Did your first Big "O" freak you out?!?!?!?!

[EjAcKuLaToR]

Mine did...I was just learning how to masturbate, and would only take it "so far"...I couldn't go "all the way" with it because I thought if I did, my brain was going to explode and I'd have a heart attack! Ha!

I kept pushing it to the limit each time I did it and finally one time crossed over the line of no return...and I've never been the same SINCE!!!!!!!!!!

It did scare the absolute shit out of me the first time I went through with it though. All those times (probably 1,000 times over the period of a month or so...haha) I did it but would only let it get to feeling "good"...they addicted me to the sensation and kept me yearning for more.

For me, when I had sex the first time it was just about that wild too (meaning I was scared to do it, but once I did, I was hooked)!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Been hooked ever since.
Jack

 

[tammytoodles]

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[Cathleen]

I didn't learn how to masturbate until -- well, I wish it had been earlier (no Internet way back when). I heard about this 'coming' thing but didn't have a clue what it was about until whamo! It was crazy cool.

 

[rydia57]

When I first had the big O, well, I'm a late bloormer, that was six years ago, but it was such a turn on, I went a little wild with getting off, so I did have to pull myself off of it. I was getting off three or four times a day!

But it was dif when I first had sex. It was... one sided. I didn't feel anything, but I figured it was supposed to be like that, and as long as the guy got off, it was what it was all about. Hey, it was my first time, LOL.

 

[plesmone]

I had a "big" sister help me - that was the fantastic!!!

Mine did...I was just learning how to masturbate, and would only take it "so far"...I couldn't go "all the way" with it because I thought if I did, my brain was going to explode and I'd have a heart attack! Ha!

I kept pushing it to the limit each time I did it and finally one time crossed over the line of no return...and I've never been the same SINCE!!!!!!!!!!

It did scare the absolute shit out of me the first time I went through with it though. All those times (probably 1,000 times over the period of a month or so...haha) I did it but would only let it get to feeling "good"...they addicted me to the sensation and kept me yearning for more.

For me, when I had sex the first time it was just about that wild too (meaning I was scared to do it, but once I did, I was hooked)!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Been hooked ever since.
Jack

 

[gloriann]

No, it didn't scare me, it was awesome and now (and for many many moons because that was many many moons ago) I'm usually slightly disappointed when it's not a BIG one. Although they're all good in their own special way.

 

[RozieMozie]

I'm sitting here reading and trying hard to remember my first O, and I can't! I can't even remember if I came the first time I masturbated. One thing I do remember though was a period of time when I could not go to sleep without coming, I simply could not relax enough to fall asleep if I didn't.

 

[EjAcKuLaToR]

Rozie...I have been just like you in the respect that I went for many years and could not get to sleep unless I came first.
Jack

 

[EjAcKuLaToR]

The first time I masturbated was after I walked in on a good friend's older sister (she was about 3 years older than me) doing the deed. She begged me not to tell anyone what I saw, and I agreed, but asked her what she was doing...so she told me she was getting off. I didn't really understand what that was, but she kinda liked me and ended up telling me how guys "do it" from what her friends had told her. She told me that it would make me feel real good, but she didn't tell me that you could "cum" or what that was all about.

Anyway, I went home and grabbed my wood and started jacking it. As she said, it got to feeling great, so I stopped. I thought..."Mission Accomplished". So, I did it again and again and again and again. Ha! Every time it felt great...but I would always stop short of having an actual orgasm. I would stop before my head felt like it was going to explode basically.

A few weeks later this same girl and I were talking about the "getting off thing" and I told her that I did what she told me to do and how awesome it was. She asked if I came and I told her that it felt real good...but I didn't know what "came" meant. She asked if anything came out when I did it and I said no. She told me she thought I was doing something wrong and asked me if I wanted to masturbate with her and we could watch eachother do it...well HELL YEAH I DID!

So we went to my house and went up in my room (parents were gone). She told me to go first, and I took off my pants and underwear. Well, I started jacking off and when I was doing it, it started feeling great, so I stopped. She said...no don't stop, you have to keep doing it. I told her that I already came and she said "no you didn't, because nothing came out". Then she said to keep doing it, so I did. OH MY GOD I FOUND OUT WHAT CUM meant right then and there. I shot cum all over the place and she and I both laughed about it. I honestly thought I was going to have a heart attack when I came for the first time.

This lead to mutual masturbation sessions with this girl for the next few months. We never had sex or anything, but I learned a lot about how girls get off from those early experiences. It was awesome! Glad I had her as a friend, or I would have probably never learned how to jack off.
Jack

 

[cutebrowngirl]

wow. how are you guys remembering your first orgasms? I have been masturbating and cumming since before. I can remember.

 

[EjAcKuLaToR]

Plesmone...Please give us details... I think that guys a lot of times remember this stuff more than the ladies do because I think that maybe guys are taught to do it (like in my case) where it's just a natural thing for a chick to figure out how to masturbate. Girls probably "figure it out" at a very early age, where, I don't think I'd know to this day how to do it unless someone told me how to do it or unless I had sex and figured it out from there.
Jack

 

[cutebrowngirl]

lol. seriously? I think I would have become some kind of troll if I didn't know how....or slut? just glad I know how because I have given myself better orgasms than any man has. not that they suck, just that I am amazing lol

 

[EjAcKuLaToR]

You SHOULD BE amazing to yourself. You're feeling your sexual response...you can react instantly. The idea that you're good shouldn't surprise you.

Here's a challenge to you. Help your b/f, s/o or whatever you call your counterpart be as good as you.

I'm telling you that the world would be a better place if we as sexual beings would help our partners become as good at getting us off as we are at getting ourselves off.

Jack

 

[plesmone]

Ever wonder what happens at sleepovers? Sometimes girls like to pratice on one another to get some experience. Most in-experienced guys need to have an anatomy class before they shove their hand down a girl's pants. Nothing like a dry finger probing all the wrong placed to get a girl going. So, if you start complaining with some close friends, hopefully someone will show you how it is suppose to feel. My "big" sister demonstrated how it should feel and broght me to my first O and what an O it was!

Plesmone...Please give us details... I think that guys a lot of times remember this stuff more than the ladies do because I think that maybe guys are taught to do it (like in my case) where it's just a natural thing for a chick to figure out how to masturbate. Girls probably "figure it out" at a very early age, where, I don't think I'd know to this day how to do it unless someone told me how to do it or unless I had sex and figured it out from there.
Jack

 

[NocturnalFables]

My earliest memories about masturbation and orgasm was that I used to 'play house' with a neighbor girl. I was about 10 or 11 years old and she was probably a year younger. I used to lay on top of her, both of us fully clothed, and dry hump. I got off doing this but was very annoyed about it. I didn't realize what an orgasm was; all I knew was that it meant the fun and good feeling was over.

I remember at one point I had starting to refer to it is the 'light bulb being burnt out.' I have on very distinct memory of getting offer here and trying to walk it off. She was very into it and upset that I had stopped. When I said the light bulb was burnt out she angrily said, "Well change it!"

One time at a dinner party my parents were hosting, somebody said something about the cute girl I was hanging out with, noting the time we spent alone playing in my room. I tried to defend myself from any suggestion that I actually liked a girl as I was still professing girls were icky at that stage, by saying we just played 'boat' on the bunk beds. One of the other adults said, "Wow I could say something about that if we were all adults here." I think that was the first time I realized that adults could be assholes.

Our parents were both in the Air Force and there was a big going away party at our house for her family when they were leaving. My parents were big into having people over for dinners parties and such. The girl and I were alone in my bedroom and she said the one thing we had never done was playing naked. Unfortunately I was scared to death of getting caught with so many people in the house so we just did it with cloths on.

After she left I had started masturbating by rubbing against a pillow. I was very annoyed when 'stuff' started coming out.

We saw each other again about 5 years later, but neither of us mentioned any of it.

 

[fenghuang]

When I was about 10, someone in the school gym changing rooms started a conversation about using soap to "grease the pole" so I learnt to masturbate by lubing up my cock with soap in the bath.

The first time I ejaculated was when I was about 14. We were staying in a hotel and it was the first time I'd ever had a room to myself. I was sat on the end of the bed looking out the window and playing with myself when I shot my load over my hand. I don't remember the physical sensations at all, but I do remember not knowing what was happening, being quite disturbed about it and hobbling to the en-suite with my trousers round my ankles to clean it up. I think I thought I'd broken my cock. LOL

 

[twysted73]

Was swimming in a public pool. Legs got tired so I went over to the side of the pool and rested my arms crossed over one another, chest against the side, head on my arms. Eyes were closed. Body started to drift away from the wall. Why?
Extremely powerful water jet right where I had stopped.
No worries. Felt like I was on an air bed.
Well, until it followed the contour of my abdomen and opened up my bathing suit front.
Felt good. Dreamily so.
All of an effing sudden I'm peaking and going over. Pounding one fist on the cement edge while biting into my other arm, vision going black with little white flashes intermittenly thrown in.

I almost sank to the bottom of the pool right then and there.

9 years old.

Yeah.....from there I went through almost every lubricant one can find in a household trying to regai that moment. Shaving cream, gel, styling mousse, shampoo, soapy lather.....finally settled on conditioner.
Hell yeah.

*laughs at self*

 

[Jabberjabber]

I started being interested in the differences at 4 years old when I was caught in the coal shed with the little girl next door. Doctors and nurses, if only I knew what I know now.

 

[blueyz22]

I think that guys a lot of times remember this stuff more than the ladies do because I think that maybe guys are taught to do it (like in my case) where it's just a natural thing for a chick to figure out how to masturbate. Girls probably "figure it out" at a very early age

Yes most girls figure it out. I did it in the bathtub. Made the water flow over my clit and brought myself to orgasm. Once I figured out how good it felt, I did it almost everytime I took a bath.

I don't know what made me try it in the first place but it certainly worked. I was young, don't want to say my age because it might get deleted. I still do it in the tub from time to time.

 

[RozieMozie]

reading this thread i am shocked at the number of guys who were not taught about cum (or sperm) in "sex ed" and had no idea that something would come out of their dicks

 

[EjAcKuLaToR]

I'm pretty old. I can tell you that in my case, I learned about masturbation VERY SHORTLY before sex ed in my school system.
Jack

 

[sutherngent985]

Im old enough that about all we got as far as sex ed in school was "You have a pole, she has a hole, dont get her pregnant". It was never said how she got pregnant. And that was a few years after my first time.

First time I came was in a wet dream. I woke up with this funny feeling in my tummy, went to the bathroom and just about freaked. There was all this white stuff coming out of my dick. I never did say anything about it to anyone. Soon after that I learned how to do it myself and never looked back LOL.

 

[fenghuang]

reading this thread i am shocked at the number of guys who were not taught about cum (or sperm) in "sex ed" and had no idea that something would come out of their dicks

I'm pretty sure I knew the mechanics, but being used to masturbating and not ejaculating, surely it's no wonder the first time was a surprise.

And anyway, how many kids listen in class ... especially a teacher talking about embarassing things like sex. All we wanted to do was look at teh pictures ... on our own. (Who says males are repressed LOL)

 

[BritPup]

reading this thread i am shocked at the number of guys who were not taught about cum (or sperm) in "sex ed" and had no idea that something would come out of their dicks

When I had sex ed it was in the early 70s. It covered men and women and their bits but abosultely NOTHING about how one of the sperm got from A to B. Yup - we all left that class thinking one of the sperm took a very long trip down the guy's leg and up the girl's leg. There was no bump/grind/rub/tug background at all.

Anyways, I had started having the usual wet dreams as a kid and was freaked out by them (like someone said above - I thought my cock was broken). But I distinctly remember one morning that I was just holding myself - don't even think I was actually stroking it - and it went off as a proper O. Big surprise, but I realised it was the missing link from that sex ed class.

I was chuffed - partly at the feeling but mostly because I knew. I remember REALLY wanting to tell people about it - just like when I first learnt to whistle. Being a Brit, I kept it to myself.

That's Great British Sex Ed for ya!

 

[wickedlady31]

honestly

I had orgasms at a young young age. I never knew that is what they were. I knew it felt damn good to hump everything and I did it until I felt that throbbing pulsating sensation that made my legs weak. I thought orgasms were beyond that...so as I was an adult...I realized...shit, I've been having orgasms since I was about 7.