. It often took awhile, and he would lay beside me and stroke my hair and just quietly watch me. He seemed to enjoy it, but at the same time, I think it made him a little insecure. Ah, well.

Thank you for sharing. I suspect there are a number of women who have similar stories.

 

[HoldYouDown]

I feel like it would be incredibly dull for anyone to watch me masturbate. I've watched videos of women masturbating where they were clearly putting on a show for the camera, but I can't imagine ever managing to orgasm that way. I mostly just lay back, turn on some porn or read some erotica, and direct my vibrator (a small Hitachi type) to my clit. It takes very careful placement and particular pressure. I'll usually edge awhile before I let myself slip over the edge. But it's not flashy. I don't move around much, I don't grope myself, I don't make any noise. Boring. But it still feels amazing.

I guess the closest I've come to 'showing off' was when I was dating a guy I just knew wasn't going to be able to bring me to orgasm. It's very difficult for me to cum with a partner at the best of times, and I simply decided I wasn't interested in not having an orgasm though he did. So when we would finish, I would remain in bed and carefully rub my clit until I came. It often took awhile, and he would lay beside me and stroke my hair and just quietly watch me. He seemed to enjoy it, but at the same time, I think it made him a little insecure. Ah, well.

I prefer "not flashy." I don't like anything contrived. But life is performance art, we certainly act differently when people are watching, even if we try not to.

I'm reminded of a girl who seduced me once...she was quite a bit younger than me and just young in general. (Legal young.) She came over, and we were getting into it when she got nervous. I told her just relax, we can just chill and talk. So we talked about sex for a while, then got tired and went to sleep as the hour was late by then.

In the morning we talked a little more. We were both naked. I put my arm around her and brought her near and started stroking a little, and said, "do you want to masturbate with me?" I said it in the same tone I would ask if she wanted to watch a movie.

She obliged, and started rubbing her pussy very quietly. We talked a bit more, about fantasies, past experiences, etc., as we both gently and peacefully self-pleasured. At some point she whispered "put yourself inside me, please." I did. That's the end of the masturbation portion of that tale.

 

[stevesthename]

I like to watch because the sight of a woman gradually falling into ever deeper pleasure, and ultimately to powerful orgasms, is a huge turn on for me. It's even more the case if she's cumming because of what I'm doing, but just the sight of it alone is amazing. It is simultaneously utterly beautiful, like the finest art, and hugely erotic, charged with passion.

I know. Cliched words, but, yes, I love to watch.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

I have only had the pleasure of watching my wife masturbate once. It was at my "insistence" and direction. I masturbate all the time and knowing how much I enjoy it, I wanted to see her masturbate and enjoy herself. She resisted, but I guided her and she did enjoy herself; however, I think that she was embarrassed, so it's never been a "regular" par of our sexual experience. I would like to masturbate with her, (I believe that she "knows" that I do regularly), but haven't had the "opportunity", i.e., it's never been in a mutual situation. Mutual masturbation is something that I would love to do with my wife - her rubbing her clit while I stroke my cock - culminating in both of us cumming together. We've cum together but only in 69 - not that I'm complaining.