Tales from the front lines

[DeservingBitch]

I don't have a blog to vent and share stories, comments, observations, and mockeries of my adventures into the sex industry. So, I'm starting a thread instead.

I know of at least two other sex workers here on Lit, one newbie like me, and one who's retired. Come on girls and share your stories with me if you feel like it. It should be fun.

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I'll start with some random comments/observations:

Being paid 250$/one hour for a guy to massage my feet, give me a pedicure, and lick my toes is as close as I've come to get a power trip orgasm. This guy is a keeper.

Dude, if you are so exhausted that you can't stop yawning and you have nothing else to say than 'I'm so tired', than WTF did you book an escort?

Kinky is definitely relative. For some, gently bitting someone's nipple is apparently being kinky. Wow.

You guys need to stop asking me what I'd like to do or telling me to do whatever I feel like. You and your balls don't want me to go there. Believe me.

Facking sexual pleasure is easy in comparison to facking appreciating the company of the very people I see as the epitomy of what is wrong with this world.


Stupid questions that guys have asked me so far:

"What's your real name?" - you don't understand the concept of a scene name, do you?

"Are you clean?" - no I'm not. So, wanna do it on the couch or in the bedroom?

"Why are you doing this job? Why don't you try getting a real job?" - why don't you leave the guilt at home with your wife?

"Are you really 26?" - no. Feel better now that you know?

"Why don't you get a boob job?" - why don't you get a lipissucion? you need it more than i need a boob job.

 

[ownedsubgal]

DB, some amusing stuff indeed.

i'm just curious, is your sex work as a pro-Domme/switch or other? also what motivated you to get into it?


btw, i'm a sex worker as well, tho on a relatively small scale. my Master whores me out from time to time, and i actually have some solid regulars established. not only has it been a wonderful and unique serving opportunity, but i've been really surprised by the wide variety of men, from various ethnicities, socio-economic classes, relationship statuses, etc... who seek out this sort of thing. the only common denominator seems to be the fact that they are all in need.

 

[catalina_francisco]

LOL, well this is definately a different attitude than I am used to hearing from the worker I know, but she also has a different outlook/approach I think. I also think working for herself allows her more choice and freedom, so she can and does refuse those she doesn't want to take on. Sounds like you have broken through the getting started phase and are well on your way to gaining a wealth of experiences. Glad to hear you have started, are having some positive experiences, and will hopefully find paying the bills easier.

Catalina

 

[BiBunny]

Wow. I was about to start a thread almost exactly like this. Way to read my mind, DB!

I'm a newbie phone whore, so mine won't be quite as much fun as yours. Here are some of mine, though.

~Don't mutter under your breath into the damned phone and get pissed off at me because I ask you to repeat yourself. If I can't understand a damned word you're saying, I can't help you out, buddy. Sorry.

~Don't ask me what it'd take to please me. Your vanilla ass does NOT wanna know.

~I love humiliation when I'm playing in real life. Somehow, though, you hurling insults like "you dumb bitch" over the phone seem to lack something when you think about it. You're the guy who's calling a phone sex line. I'm the capitalistic slut making money off your masturbatory fantasies. Now, tell me, am I really the dumb one in this equation?

I'm sure I'll think of more later.

 

[BiBunny]

Ok, I just realized that that post up there sounds grumpy. I actually love my job, and there are some really nice men who call me. But some of the stuff is rather...odd...indeed.

 

[LittleJade]

I think I'm going to end up loving this thread.


I've very seriously considered working for a phone sex line... but as phone sex is one of my selfish guilty pleasures, I think it'd ruin it for me...

 

[catalina_francisco]

I don't have a blog to vent and share stories, comments, observations, and mockeries of my adventures into the sex industry.

Do you have access to an online network of sex workers who have a forum like set-up? It can be benificial for those days when you need to sound off to someone who knows where you're coming from...and it can be good in other positive ways as well.

Catalina

 

[intothewoods]

There are a few sex worker bloggers that I'm aware of. I can't remember them off the top of my head, but I can go look if anyone's interested.

I talked to a girl who does some sex work - I actually gave her a ride to an event, and had no idea before the car ride that she dabbled. Anyway, I learned a lot, particularly that it's harder than it looks! I had always had it in my head that I could do it, actually. But she was explaining to me that it's not just having sex basically, it's really getting into it for that person.

I probably don't have that in me frankly.

 

[DeservingBitch]

DB, some amusing stuff indeed.

i'm just curious, is your sex work as a pro-Domme/switch or other? also what motivated you to get into it?


btw, i'm a sex worker as well, tho on a relatively small scale. my Master whores me out from time to time, and i actually have some solid regulars established. not only has it been a wonderful and unique serving opportunity, but i've been really surprised by the wide variety of men, from various ethnicities, socio-economic classes, relationship statuses, etc... who seek out this sort of thing. the only common denominator seems to be the fact that they are all in need.

I'm doing escorting for a relatively high end agency, which means that we mostly cater to rich middle-age business men from out-of-town. Very vanilla for the most part.

But I made it clear to the phone girls that I'm happy to take all the fetish/light SM/kinky calls. Most of those apparently are from feet-fetish guys, which is sort of my dream come true!

Money - or rather lack of - is what motivated me to get into the sex industry. I've been making myself sick, literaly, over the last year because of money trouble. With the PhD, teaching, and other commitments, getting a 'regular' job is not an option: I simply don't have the time nor the energy to work the number of hours that I would need to work to make what I'm making in an hour of escorting.

 

[DeservingBitch]

Do you have access to an online network of sex workers who have a forum like set-up? It can be benificial for those days when you need to sound off to someone who knows where you're coming from...and it can be good in other positive ways as well.

Catalina

Yes. I've been part of a community of feminist/sexuality/sex-workers bloggers for a while, which has already been very helpful in getting started and such.

But I thought I'd share the funny stuff with you guys.

 

[DeservingBitch]

~Don't ask me what it'd take to please me. Your vanilla ass does NOT wanna know.

Hehe. NOT answering the "what do you like?" question is the hardest one. There's this voice in me that is SCREAMING what I'd really like, and it takes work to keep it quiet!

~I love humiliation when I'm playing in real life. Somehow, though, you hurling insults like "you dumb bitch" over the phone seem to lack something when you think about it. You're the guy who's calling a phone sex line. I'm the capitalistic slut making money off your masturbatory fantasies. Now, tell me, am I really the dumb one in this equation?

It's like this guy who had this condescending attitude with me. Listen looser, I'm smarter than you, way hotter than you, and *I* certainly don't need to pay to get laid. So stop with the fucking attitude.

I'm impressing myself with my ability to just smile and be pretty. Years of teaching entitled white undergrads are showing.

 

[BiBunny]

Hehe. NOT answering the "what do you like?" question is the hardest one. There's this voice in me that is SCREAMING what I'd really like, and it takes work to keep it quiet!

Tell me about it! Sometimes, I'm sooooo tempted. But then I think of the money and somehow manage to keep my mouth shut.

It's like this guy who had this condescending attitude with me. Listen looser, I'm smarter than you, way hotter than you, and *I* certainly don't need to pay to get laid. So stop with the fucking attitude.

I'm impressing myself with my ability to just smile and be pretty. Years of teaching entitled white undergrads are showing.

LOL! I can relate, in a way. With my Southern accent and my supposedly young-sounding voice, the somewhat dumb bimbo act seems to go over pretty well. I keep amazing myself with my ability to sound chipper and lose about 70 IQ points every time the phone rings. Up 'til this point, I was only able to do that when I got pulled over for speeding!

 

[BradBigBrain]

Can I just say "wow". I love this thread. I have never enjoyed the company of a sex worker, but I am intrigued and am curious about their thoughts. I have a dear friend who is happily married now and is a former prostitute. We chat a lot about her former profession.

Thanks so much for sharing.

 

[ownedsubgal]

DB, you know you can probably generate quite a bit more funds (perhaps double what you earn now) working as an indy....although i realize that takes a lot of time and energy which you may not have with all of your other obligations.

Daddy has me set up as an indy, and has made a website and posts ads in various places, even CL on occasion. we're really selective about clients...must be 40+, married or involved, and actually NEED the services of a pro due to being neglected/misunderstood/unaccepted in his reg. life. i spend a lot of time talking with each guy on the phone beforehand, sometimes for weeks, to make sure the chemistry's right and they understand that i'm a sub.

which brings me to my most hated question from clients, that both you and BiBunny mentioned: "tell me, what can i do to please you?" uhh, HELLO, i'm a sub, i just wanna please YOU, that's supposedly why you came to see me in the first friggin place!!

another annoying thing are those guys who try to get you to top from the bottom...i.e. "would you put a dildo up my bum if i ordered you to?" uhhh, NO!!

 

[Bandit58]

I worked in one of the legal brothels here in Sydney for a short time (a few weeks) as a receptionist, until Sir got sick and they sacked me

The girls were nice, very friendly. Some of the clients though were rather creepy. I got hit on a couple of times The pay was under the table ($10 an hour plus $1 for every client that booked a girl).

I mostly worked the floor - meeting and greeting clients, showing them to the waiting rooms, calling the girls up and waiting while they introduced themselves, calling back the girl the client picked. I also carried upstairs countless baskets of laundry, washed, dried and folded it, made sure the chests of drawers were stocked, cleaned and re-stocked the rooms, vacuumed....after a 12 hour shift I was totally exhausted and my feet were like lumps of lead even though I wore comfortable shoes.

In the few weeks I worked there, I saved over $1000 in cash. Sir did tell me the pay was crap though. He has worked as a driver for escorts in the past, so he knows I've been tempted to try it again the money would definitely be handy! But the place would have to be close to home and the pay would have to be better

 

[Netzach]

My experiences are clearly really different. Because I was after a niche - it was a lucrative niche too - there are guys who really DO want to do purely what you want to do and their nutsack is along for the ride, no complaints.

I have to say, the foot boys are pure gold. Have you looked into any foot parties? They're a good way to get some great tips and make some good contacts, I didn't have a model like enough body to do those, man I wish I did.

I'm also phone talent. I have a "literate generalist lite-Dominant friendly sexpert" character for when I'm really broke and can salvage the energy to care deeply about other people's kinks in a kind caring way, and a main line which is largely dishing verbal abuse and whatever I feel like doing.

 

[DeservingBitch]

DB, you know you can probably generate quite a bit more funds (perhaps double what you earn now) working as an indy....although i realize that takes a lot of time and energy which you may not have with all of your other obligations.

Exactly. I don't have the time nor the desire to put the work it take to be a successful indy. With the agency, I don't have to bother with website and pics and such, I'm not the one who has to do all the filtering work on the phone, etc. Basically, the added amount of money I could make as an indy isn't worth the trouble for me. Plus, it takes time to built a clientele as an indy. With the agency, I get an established client-base. I also feel safer working with an agency than on my own.

another annoying thing are those guys who try to get you to top from the bottom...i.e. "would you put a dildo up my bum if i ordered you to?" uhhh, NO!!

hehehe. I would be more than happy to get paid to fuck to fuck some dude's ass.

 

[EmpressFi]

Sometimes I joke to both Malin and Master that I'm going to start up a phone sex line... this thread is great, thanks for sharing

course I wouldnt even begin to know where to start

 

[Netzach]

Exactly. I don't have the time nor the desire to put the work it take to be a successful indy. With the agency, I don't have to bother with website and pics and such, I'm not the one who has to do all the filtering work on the phone, etc. Basically, the added amount of money I could make as an indy isn't worth the trouble for me. Plus, it takes time to built a clientele as an indy. With the agency, I get an established client-base. I also feel safer working with an agency than on my own.


hehehe. I would be more than happy to get paid to fuck to fuck some dude's ass.

Dude, you SO CAN. I had to turn away so much of that it's saddening.

 

[DeservingBitch]

My experiences are clearly really different. Because I was after a niche - it was a lucrative niche too - there are guys who really DO want to do purely what you want to do and their nutsack is along for the ride, no complaints.

I have to say, the foot boys are pure gold. Have you looked into any foot parties? They're a good way to get some great tips and make some good contacts, I didn't have a model like enough body to do those, man I wish I did.

Yes, I should totally look into foot parties. I thought about it at some point and then forgot about it. I'll look into it.

 

[DeservingBitch]

Dude, you SO CAN. I had to turn away so much of that it's saddening.

Oh, I know they are out there.

I'm hoping to build a successful reputation as a 'kinky' escort to get those to come to me.

 

[DeservingBitch]

Dude, you SO CAN. I had to turn away so much of that it's saddening.

Question out of curitosity: was it personal choice to turn them away, or was it because of prostitution law in your lovely country?

 

[BiBunny]

Oh, I know they are out there.

I'm hoping to build a successful reputation as a 'kinky' escort to get those to come to me.

*Sigh* I think that would be SO much fun. Unfortunately, around here, it'd be a good way to get hauled off to jail, too.

 

[DeservingBitch]

*Sigh* I think that would be SO much fun. Unfortunately, around here, it'd be a good way to get hauled off to jail, too.

Land of the free and all that...

 

[BradBigBrain]

Land of the free and all that...

No doubt....