How do I find a married lover

[macdoug57]

I know this sounds dopey. But I am 51 and have searched for a lover for a few years....the sites don't seem to work. Anyone have any ideas?.

I hate to say it and I might be wrong.....but it seems women have it easier here....a good friend of mine once said "a guy goes out hoping to get laid....a lady goes out wondering who it will be"

Tom

 

[Mac98]

...what???

 

[macdoug57]

hey

I just want to kmow if anyone has any secret tips to find the women that must be out there...I havent figured it out

 

[Mac98]

And you want already married women?

 

[gloriann]

a) I don't know if it's easier for women

b)Tthe post is vague

c) Why would you want someone who's already married? Seems like you're just asking for trouble, IMO

 

[jacks4u]

c) Why would you want someone who's already married? Seems like you're just asking for trouble, IMO

Could it be that getting laid by a married woman will almost guarantee some emotional detachment, and keep the relationship to the purely physical pleasures? No guarantee of either, but a stronger likelyhood.

 

[fgarvb1]

I have no ideal why you would want this.

I don't do this and don't recommend anyone else do it either.

With enough searching you will find something like it anyway.


http://www.ashleymadison.com/

 

[JohnMBrowning]

Could it be that getting laid by a married woman will almost guarantee some emotional detachment, and keep the relationship to the purely physical pleasures? No guarantee of either, but a stronger likelyhood.

That makes sense. Theoretically. In practice? No idea.

 

[ples]

Married men do not take to guys with their wives kindly

 

[Submission13]

Why would you want a married lover?

 

[ples]

Married men do not take to guys with their wives kindly

I like married men with something to offer (me that is)

 

[macdoug57]

hmmmm

My desire for a married woman is that we would both have a risk...that makes it more tintillating

 

[cadman7777]

I like married men with something to offer (me that is)

So what do they have to offer you?

 

[Wyldfire]

My desire for a married woman is that we would both have a risk...that makes it more tintillating

Right, you do know you could get the same thrill by playing russian roulette by yourself right? (Please, please take this advice).

I find cheating bastards that look to potentially destroy another relationship besides their own repulsive and repugnant.

 

[rainbowgirl1028]

there are other ways to take risks, imo. more power to you, though, if that's what you wanna do...

 

[Mac98]

Right, you do know you could get the same thrill by playing russian roulette by yourself right? (Please, please take this advice).

I find cheating bastards that look to potentially destroy another relationship besides their own repulsive and repugnant.

Amen! I find it strange how some people feel they have the right to go in and ruin a relationship. If you wanna' ruin someone's life, ruin your own. That's my opinion.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

My desire for a married woman is that we would both have a risk...that makes it more tintillating

adultfriendfinder is quite good for casual stuff. Master and I have been fishing for playmates on alt.com and they're run by the same people in much the same way.

There's Lit personals too.

Like everyone else, I'd advise against jeopardising your marriage. With a little bit of work, surely you can spice things up more at home? If you want to talk about that here, I'm sure you'll get some helpful advice. If you're determined to go outside your marriage then I agree that looking for a woman who wants the same thing is probably lower risk than other options might be.

 

[Eilan]

There's always that Ashley Madison site. Life is short, have an affair, and all that. . .

 

[FreedomOverdose]

as VelvetDarkness said, you better go to aff

 

[Eilan]

as VelvetDarkness said, you better go to aff

From what I've seen of your previous posts, I think you should change your username to AdultFriendFinderOverdose.

 

[Nightbird]

What the hell is tintillating? Whats it mean?

 

[_Virginia_]

Try the chat room. They're all married there.

 

[ravi64]

My desire for a married woman is that we would both have a risk...that makes it more tintillating

another plus is that both need to keep the affair under wraps good choice

 

[Lost_Yonder]

Affairs are what make the world go around! monogamy is a joke. there are plenty of married women willing to take the "risk" too - nobody is being forced into an affair - why the moralizing about ruining other people's relationships?

AFF is a waste of time, craigslist is getting that way, but still the best game in town. post an ad and see who pops up - who knows, maybe your own wife is looking!

 

[StrayKat]

I was about to offer my husband but then I realized you are looking for a woman.
Just my luck.