Would I have been gay/bi ?

[bimori]

This is the kind of stuff that fuels my bisexuality.....I got a taste of cock at a very early age and had to have seconds, thirds, fourths, and more but I'll never get tired of thoughts like this....

https://videos.SPAMPOST/file/videos-out/705626-1595853801-294/705626-1595853801-294-480.mp4

Nothing like pussy that tastes like cock and cock that tastes like pussy.

 

[klippert]

my first sexual experience was with a neighbor friend it was all oral and yes rimming.
I always have a burning desire for women...everything they offer. my desire to fuck ass and suck never went away.
senior yr in H.S. I had my firs Male butt-fuck...a buddies older brother. he was in college ... I had a GF at the time, though he and I would meet at his house...or go hunting together...mostly hunting for each other.

that was a different situation, he had NO relationship tendencies. He told me he wasn't gay or bi; Just fucking horny, If getting a GF at campus wasn't a dog fight, he'd not have sex with men..."""On campus it was 6-4 Male to women, so getting off; there were other options.."""
following Aug I was on campus early for to start training with the Baseball team....the campus I was on, was 8-2 M to F. With some work...you found the other options...

the first three yrs of college, If I was having sex...it was primarily with another male. Those were the enjoyable closeted days, but, I always had a deep desire for women.

Men...were just there for sex...I actually had no emotion towards them. cpl of the mature men I had regular sex with, wanted me to send the night. if I agreed, I'd sleep in the guest room or sofa...
only once did I go away for a weekend with one...still didn't sleep in the same bed.....This wasn't love boat for me...I wanted sex

I guess my point is ... M/M Sex, with my neighbor or buddies brother didn't define my choice in sexuality

 

[MGTG]

Flip the question. Would most people be bi if not for societal shaming?[/QUOTE
Yes!!! Definitely.

 

[Jerseyshore]

As Cole Porter said to Moss Hart, you've never been fucked until you've been fucked by a man that knows the ropes...so important for young men. My first time was by a very experienced man who "knew the ropes" and I never looked back. I think of it to this day *s*

 

[txfuncouple]

Thank you,
I am lucky, we stayed touch for all these years and had great fun many times.

Would like to hear about some more adventures. Your first encounter was very hot.

 

[amysboytoy]

Flip the question. Would most people be bi if not for societal shaming?

I KNOW that I would be!!

 

[Hitchiker69]

If not for societal shaming we'd all be having a lot more fun. So sad that so many men don't know the pleasure of cock sucking, or how to fully enjoy a man's body.

And my wife may never know the pleasure of sucking tits, even though her best friend has a huge, beautiful pair.

I've never known a man that only sucked one cock. It's addictive, once you've sucked one you can't get enough.

I had my first at an early age, and never looked back.

 

[Hitchiker69]

"...didn't define my choice in sexuality"

Same here. Women are my first choice as sex partners. But men are easier to find and get my satisfaction with. I'll suck them all. Some I'll fuck, and some I'll let fuck me. But it's always just raw sex. No emotional ties at all.

Nothing a woman has to offer compares with having a warm hard cock filling my mouth or ass, and giving me the reward of his thick cum.

 

[Blueser916]

Flip the question. Would most people be bi if not for societal shaming?

I sure think so. Looping back to bottomshooter's post (ha!), male-male relationships have been common and accepted in many cultures throughout history. Less so for female-female, but that's probably because it's always been the men making the "rules."

 

[Dreamer110]

Me and a buddy stroked each other off in early teens a bunch of times to orgasm! I have not thought about it all these years but recently began too ! HE had a fat thick cut cock and I am uncut so it was different to experience it ! I am hoping to find a fwb to try again !as I get older and other men on here say the same they want to try it

I think it's safe to say there are a lot of men that want that.

 

[MGTG]

I guess I was just wondering when I made this thread was, if I never had been with any of my guy friends when I was younger would I have wanted to be with a guy when I got older. I was with 2 different friends growing up, the one I began this thread with, and also my next door neighbor. So before I was with any girl, I had already been fucked in my ass at least 10 times and sucked my next door neighbor’s cock...more than 50 times, Then my sex with women started after that. I am way more attracted to woman and have had plenty of them in my life. But if I started off with women would I have wanted a man eventually? My memories of the men I’ve been with give me a hard on, and the woman don’t. I guess it’s just the way society has made gay sex be shameful. Like somebody mentioned earlier. Sorry if I don’t make sense.

 

[44special]

When I was young, gay wasn't accepted as it is now, and I don't remember ever hearing the term bi.
I will say that if I had experienced it back then, and realized how much I enjoy it, I probably would have leaned very much toward the gay side.

 

[Blueser916]

I guess I was just wondering when I made this thread was, if I never had been with any of my guy friends when I was younger would I have wanted to be with a guy when I got older. I was with 2 different friends growing up, the one I began this thread with, and also my next door neighbor. So before I was with any girl, I had already been fucked in my ass at least 10 times and sucked my next door neighbor’s cock...more than 50 times, Then my sex with women started after that. I am way more attracted to woman and have had plenty of them in my life. But if I started off with women would I have wanted a man eventually? My memories of the men I’ve been with give me a hard on, and the woman don’t. I guess it’s just the way society has made gay sex be shameful. Like somebody mentioned earlier. Sorry if I don’t make sense.

It's an interesting thing to ponder, but there's no way to know for sure. Seems like you enjoyed your guy friends, so my best guess is that you would've gotten there eventually anyway.

 

[UnderMyKilt]

The old nature vs nurture debate in action. Back in the "old days" it was easier to have a serious discussion of this nature as you didn't have to "walk on eggshells" in avoiding any mention of age ( even obviously without any prurient intent).

In a nutshell....

Would I still have had "those urges" , would I still have both a sexual attraction AND emotional attachment to some men, were it not for what I used to call my "youthful follies"?

Had my bold friend, THAT friend, not asked "Do you want to jerk off together?", which quickly diverged into jerking each other off and making out, would I still be enamored with cock and men? Since I'd already been toying with my own ass for years, and pretty well knew that what I really wanted up there was a cock, I would tend to think that at some point it was inevitable.

Still....how did he know? We both had lots of friends. Why did he choose me? I never asked.

In hindsight, and in retrospect, I no longer call them "follies" as they weren't "foolish" or lacking in good sense but just part of me realizing who I was.

Still, there's another issue, of youthful trauma, but we won't (can't) go into that.

 

[none2_none2]

As Cole Porter said to Moss Hart, you've never been fucked until you've been fucked by a man that knows the ropes...so important for young men. My first time was by a very experienced man who "knew the ropes" and I never looked back. I think of it to this day *s*

That hasn't been my experiences at all over the decades that I was active. Older guys who will take advantage of younger naive guys are a dime a dozen. The real gem is an older guy who will bottom for a young man to build up his confidence, and make him feel like he is a real stud man -- despite men (and maybe sometimes women) of his peer age who have made him feel like he didn't measure up.

Note, though I know when I look in the mirror I see a 60 year old, I still really see the young man who always wanted a mans love, respect, and to feel special. Any "daddy" type can fuck a younger man who doesn't know better. It takes a very special "daddy" type to give a young man his chance to prove himself to be just as good a "stud" as those who made him feel inferior while growing up.

I don't look for that kind of validation anymore as I got my man and I couldn't ask for more.

 

[MGTG]

Still....how did he know? We both had lots of friends. Why did he choose me? I never asked.
This is what I always wondered about too. I didn’t act gay, I don’t think I’m gay, I know I’m definitely bi, but not back then. I was easily submissive though. And maybe that’s it. My older friend/neighbor definitely took advantage of my submissiveness, more than anybody could. Once he had his dick in my mouth that was all that happened between us after that. As soon as there was a second of privacy, Victor had his cock in my mouth. I know with my friend Johnny we both wanted it. I naturally was the bottom, I can’t explain it, but I can’t imagine it any other way. And we’ve had countless times of sex together and never once did we switch roles. Never even thought about it. We we got together Johnny was gonna fuck me, and I was gonna let him.

 

[Jerseyshore]

Still....how did he know? We both had lots of friends. Why did he choose me? I never asked.
This is what I always wondered about too. I didn’t act gay, I don’t think I’m gay, I know I’m definitely bi, but not back then. I was easily submissive though. And maybe that’s it. My older friend/neighbor definitely took advantage of my submissiveness, more than anybody could. Once he had his dick in my mouth that was all that happened between us after that. As soon as there was a second of privacy, Victor had his cock in my mouth. I know with my friend Johnny we both wanted it. I naturally was the bottom, I can’t explain it, but I can’t imagine it any other way. And we’ve had countless times of sex together and never once did we switch roles. Never even thought about it. We we got together Johnny was gonna fuck me, and I was gonna let him.

Recognizing that you are a natural bottom can be quite a journey, as we are taught that a man needs to take the lead in sex. As we see here, that is not always the case, and many men find pleasure in surrendering to a top and giving yourself to him for pleasure for both of you. Realizing that can be troubling to some, but many of us eventually realize that it is natural for us and come to enjoy the experience.

 

[Jaime1493]

When we were 15, best friend and I started fucking each other. I am in 60's and never stopped bi sex.

 

[Wonderer67]

I had two gay experiences as a kid. First when I was in grade school and my friend wanted to dress up and have sex. I don’t think either of us knew what we were doing. He moved away but I stayed friends with his brother and found out he was gay as an adult. Then in high school a buddy and i sucked each other off.

In my teens and 20s I was always wondered what it would be like to have sex as a woman. I didn’t think of myself as gay and I was definitely attracted to women. After the army, i was married and I went to college where I had a few opportunities but didn’t go for it or chickened out. But always wondered- this is where I first fantasized of sucking a cock and taking a load in my mouth.

Divorced and remarried and I told my wife about my fantasies of being with another man. She doesn’t love the idea but also doesn’t discourage it either. She has no problem pegging me or making me suck her dildo tho. For now that’ll have to suffice!

I wonder if I’d feel this way if I didn’t have those experiences in my youth.

 

[Sunnyade]

Flip the question. Would most people be bi if not for societal shaming?

I certainly think more people would try same sex at least once.

 

[Jaime1493]

I have been bi since I was 15. Though I have been married twice, the first one was just a few years, the second still going on. The sex stopped when she went through the change years ago. I wish I could find another married guy my age (retired) that wants to stay married but wants a romantic relationship with another guy. I am very discrete and expect the same. I love gay sex and am open to most anything that feels good. NE Kansas area.

 

[Escierto]

Recognizing that you are a natural bottom can be quite a journey, as we are taught that a man needs to take the lead in sex. As we see here, that is not always the case, and many men find pleasure in surrendering to a top and giving yourself to him for pleasure for both of you. Realizing that can be troubling to some, but many of us eventually realize that it is natural for us and come to enjoy the experience.

That is the absolute truth. When I saw my first cock on a woman, I knew beyond all doubt what I wanted. I desperately wanted her cock in my ass. At the same time I had to overcome years of straitjacket thoughts that prevented me from acting on my desires. Only now am I free to be the man that I am, a pure bottom who delights in servicing my top, my beautiful transgender girlfriend.

 

[Analsexlover]

my first sexual experience was with a neighbor friend it was all oral and yes rimming.
I always have a burning desire for women...everything they offer. my desire to fuck ass and suck never went away.
senior yr in H.S. I had my firs Male butt-fuck...a buddies older brother. he was in college ... I had a GF at the time, though he and I would meet at his house...or go hunting together...mostly hunting for each other.

that was a different situation, he had NO relationship tendencies. He told me he wasn't gay or bi; Just fucking horny, If getting a GF at campus wasn't a dog fight, he'd not have sex with men..."""On campus it was 6-4 Male to women, so getting off; there were other options.."""
following Aug I was on campus early for to start training with the Baseball team....the campus I was on, was 8-2 M to F. With some work...you found the other options...

the first three yrs of college, If I was having sex...it was primarily with another male. Those were the enjoyable closeted days, but, I always had a deep desire for women.

Men...were just there for sex...I actually had no emotion towards them. cpl of the mature men I had regular sex with, wanted me to send the night. if I agreed, I'd sleep in the guest room or sofa...
only once did I go away for a weekend with one...still didn't sleep in the same bed.....This wasn't love boat for me...I wanted sex

I guess my point is ... M/M Sex, with my neighbor or buddies brother didn't define my choice in sexuality

I feel the same way. I love gay sex but have no attraction to men and no desire for anything except sex.