I think you are suffering from the typical malase of our society. And, you must be rather atractive...
Anyhoo, people have been brought up with this largely over-romanticised view of relationships, and they expect everything to be like in the movies. It's not. People make mistakes. And it's not because they are men, but because they are human.
And, you have been subjected to a long string of assholes. That I can sympathize with.
