Your penis size

[jehoram]

Mine is remorselessly average. Flaccid, about 4", Hard just shy of 6" and 4" circumference. No remarks (or complaints) from my lady friends.

 

[HampshireBoy]

(copied from my post in another thread)

I have a VERY large dick - and it's not all it's cracked up to be. Some may express doubts, but I have no reason to lie about it to a bunch of strangers on the internet.

it's 8 1/8" long - properly measured. Which means, ruler laid on top (not side! ...which adds length), and is lightly pressed against pubic bone. And my girth is a consistent 6 1/4" - the whole length. Even on a porn set - where only guys with big dicks need apply - my penis would be considered very large. According to calcSD website, based on world-wide averages, in a room of 1000 randomly selected men only 1 guy would have a penis with greater overall volume. Put another way, a woman would have to be with 250 guys to have only a 25% chance of encountering a dick as big or bigger.

Forget what you see in porn. The truth is, my outlier size/girth has done way more to hinder pleasure for my partners than it has to enhance it.. For my wonderful wife, giving me oral - which something she has always loved doing with other guys - is painful, her jaw clicks and is sore and loose the next day; anal sex is nearly impossible (without tons of pre-stretching w/ toys which just isn't practical and precludes spontaneity) and now that we are older, even vaginal sex has become painful. ..We literally use about 2-3 tablespoons of lube each time we have sex. And, thanks to my length, the tip of my dick hits her cervix WAYYY before my pubic bone gets anywhere near her vulva, or her butt cheeks if doing doggie - very frustrating for both of us. Why, oh why do men want an 8 (or 9, or 10, etc..) inch dick when the average vagina is 4-5" deep? Ask yourselves, men - wouldn't it be more pleasurable for both of you if your WHOLE dick would fit inside your partner?

My wife, when pressed, admits that when she fantasizes about other men (a normal thing to do - just as it is when I fantasize about other women) they always have much smaller cocks where giving oral is easy, and being penetrated is never painful. This is actually described in greater detail in my "Sharing My Wife Michelle" story. In it, my wife's new partner for the night has a much smaller dick and, because of it, is able to please her in ways I can't.

My wife and I still manage to have wonderful sex. ..But it's in spite of my huge cock, not because of it.

So if you're anywhere near average - be thankful for it. ..Your sex is probably better because of it.

Thanks for your honesty, I remember watching a TV programme interviewing guys with very large cocks, over 12 inches long IIRC. A couple of them actually stated that they wish they were smaller, partly because of painful sex for partners and partly because they hated being seen as a novelty and object for women rather than as a partner for a relationship.


I'm nearly an inch shorter than you and have experienced partners struggling to give me oral, I also had one partner where I used to apparently hit her cervix in certain positions - she certainly complained about pain and feeling me "hitting the back". How true that was I don't know but it did feel like I hit something.

 

[DirtyDieselTech]

My 7 1/2 inches in length is perfect for my wife, according to her. I do wish I was a bit thicker tho

 

[Luv2bnaked4u]

Thanks for your honesty, I remember watching a TV programme interviewing guys with very large cocks, over 12 inches long IIRC. A couple of them actually stated that they wish they were smaller, partly because of painful sex for partners and partly because they hated being seen as a novelty and object for women rather than as a partner for a relationship.


I'm nearly an inch shorter than you and have experienced partners struggling to give me oral, I also had one partner where I used to apparently hit her cervix in certain positions - she certainly complained about pain and feeling me "hitting the back". How true that was I don't know but it did feel like I hit something.

A large penis (lengthwise) can bruise the cervix

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

A large penis (lengthwise) can bruise the cervix

Gotta be gentle with it Use positions where it does not go in so far. You don’t just jam it in.

 

[LMWM321]

Thanks for your honesty, I remember watching a TV programme interviewing guys with very large cocks, over 12 inches long IIRC. A couple of them actually stated that they wish they were smaller, partly because of painful sex for partners and partly because they hated being seen as a novelty and object for women rather than as a partner for a relationship.


I'm nearly an inch shorter than you and have experienced partners struggling to give me oral, I also had one partner where I used to apparently hit her cervix in certain positions - she certainly complained about pain and feeling me "hitting the back". How true that was I don't know but it did feel like I hit something.

My girth is the bigger problem when it comes to oral. just getting the head in hurts her jaw. Yes, it's also too long to entirely fit, but that wouldn't stop it from feeling awesome. ..It's the girth that's the issue.

And my partner is quite motivated to do it. ...She's alway loved giving head to her previous partners, and is frustrated she can't adequately fulfill her desire to do it with me. We love each other deeply and are crazy attracted to each other.

As for the length, during PIV it's frustrating because we can't just casually pump away without one of us pushing so deep that I hit her cervix, which breaks her focus and enjoyment. ..it's like a constant balancing act that takes some of the fun away

Anyway, be happy with what you got guys... lf you really want to relate to my situation and disabuse yourself of doubts about your size, just buy a dildo that has 8" of insertable length and 6 1/4" of girth (yes, you can actually find them w/ very precise size specs) and offer it to your wife.

..My hunch is she'll try it once and say, "Meh... That's actually not so great. It kinda hurts. ....Let's stick with your average cock."

 

[Brains_N_Boobs]

Everything is bigger on the internet.

 

[Melody_Lightdraft2]

6.5 inches in length, 4.5 girth.

 

[Not Normal]

Studies show the average Penis size id 5.5-6inches and 5inches in circumference.

It would be interesting to see how the men on Lit measure up. Send me your length and circumference and I will compile the data.

I am 5.75 inches and 4.9 inches in circumference. Guys send me your numbers…be honest!

Ask your mom...

 

[LMWM321]

I think if you made a regular habit of it, you should be able to fuck her ass comfortably. Is she a small woman?

Just saw this while re-reading the thread. Sorry I didn't reply.

Yes, almost certainly so. There are lots of women in porn who are seemingly able to take gargantuan dicks - even fists! - in their asses with relative ease. .But my wife, who is a bit shorter than average, isn't sufficiently interested in anal to go through a weeks long training regimen (e.g., using a trainer kit of graduating girth butt-plugs, etc.) to accomplish it. Every once in a great while she senses my hunger for it and we give it a go. ..At most I can get maybe an 1" or 2" in her butt then usually give up before I cum b/c I sense she's merely enduring it rather than enjoying it.

The much bigger problem is oral b/c it's something she desperately wants to be able to do w/ me. ..And unlike anal muscles, there's only so much you can stretch a jaw muscle. To give an idea of my girth, bring the ends of a crisp $1 bill together. ..I'm still slightly bigger. ..It's a lot to expect that to fit in someones mouth OR ass.

Anyway... ..Just sharing my experience in the hopes it disabuses people of this silly idea that bigger is always better.

 

[Pabiporffor]

If guys were as thick as they claim they'd never get it through the average gloryhole

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Six inches long, five and a half circumference.

 

[LittleTitLover]

I guess I'm lucky, 8".

 

[AnglianBiker84]

6 inch long and 5.5 inch circumference

Had no complaints yet

 

[Grumpy1973]

What does it matter? Mine is 5¾" long and 5¼ in girth or about 1¾" wide. I've only had 3 partners over the years that I couldn't bring to orgasm with just using it.

Now, penis size is so convoluted in society, even more here. The fact is 95% of all human males have an average size cock. What is average? 4½" to 6" with a girth of slightly more than 4¾" is considered average. Just 2% of males have a dick between 6" to 9" and only 0.5% of the population have a dick over 9". The same is true for small penises as well. Only 2% of the population have a penis between 3" to 4.5" and only 0.5% have what is considered a micro-penis of 3" or less.

As for all those guys out there claiming you have a 9" dick with the girth of a pop can and are scoring a lot of pussy, give up the lie. Women may say they want and like that, but unless they are a size queen or prep adequately they won't have a pleasant experience. Porn actresses who do take monster cock have to prepare by stretching their vagina gradually and using a lot of lube for it.

 

[Bbl87]

6.5" length, 6.1" girth.

If guys were as thick as they claim they'd never get it through the average gloryhole

Nah, glory holes are usually gut pretty big, ha. But with average girth being about 4.7-4.8 inches, either the data is skewed here based on who is willing to share or there's some exaggeration. Which I know is ironic to say with my stated girth, but there are people on here who can verify it.

 

[Darty20]

I have never measured it , if u like it u like it .
Always willing to show

 

[dodgeboy2]

Ok here is an honest man who learned early on if you can please your partner orally they will remain happy even when you are my size.

4 1/2" stretched lol
3 3/4" girth

 

[Darty20]

Ok here is an honest man who learned early on if you can please your partner orally they will remain happy even when you are my size.

4 1/2" stretched lol
3 3/4" girth

Not many honest guys about

 

[dodgeboy2]

Not many honest guys about

Embarrassing so to be honest most of my life including now at times wishing I was at the very least the smaller side of normal, just for once in my life I would love to have an actual bulge in my pants. Also public urinals are sometimes a bit of a thing, I'll generally use a stall and close the door. But I guess if that's my only cross to bear it is what it is.

 

[Darty20]

Embarrassing so to be honest most of my life including now at times wishing I was at the very least the smaller side of normal, just for once in my life I would love to have an actual bulge in my pants. Also public urinals are sometimes a bit of a thing, I'll generally use a stall and close the door. But I guess if that's my only cross to bear it is what it is.

Nothing wrong with that , i understand why you do that

 

[slightlysubhub]

As rock hard as I can get it gets about 4.5” but haven’t measured girth,not too thick though. I’m a large fella too so the proportions look a bit off but I do cum quite a bit which my wife loves

 

[Qky75]

Personally, it all pends on how my circulation is any given day and temperature.

 

[Slappyslapowitz]

7in x 5.75in

 

[Goldenfinger]

Limp it’s just over 5.5” in circumference and the same in length.