Your partner's surprise turn on.

[bobsknickers]

Parner's surprise

My wife wa 'absolutely surorised' when I admitted wearing and wanking in her knickers. My fetish is a turn off for her. Not long after reveling my fetish she asked if I'd be upset/put off by her having a vibrator. Certainly, i wad surprised and the first few times she used it i wasn't allowed to watch but now i can and i find it a big turn on. She's even let me wank inti her knickers as she uses it. Not allowed to wear them though whilst she's there.

 

[southern_gal]

( I posted/mentioned this before)

With a GF, usually when we went to bed, she liked to put her head on my chest!!! and she stroked and watched me get hard... Sometimes just to the point of cumming... sometimes she slowed down... She loved to watch and touch my cock.

I have wanted one of my own for the longest time. They are just so much fun to play with.

 

[marriedlooker73]

Left there on purpose?

Well, I don't know for sure. But I will say that we had a super hot night last night after watching a movie that had a couple of non-consensual scenes. She was really turned on. Really turned on.

 

[southern_gal]

Well, I don't know for sure. But I will say that we had a super hot night last night after watching a movie that had a couple of non-consensual scenes. She was really turned on. Really turned on.

When I decided that I was ready to start letting more of me out of my shell, I left an erotic story on my laptop for hubs to see. He sometimes uses it when he is home. I had kept quiet about things for so long that it seemed to make it easier for some reason. Glad the two of you had a great evening.

 

[bibethhotwet]

I would have to say years ago for us it was nipple play. I had been with a number of men before I met my husband but I never met a man who liked his nipples sucked and rubbed like him. I love having it done to me too and can cum from having mine sucked / played with. He also has a thing about women wearing mens dress shirts...I happily indulge him

 

[marriedlooker73]

When I decided that I was ready to start letting more of me out of my shell, I left an erotic story on my laptop for hubs to see. He sometimes uses it when he is home. I had kept quiet about things for so long that it seemed to make it easier for some reason. Glad the two of you had a great evening.

Wish it would have turned into two! Maybe next time I get a hard on I'll just throw her down and gave my way with her and see if that's what she really wants.

 

[southern_gal]

Wish it would have turned into two! Maybe next time I get a hard on I'll just throw her down and gave my way with her and see if that's what she really wants.

If she was aroused by that sort of thing on video, perhaps. I am guessing that what with you being married to her you already know her signals. If it turns out to not be her cup of tea I am sure she will give off the signals and you will read them correctly. That or you may get a cast iron pan upside of your head. There is a reason we keep the biggest one from the set our mother's gave us.

 

[magicalmoments]

My husband is the one that bought me my first toy. I used to feel guilty using it. Now I need to buy stock in everready. I am always amazed when men want to actually see their wife with another man. Maybe it is more of a pride thing? Kind of like showing off what he gets to play with all the time? Dunno?

I've read somewhere that this desire of men to share their wives or watch them with other men is an expression of repressed homosexual desires. who knows?

 

[magicalmoments]

My wife is pretty boring sexually.

When I ask her what her fantasies are or what she thinks about when masturbating she either says "all my fantasies are about you" or "that's private."

She's pretty repressed sexually so I wonder if she is being truthful or has some really "out there" fantasies she is afraid to share with me.

That being said, I think she fantasizes about having a dick. After sucking me awhile, she likes to kneel between my legs and jack me off so it looks like it's her dick. When I try to engage her in why she likes doing it, she gets weirded out and changes the subject.

Another time, I was rubbing my cock up and down her crack and all over her asshole. I then grabbed her by the hair, turned her around and put it in her mouth. She started sucking it and then stopped and said, "Ewww it tastes like my butt." I said, "Good. Now fucking suck it, whore." She really started going to town on it then and when I reached down and touched her, she was dripping. When I later tried to talk to her about it she got all embarassed and refused to talk about it.

So to answer the question, I'm not really sure what her surprise turn-ons are as she really won't talk much about them.

She is afraid that you will judge her harshly or lose respect for her if she opens up her true fantasies to you. You need to do everything you can to reassure her of your unconditional love for her, that she could never think or do anything that cause you to think any the less of her and that to the contrary sharing her innermost secrets would enhance your love of her.

It's hard for most people to open up, expose their deepest desires. the fear of rejection is incredibly strong and hard to overcome.