Mind Games (the fun kind)

[lady_jennaxx]

I'm not talking about anything negative here. Making someone feel shitty about themselves is bad practice.

I'm curious if there are folks out there that consider themselves highly suggestible when in a particular state of mind (such as arousal. I know, shocker).

I've known some men who enjoy that aspect of release and find it enhanced
their experiences, yet others shut down at the possibility, in fear of being "made" to engage in practices against their will.

I don't practice hypnosis so I'm not looking for volunteers, lol. Just some feedback.

Carry on and happy Friday

 

[lady_jennaxx]

I definitely enjoy the mindgame part of it. Being desperate, on the edge of arousal. It definitely makes me more open to being taken to ... dark? places, not as in feeling bad about myself per se, but just being more open to the play and submissive. It's certainly much easier to implant thoughts in my head in that space that stick! I want a woman to toy with me a bit once she has me in that spot.

Hopefully you have someone you trust that would experiment with you

 

[surferjake]

I think, in general, I take instruction fairly easily.. but definitely in a high state of arousal, I'll likely do most anything I am told to do at that time.

I know some have a personality that would rebel at it. But I'm def of the other sort. Though, on a day to day, normal part of the day, I am somewhat more difficult to tell what to do, unless we share some trust.

I'm not talking about anything negative here. Making someone feel shitty about themselves is bad practice.

I'm curious if there are folks out there that consider themselves highly suggestible when in a particular state of mind (such as arousal. I know, shocker).

I've known some men who enjoy that aspect of release and find it enhanced
their experiences, yet others shut down at the possibility, in fear of being "made" to engage in practices against their will.

I don't practice hypnosis so I'm not looking for volunteers, lol. Just some feedback.

Carry on and happy Friday

 

[lady_jennaxx]

I think, in general, I take instruction fairly easily.. but definitely in a high state of arousal, I'll likely do most anything I am told to do at that time.

I know some have a personality that would rebel at it. But I'm def of the other sort. Though, on a day to day, normal part of the day, I am somewhat more difficult to tell what to do, unless we share some trust.

Thanks surferjake

 

[RightFootFrwrd]

Happy Saturday,

For me, sex has always been a mind game. This was true when I was 13, and it's still true 20 years later. Like most people, as I become more aroused I am more likely to engage in kinkier, dirtier sex; however, I don't necessarily have to be turned-on to do such things, my inhibitions are simply lowered. Where I notice the mental aspect the most is the detachment between: what I want and what I pursue, my public aspect and my "bedroom" personality, and my feelings of ecstasy contrasted with feelings of confusion.
This has led to an interesting sex life, as well as interesting fantasies, as I enjoy sex with men and women, I love being submissive to both, but I also dominate both. Sometimes the man that I am in the bedroom is exactly as I am at work, sometimes I can't even recognize myself.

Thank you for another interesting question Lady Jenna, as I have said in the past, I always enjoy reading your posts.

 

[lady_jennaxx]

Happy Saturday,

For me, sex has always been a mind game. This was true when I was 13, and it's still true 20 years later. Like most people, as I become more aroused I am more likely to engage in kinkier, dirtier sex; however, I don't necessarily have to be turned-on to do such things, my inhibitions are simply lowered. Where I notice the mental aspect the most is the detachment between: what I want and what I pursue, my public aspect and my "bedroom" personality, and my feelings of ecstasy contrasted with feelings of confusion.
This has led to an interesting sex life, as well as interesting fantasies, as I enjoy sex with men and women, I love being submissive to both, but I also dominate both. Sometimes the man that I am in the bedroom is exactly as I am at work, sometimes I can't even recognize myself.

Thank you for another interesting question Lady Jenna, as I have said in the past, I always enjoy reading your posts.

Thank you RightFootFrwrd

 

[lady_jennaxx]

Am enjoying the positive responses thus far.

Actually gives one pause about learning to do such things

 

[lady_jennaxx]

I should add...the mind games are only entertaining when your attention span enables you to focus and sustain

 

[naughtymind]

Late to the party

I hadn’t seen this thread yet, but it is very intriguing. I definitely find my own kinks tend to both expand in both variety and intensity if I’m at a certain level of arousal. I quite like the feeling of being much more open and willing to indulge in my lovers desires; whether they are mine or just hers. Part of it is about trust obviously. It’s very fulfilling and exciting to trust someone enough to be completely open to suggestion; sort of a combination of uncertainty about exactly where that may lead, mixed with the confidence that it will be special, pleasurable, and bring us closer.

 

[lady_jennaxx]

I hadn’t seen this thread yet, but it is very intriguing. I definitely find my own kinks tend to both expand in both variety and intensity if I’m at a certain level of arousal. I quite like the feeling of being much more open and willing to indulge in my lovers desires; whether they are mine or just hers. Part of it is about trust obviously. It’s very fulfilling and exciting to trust someone enough to be completely open to suggestion; sort of a combination of uncertainty about exactly where that may lead, mixed with the confidence that it will be special, pleasurable, and bring us closer.

Very eloquently stated

 

[naughtymind]

Thank you Lady Jenna

 

[lady_jennaxx]

Thank you Lady Jenna

You're welcome naughtymind

 

[lady_jennaxx]

Bumping because I can

 

[lady_jennaxx]

Another bump

 

[Smoothshavendad]

Another bump

You can bump me anytime!

 

[lady_jennaxx]

You can bump me anytime!

Thanks Smoothshavendad

 

[HardSub4U]

I definitely find I'm much more susceptible to suggestion when highly aroused. However, and although I have to be careful to not get too carried away, I actually find it arousing in itself to be in that suggestive state. That then feeds into the arousal even more, creating an arousal/suggestibility feedback loop.

 

[supercollider00]

I mean really the psychological aspect of D/s is what makes it delicious. All of the physical aspects come #2.

 

[lady_jennaxx]

I mean really the psychological aspect of D/s is what makes it delicious. All of the physical aspects come #2.

Agree

 

[supercollider00]

Agree

Ironically, that's also what makes most Dommes much better than most Doms in my experience. At least online ha.

 

[lady_jennaxx]

Ironically, that's also what makes most Dommes much better than most Doms in my experience. At least online ha.

When there is a genuine mutual understanding and appreciation of what each brings to the table, the dynamic can flow naturally

 

[lady_jennaxx]

A good mind fuck is priceless

 

[Mapleleaf61]

Limits???

Love the question!

I love discussions where limits are pushed or explored.
I have had discussions with a Domme over the last several years and we have a good relationship, albeit long distance.

We were talking one day and I expressed how I would love for her to dominate me in real time.

she responded "would you suck a cock if I told you to?"

My heart stopped (well actually according to Fitbit I jumped into the extreme cardio zone)

The thought had never crossed my mind and now I cannot wait for it to happen. We have developed numerous scenarios where she is in control and makes me do even more.

I have saved the scenarios we have texted and just reading them turns me on immensely.

 

[lady_jennaxx]

Love the question!

I love discussions where limits are pushed or explored.
I have had discussions with a Domme over the last several years and we have a good relationship, albeit long distance.

We were talking one day and I expressed how I would love for her to dominate me in real time.

she responded "would you suck a cock if I told you to?"

My heart stopped (well actually according to Fitbit I jumped into the extreme cardio zone)

The thought had never crossed my mind and now I cannot wait for it to happen. We have developed numerous scenarios where she is in control and makes me do even more.

I have saved the scenarios we have texted and just reading them turns me on immensely.

Hope you both can make wicked things happen

 

[WildDaisie]

Hope you both can make wicked things happen

I love my mind to be tempted as much as my body. It enflames and arouses my mental senses as well as my physical body, thus allowing me to fly free ...