Would watching your husband/boyfriend suck cock turn you on or off?

[bill3901]

I think this would be an awesome turn-on, but only limited to a MMF or cuckold situation. I wouldn't want to just come in and surprise my man as he was sucking off a guy without me. That would be grossly disgusting. But for some contradictory reason, if you add a female into the equation, to actively watch, encourage, and/or help....then it becomes a turn-on.

And the more resistant or reluctant the guy would be to suck cock, well that would make it even more sexually exciting. I would love to forcefully encourage or coerce this in a situation.

exactly how I feel...I never did anything like that but watching porn that includes bi action that has a girl involved is hot af but just gay porn , I cant get off on...

 

[haventdonethat]

Just finished reading all 14 pages of this thread. I must say I am very pleasantly surprised by all the positive comments, especially from the ladies.

My first time sucking a guy was with my wife and our good friend. There was no embarrassment, no humiliation, no coercion, just three adults enjoying themselves. She encouraged us, talked to us and of course was very turned on by the situation. And I thought we were the only ones who had discovered this!

I guess you could say it was wife’s idea and spark that started it. When talking afterwards she was most insistent that I had missed some signs, which she could plainly see that I was completely blind to, from our friend. Had I seen, or been aware of those signs the first time would have likely been a few years before.

 

[Subsy]

I’ve been with a few couples…..I love having a woman there…..esp if she or they verbalize their desires. My main interest is sex with him but her getting off one way or another is such a turn on!

He had a really nice cock….she got off watching her husband and I play. I had an idea…..something novel. I asked them both to stand up, her in front both facing me. I reached between her legs to pull his cock up between her labias and against her clitoris. His cock was long enough to extend past her body.

For the first time she could see a cock sticking out from between her legs as though she had an erect penis. On my knees with them able to see everything in a big mirror….I proceeded to suck her very stiff cock. I kept my lips wet, on the glans and worked my lips and tongue against her too. Pretty soon they were moaning….and both moving…I was loving everything about this…..they both orgasmed….her hands pulling my head tight against her mons.

It was the first time for me to experience a couple cumming at the same time. It was wonderfully messy too.

 

[fma20fma]

I have requested my ex bf to let me watch him with his fav ladyboy. he didnt allow that. i had to smell his penis and guess where he was before visiting me.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Watching my wife suck a cock, then offer it to me, would be the most arousing thing ever to happen to me.

 

[Hitchiker69]

Its my hottest fantasy for a woman to seduce/coerce and encourage me to suck another man's cock for her or to get fucked while she watches and gets off.

This would be one of my ultimate fantasies, too. I'd let my wife think I was reluctant, and playing along only for her benefit. But secretly I'd suck cock passionately and eagerly with intense passion like I did when I was single.

 

[Islander55]

This is something we have just started to explore and I think it could be a nice additions to our sex life. I rather like taking a secondary role and encouraging or possibly assisting the two guys.

 

[muycurioso]

I saw a video years ago of a very average middle-aged couple in a 3some. Husband was watching her suck the 3rd (who was filming), and then she stopped and whispers on his ear. He just shakes his head "no" so she goes back to sucking.

A few minutes later she whispers in hubbies ear again, and again he shakes his head "no". Now I have a pretty good idea what she's whispering and I'm thinking, "DON'T DO IT!!"

This goes on for awhile and hubby finally gives in. At first I'm not on board but then I started thinking 'if my wife asked me to do it, I could never tell her 'no'.' And his wife was a really attractive version on that 1960s TV show mom with the short hair and nice soft curves, so I'm thinking I'd definitely do it with her, too.

So like many people answered, I have no desire to sneak off and do it myself but I could definitely do it as part of a 3some with her.

If anyone has found the video I mentioned above (or similar) and could share it, that would be great

I would say yes

 

[crazy4myhusband]

Oh Heck YES!!!

 

[lordpenizworth]

I've sucked cock in front of other men, and I've fucked my lady friend in front of a guy whom I was then-sucking (but not right then), but the world's haven't overlapped...yet.
I'd welcome any combo of it.

 

[bimwiguy1963]

Would be a definite turn-ON for me!

Wish my wife felt that way.

 

[Bob_Aganoush]

My wife loves seeing me with another guy, nothing gets her turned on more. She loves the act of bringing me over to admire his cock, and then encouraging me to touch it and suck it. Gets her going like nothing else.

 

[OldFred65]

My wife loves to watch me suck cock, and get fucked as well. She's the one that got me into bisexuality and I, and she, love it.

 

[Lee364]

I find this thread very interesting. Not the subject at hand but so many comments basically saying, "I want to but my wife doesnt know nor would approve". Whether you are a guy that wants to give a man a blowjob or a woman who wants to be dipped in honey before sex or a guy that wants to wear his wife's panties during sex, didnt you all talk about sex when you were dating? Didnt you both confide in each other on wants, needs, and desires? You are suppose to talk about this during the first part of intimacy and/or before you get married. How do you know that he wont freak out when he finds you masturbating with vegetables like you did growing up? How will you know that she wont freak out when you want another guy to join you both? Why not talk about the things that curl your toes? If you are too embarrassed to not talk to the person with whom you plan on spending the rest of your life with, perhaps you should have rethought if you should get married? What is the big deal? You probably talked about having children, finances, careers, favorite foods, pastimes and hobbies, but not about sex? I am not trying to beat down anyone, i am not hating but it is just strange to me. People on here have a very over developed sex drive. The kinks have no bounds; wouldnt you want to marry someone who appreciates your sex drive? I have read the threads about men who's wives have no sex drive and women who's husbands have no sex drive and my wife doesnt know this about me and my husband doesnt know that about me. Was there no communication at the beginning? You cant change them now, it is not who they are. If you wanted her to be an exhibitionist and flash the pizza guy, then that is something you should have talked about when you were dating to see how adventurous she is. If you have always wanted to peg your husband, you should have talked about that in the beginning, not now.
I realize that people do change, actually sexual drives and moods change as we all get older. But inside someones sexual center in their brains do not change. If they were very conservative when you dated, they will still be conservative when they are in their 40's. For the most part so dont chime back if you are the 1 in a billion who is different, lol. If they were freaky at the beginning, guess what, they still will be freaky.
My goodness, talk about sex and sexual things before you get married. Yes, people can fool you and be dishonest but usually people are honest and open with the person they wish to spend eternity with.

1. I am kinda interested in BDSM play.
If he/she freaks out, probably not the one to spend a lifetime of intimacy with.
2. I like to try bisexuality.
If he/she freaks out, again probably not the one to spend a lifetime of intimacy with.

Easy questions to ask and answer. Wouldn't you want to know if your betrothed is as kinky as you??

My wife and i did all kinds of sex talking before we got married. We each wanted to know what the other did, who they did, how the did it, what they want to do, are there any unfulfilled sexual fantasies that are unplayed? Talks like that ALWAYS led to hot sex, lol!

So talk now!

Excellent advice.

 

[Strixaluco]

You probably talked about having children, finances, careers, favorite foods, pastimes and hobbies, but not about sex? I

You have a point (or many).

But you'd be surprised to find out how many actually don't really talk about other big issues like finances either, at leat not enough. Or do they agree at all about how the want their children to be raised up. Or household chores to be divided. Or possible future career changes which might also affect the spouse.

The younger the couple, the more likely they are to not even realise everything there is to discuss. To understand the vast rainbow of possibilities how the other one can be different. Or to not even know what themselves enough.

Heck, I am in my 40's and only found out I am not all vanilla, as I've always thought. Kind of lucky it happened at a stage when I am single, as none of my exes would have been what I know to be looking now.

 

[anniebaby10]

Just finished reading all 14 pages of this thread. I must say I am very pleasantly surprised by all the positive comments, especially from the ladies.

My first time sucking a guy was with my wife and our good friend. There was no embarrassment, no humiliation, no coercion, just three adults enjoying themselves. She encouraged us, talked to us and of course was very turned on by the situation. And I thought we were the only ones who had discovered this!

I guess you could say it was wife’s idea and spark that started it. When talking afterwards she was most insistent that I had missed some signs, which she could plainly see that I was completely blind to, from our friend. Had I seen, or been aware of those signs the first time would have likely been a few years before.

after years of being bi curious and with my encouragement, I finally got my husband to suck a cock for me. We have a very good gay friend who is married and I approached him about this. He said he would love to and asked if his husband could be involved. So three hard cocks in one room with the two of them first sucking my husband was beyond hot. He came so hard and then began to play and suck each of them. I told him how much I loved watching and how proud I was for him to finally do this and while he did not swallow, he made both cum.

 

[Strixaluco]

One option is missing, though. Doesn't sound hot nor repulsive to me.

 

[haventdonethat]

after years of being bi curious and with my encouragement, I finally got my husband to suck a cock for me. We have a very good gay friend who is married and I approached him about this. He said he would love to and asked if his husband could be involved. So three hard cocks in one room with the two of them first sucking my husband was beyond hot. He came so hard and then began to play and suck each of them. I told him how much I loved watching and how proud I was for him to finally do this and while he did not swallow, he made both cum.

The exact words my wife used after the first time. I was kind of surprised because my thoughts were I was the one who should be proud of her!

Good for you both Annie, glad it was an experience you enjoyed. Did you get involved in the action? Asking for a friend . (not).

 

[Travler99921]

My wife never said she wanted to watch, but she always wanted to know what I did when I was with a guy. It became foreplay for our reclaiming sex.

 

[anniebaby10]

The exact words my wife used after the first time. I was kind of surprised because my thoughts were I was the one who should be proud of her!

Good for you both Annie, glad it was an experience you enjoyed. Did you get involved in the action? Asking for a friend . (not).

He did fuck me in front of them after. They have no interest in me

 

[hisplaceof]

Excellent advice.

So true so true so true. Lee364 – thx for digging this quote up.


DennisB said:

I find this thread very interesting. Not the subject at hand but so many comments basically saying, "I want to but my wife doesnt know nor would approve". Whether you are a guy that wants to give a man a blowjob or a woman who wants to be dipped in honey before sex or a guy that wants to wear his wife's panties during sex, didnt you all talk about sex when you were dating?

Errrr heck no. I did not know anyone who talked about sex except guys who did the whole macho guy thing.


Didnt you both confide in each other on wants, needs, and desires?

Hopefully times have changed but THAT is not something to did until after you were married and for most people they never even did that.


You are supposed to talk about this during the first part of intimacy and/or before you get married. How do you know that he won’t freak out when he finds you masturbating with vegetables like you did growing up?

Wow that’s why those veggies always smelled so alluring!


How will you know that she wont freak out when you want another guy to join you both?

That would have depended on who he was there for.


Why not talk about the things that curl your toes? If you are too embarrassed to not talk to the person with whom you plan on spending the rest of your life with, perhaps you should have rethought if you should get married?

I agree if only it were a requirement before getting married, then I bet less people would get married so blindly.

Imagine how many men would have run from their fiancés had they told them, I am going to have sex with 4 & 5 people at a time if you are not providing me with enough?

Or how many ladies would have ran had the man told them he was marrying her but would suck at least 5 cocks a week in addition to sex with her.


What is the big deal? You probably talked about having children, finances, careers, favorite foods, pastimes and hobbies, but not about sex?

Yes, yep, uh huh, yep, yes, you got it, and no. You sort of assume the sex part. Thank goodness the one I finally married I knew all about her but prior to that anyone else I’d been clueless. It wasn’t polite to ask girls about their past and no one was open enough to ask or share. Hope it has changed but I fear it hasn’t.


I am not trying to beat down anyone, i am not hating but it is just strange to me. People on here have a very over developed sex drive. The kinks have no bounds; wouldnt you want to marry someone who appreciates your sex drive?

Yes but many probably developed it over time during their marriages.


I have read the threads about men who's wives have no sex drive and women who's husbands have no sex drive and my wife doesnt know this about me and my husband doesnt know that about me. Was there no communication at the beginning?

Nope for many it is a big negative! Back to the whole, there needs to be a requirement of premarriage counseling and chatting. Spill the beans so to speak. Out with it ALLLL.


You cant change them now, it is not who they are. If you wanted her to be an exhibitionist and flash the pizza guy, then that is something you should have talked about when you were dating to see how adventurous she is.

Check list PLEASE:
Flash Pizza Guy for me every time we order pizza;
Moon pizza girl;
UPS delivery – always accept packages naked;
Drive through bottomless;
No panties as football game, short skirts;


If you have always wanted to peg your husband, you should have talked about that in the beginning, not now.

“Errrrr dude, if we marry I expect you to bend over every weekend to accept my 8 inch by 6.5 incher strap on dildo multiple times. Oh and yes you will be the one eating all the cum you produce!”

I’d probably ran if my girlfriend has said that, and then many years down the road regretted it for the rest of my life. So that’s the rub, how much to you divulge? When? How early? Obviously before the wedding date would be preferable. But then you might have 1, 2, 3 guys later all knowing your kink and most likely telling EVERY one! As an immature male back in the day, I can see that happening.


I realize that people do change, actually sexual drives and moods change as we all get older. But inside someones sexual center in their brains do not change. If they were very conservative when you dated, they will still be conservative when they are in their 40's. For the most part so dont chime back if you are the 1 in a billion who is different, lol. If they were freaky at the beginning, guess what, they still will be freaky.

But at some point something changed somewhere in them that got them freaky. My wife was not born freaky. She was born, grew up, early on discovered pleasure, then oral, then anal sex. The oral and anal stuck with her the most over time since she couldn’t get pregnant from them. When she gave into vaginal, the others were a large part of her sexual experience. Multi guys came into play with DP & Spit roasting, and so forth. One thing lead to another as she became more addicted to sex. Yes she was freaky for having threesomes but she did not start out that way. Had I met and we married early on she would not have had this in her repertoire.


My goodness, talk about sex and sexual things before you get married. Yes, people can fool you and be dishonest but usually people are honest and open with the person they wish to spend eternity with.

1. I am kinda interested in BDSM play.
If he/she freaks out, probably not the one to spend a lifetime of intimacy with.
2. I like to try bisexuality.
If he/she freaks out, again probably not the one to spend a lifetime of intimacy with.

Easy questions to ask and answer. Wouldn't you want to know if your betrothed is as kinky as you??

Yes, yes, and YES! But again all of a sudden someone knows that you like cum, anal, threesomes, moresomes, bareback sex, bisex, and they do not accept it. You spilled the beans and they know all about it. It’s fine if you will never see them again but chances are you already travel in the same circles.


My wife and i did all kinds of sex talking before we got married. We each wanted to know what the other did, who they did, how they did it, what they want to do, are there any unfulfilled sexual fantasies that are unplayed? Talks like that ALWAYS led to hot sex, lol!

I do agree but it has to be in the right setting, the people have to be mature enough, and there are A LOT of very immature humans on this planet.

 

[WordsAreErotic]

after years of being bi curious and with my encouragement, I finally got my husband to suck a cock for me. We have a very good gay friend who is married and I approached him about this. He said he would love to and asked if his husband could be involved. So three hard cocks in one room with the two of them first sucking my husband was beyond hot. He came so hard and then began to play and suck each of them. I told him how much I loved watching and how proud I was for him to finally do this and while he did not swallow, he made both cum.

I have oft fantasized about a scenario just like this with my wife. Sadly, the idea isn’t sexually appealing to her in any way. Luckily, I did experience something similar in my college years.

 

[anniebaby10]

I have oft fantasized about a scenario just like this with my wife. Sadly, the idea isn’t sexually appealing to her in any way. Luckily, I did experience something similar in my college years.

sorry she will not allow you to indulge your fantasy. She is missing out.

 

[Andreinasstud]

It would turn me off, but I do love watching him eat out women

 

[WordsAreErotic]

sorry she will not allow you to indulge your fantasy. She is missing out.

I will survive. At least I have the memory of my younger years to remember being coaxed into my first bi oral session.