Younger women, older men

I've always had a thing for older men. Unfortunately, I'm not brave enough to go up and introduce myself and so many older men are also hesitant and shy to come say hi. But it's still fun to know when they are looking at the gym, mall, etc. Hispanic, 21 year old female, with long dark hair and dark eyes. Open to getting to know any interested older men that are around.

-Jenna
 
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Jenn, only a novice here on lit but you seem to have encapsulated my thoughts exactly. If a young woman who "may" be interested in me after a cursory glance at each other does not approach me, how am I to know talking with her may be the appropriate thing to do and not come off as "creepy"? It could be a "wishful thinking" thing that they are actually interested in the first place.
Would a nice smile back help let you know that you can approach me
 
honestly now.. men are on the complete defensive.. A wrong look and you are a creeper. Sad but true especially in a gym or something. Risk getting kicked for harassment or hostile environment.
 
I mean I’m not super young any longer sadly but older men generally tend to be more assured and confident without trying to hide obvious insecurities. That’s definitely a very sexy trait to have.
Beautifully said and delightful to know you appreciate old gentlemen with a wild side 👍💋
 
honestly now.. men are on the complete defensive.. A wrong look and you are a creeper. Sad but true especially in a gym or something. Risk getting kicked for harassment or hostile environment.
Yeah thats really unfortunate
 
honestly now.. men are on the complete defensive.. A wrong look and you are a creeper. Sad but true especially in a gym or something. Risk getting kicked for harassment or hostile environment.

The context makes a big difference too doesn't it, a look appropriate in a bar may well be out of place in the gym or workplace.
 
Yeah thats really unfortunate
I am generally very comfortable striking up a simple conversation. Sure there’s a fine line between friendly or creepy but often this is perception which I can’t control so as I’ve gotten older I’m much more willing to shoot my shot so to speak.
 
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