Younger women, older men

One of my Dad's friends lost his wife to cancer and was falling apart rapidly. Now don't get this wrong, despite being over twice my age I thought he was hot, I always had done, lean and athletic looking, physically fit, very distinguished with his full head of grey hair and really intelligent too. So that long Summer vacation I set about seducing him. The first time was dreadful, you'd think I was made of thin glass, I guess he didn't believe it and had all kinds of doubts and worries, still not enough so he couldn't get hard for me. The second time was loads better, I promised him we'd be discrete, we took our time and we enjoyed ourselves. The third time we had a long chat and I realised that I knew far more about the mechanics of sexual pleasure than he did. That day he let me teach him what I enjoyed and we had an amazing time, really pleasurable sex. OK I admit it, I got a real kick out of telling this far older and wiser man what to do. Well I certainly gave him his confidence back because the next time I went to see him he had a list of things he'd like to try all neatly written out. By the time I had to return to uni, despite ticking loads of stuff off, that list was a good bit longer and a whole lot kinkier.

That was the end, at Christmas he introduced me to his new 'girlfriend' who was only about twice my age. They are now happily married and my only interference was to let him know that if his new wife ever got curious and fancied a threesome I'd be there for them.​
 
One of my Dad's friends lost his wife to cancer and was falling apart rapidly. Now don't get this wrong, despite being over twice my age I thought he was hot, I always had done, lean and athletic looking, physically fit, very distinguished with his full head of grey hair and really intelligent too. So that long Summer vacation I set about seducing him. The first time was dreadful, you'd think I was made of thin glass, I guess he didn't believe it and had all kinds of doubts and worries, still not enough so he couldn't get hard for me. The second time was loads better, I promised him we'd be discrete, we took our time and we enjoyed ourselves. The third time we had a long chat and I realised that I knew far more about the mechanics of sexual pleasure than he did. That day he let me teach him what I enjoyed and we had an amazing time, really pleasurable sex. OK I admit it, I got a real kick out of telling this far older and wiser man what to do. Well I certainly gave him his confidence back because the next time I went to see him he had a list of things he'd like to try all neatly written out. By the time I had to return to uni, despite ticking loads of stuff off, that list was a good bit longer and a whole lot kinkier.

That was the end, at Christmas he introduced me to his new 'girlfriend' who was only about twice my age. They are now happily married and my only interference was to let him know that if his new wife ever got curious and fancied a threesome I'd be there for them.​
I really enjoyed your message. 72 m here and definitely a fantasy of mine.
 
I'm definitely in the attracted to older men club. Wisdom, experience, confidence, worldliness, settled, appreciative, open, more likely to take their time, focus on their partner (me!), etc.

Honestly, cannot find anything not to like about older men.

Sounds like an invitation to me …. Or am I mistaken? I’ve found that cultures outside the US commonly understand the mutual benefits of this and it’s no big thing. Not even about money. It’s about that care and focus of a dad mixed with erotic pleasure. One minute you are fucking passionately and the next you are giving advise. Helping her chart her future. … if that makes sense.
 
I am genuinely considering an intimate relationship with a younger woman, intellectual or physical or emotional or all of it.
 
One of my Dad's friends lost his wife to cancer and was falling apart rapidly. Now don't get this wrong, despite being over twice my age I thought he was hot, I always had done, lean and athletic looking, physically fit, very distinguished with his full head of grey hair and really intelligent too. So that long Summer vacation I set about seducing him. The first time was dreadful, you'd think I was made of thin glass, I guess he didn't believe it and had all kinds of doubts and worries, still not enough so he couldn't get hard for me. The second time was loads better, I promised him we'd be discrete, we took our time and we enjoyed ourselves. The third time we had a long chat and I realised that I knew far more about the mechanics of sexual pleasure than he did. That day he let me teach him what I enjoyed and we had an amazing time, really pleasurable sex. OK I admit it, I got a real kick out of telling this far older and wiser man what to do. Well I certainly gave him his confidence back because the next time I went to see him he had a list of things he'd like to try all neatly written out. By the time I had to return to uni, despite ticking loads of stuff off, that list was a good bit longer and a whole lot kinkier.

That was the end, at Christmas he introduced me to his new 'girlfriend' who was only about twice my age. They are now happily married and my only interference was to let him know that if his new wife ever got curious and fancied a threesome I'd be there for them.​
Ah, very sweet 🥴
 
One of my Dad's friends lost his wife to cancer and was falling apart rapidly. Now don't get this wrong, despite being over twice my age I thought he was hot, I always had done, lean and athletic looking, physically fit, very distinguished with his full head of grey hair and really intelligent too. So that long Summer vacation I set about seducing him. The first time was dreadful, you'd think I was made of thin glass, I guess he didn't believe it and had all kinds of doubts and worries, still not enough so he couldn't get hard for me. The second time was loads better, I promised him we'd be discrete, we took our time and we enjoyed ourselves. The third time we had a long chat and I realised that I knew far more about the mechanics of sexual pleasure than he did. That day he let me teach him what I enjoyed and we had an amazing time, really pleasurable sex. OK I admit it, I got a real kick out of telling this far older and wiser man what to do. Well I certainly gave him his confidence back because the next time I went to see him he had a list of things he'd like to try all neatly written out. By the time I had to return to uni, despite ticking loads of stuff off, that list was a good bit longer and a whole lot kinkier.

That was the end, at Christmas he introduced me to his new 'girlfriend' who was only about twice my age. They are now happily married and my only interference was to let him know that if his new wife ever got curious and fancied a threesome I'd be there for them.​
So you can teach an old dog, new tricks - if the incentive is compelling🥴
 
I can definitely relate to that story having spent a week with my online lover, 30 years my junior.
Emotionally moving at a deep level & sexually unforgettable
 
Just curious. How do older men approach younger women and not appear to be creepy? Asking for a friend.
 
I am a woman in mid-twenties and do not connect well with men under 45. I've had the funnest times with older guys that know what they want. Yay for the middle aged seasoned guys. And yes, I don't plan to stop.
atta girl!
 
One of my Dad's friends lost his wife to cancer and was falling apart rapidly. Now don't get this wrong, despite being over twice my age I thought he was hot, I always had done, lean and athletic looking, physically fit, very distinguished with his full head of grey hair and really intelligent too. So that long Summer vacation I set about seducing him. The first time was dreadful, you'd think I was made of thin glass, I guess he didn't believe it and had all kinds of doubts and worries, still not enough so he couldn't get hard for me. The second time was loads better, I promised him we'd be discrete, we took our time and we enjoyed ourselves. The third time we had a long chat and I realised that I knew far more about the mechanics of sexual pleasure than he did. That day he let me teach him what I enjoyed and we had an amazing time, really pleasurable sex. OK I admit it, I got a real kick out of telling this far older and wiser man what to do. Well I certainly gave him his confidence back because the next time I went to see him he had a list of things he'd like to try all neatly written out. By the time I had to return to uni, despite ticking loads of stuff off, that list was a good bit longer and a whole lot kinkier.

That was the end, at Christmas he introduced me to his new 'girlfriend' who was only about twice my age. They are now happily married and my only interference was to let him know that if his new wife ever got curious and fancied a threesome I'd be there for them.​
Super super hot
 
Just curious. How do older men approach younger women and not appear to be creepy? Asking for a friend.
I do it all the time. Usually in a swinging environment (easier) but not always.

I just don't see myself as an 'older man'. I don't dress like an old man. I don't act like an old man. I'm comfortable in my own skin and I'm confident and sociable. I'm naturally flirty and at the same time (partly because of my age) I'm seen as non-threatening.
 
Many women want to be comforted and protected and feel safe with an older man. They are also curious what it would be like to fuck and older man and most often want more when they get the chance.
 
Online it's just a pervy old man jerking off over young women's pictures. That's not real.

Not at all… hookupnsite apps. It’s a minority but they do. They want the experience. Some want a sugar daddy, but not all. Did an 18yo still in her senior year of HS. No money asked for. She wanted to try BBC and older…. Called me daddy before (not during). But OK. Not doing that anymore anyway but ok. Most will say no, but it’s. Numbers game.
 
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