Mind Games (the fun kind)

[WillsCuriousity]

I like gently mind games. The best partners I have had, both IRL and via the internet are ones where we knew each other well enough to get into each others heads.

Games that involve a bit of humiliation or shame (and most bdsm falls somewhere on the spectrum) are very freeing. It takes you past the place where hang ups apply.

What ever a person's fetish is there is a way to do it that isn't destructive. That's my own experience.

Most of us are looking for permission to do things that on some level we feel like we shouldn't be doing. Our society is full of so many mixed messages.

 

[lady_jennaxx]

While I agree there are mixed messages and misinformation out there, one thing is quite clear (for me anyway)...owning what I like and how I like it, is crystal clear, and that in itself, is a gift

 

[lady_jennaxx]

I'm not talking about anything negative here. Making someone feel shitty about themselves is bad practice.

I'm curious if there are folks out there that consider themselves highly suggestible when in a particular state of mind (such as arousal. I know, shocker).

I've known some men who enjoy that aspect of release and find it enhanced
their experiences, yet others shut down at the possibility, in fear of being "made" to engage in practices against their will.

I don't practice hypnosis so I'm not looking for volunteers, lol. Just some feedback.

Carry on and happy Friday

Mind games...anyone?

 

[NickN_]

Mind games...anyone?

I am very susceptible to this. For me it is very easy to slip into a mode where my mind almost turns off. The only way to describe it is basically feeling like a puppet, as I do what is asked of me.
And like you said in your original message it is amazing good fun!

What kind of mind games are you thinking?

 

[lady_jennaxx]

I am very susceptible to this. For me it is very easy to slip into a mode where my mind almost turns off. The only way to describe it is basically feeling like a puppet, as I do what is asked of me.
And like you said in your original message it is amazing good fun!

What kind of mind games are you thinking?

You sound like a fun person feel free to PM if you'd like

 

[surferjake]

Mind games...anyone?

I do tend to take direction, and then get deeper into following whatever is next regardless, as a neural progression. Can be very fun and liberating.

 

[lady_jennaxx]

I do tend to take direction, and then get deeper into following whatever is next regardless, as a neural progression. Can be very fun and liberating.

Yes, great observation, it is very freeing indeed

 

[YoungToy]

Definitely a change of mindset when Im arroused versus when Im not. When my body isnt turned on, its a lot easier to focus and be conscious of what Im doing. Theres sometimes, though, when Im really turned on and being seduced that Im a lot more open to trying different things and letting go. Its difficult to find someone who can arrouse me like that.

 

[Thom_the_gleeman]

I have expirienced this one of two times, aflossing myself to be edged for so long that I became very suggestible to the woman I was playing with. To the point where she made me do things I would not normally do while playing online, and I enjoyed those immensely. I do not think I would have crossed hard limits though. It was a very powerful expirience, and took a lot of intimate time to get to that point. But it was certainly worth the effort.

Love, Thom

 

[Orangesliice]

Lady Jenna is amazing with the mind games. I still can’t get half of the stuff she has said out of my mind

 

[MaggieTheUnicorn]

Mind games are plenty of fun. I would really enjoy it if someone would play with me

 

[TempSpawn]

Mind games are plenty of fun. I would really enjoy it if someone would play with me

Anything in particular you like playing?

 

[MaggieTheUnicorn]

Anything in particular you like playing?

I like to be what gets played with.... haha. I want to be toyed with and driven wild. A good tease and edge.

 

[TempSpawn]

I like to be what gets played with.... haha. I want to be toyed with and driven wild. A good tease and edge.

Sounds like fun to me to.

 

[lady_jennaxx]

It's been too long since I've administered a great mind fuck. I miss it.

 

[MaggieTheUnicorn]

It's been too long since I've administered a great mind fuck. I miss it.

Well then, perhaps you should change that. What's stopping you?

 

[lady_jennaxx]

Well then, perhaps you should change that. What's stopping you?

Finding a strong, capable and willing candidate is half the battle

 

[wickdtyme]

I'm not talking about anything negative here. Making someone feel shitty about themselves is bad practice.

I'm curious if there are folks out there that consider themselves highly suggestible when in a particular state of mind (such as arousal. I know, shocker).

I've known some men who enjoy that aspect of release and find it enhanced
their experiences, yet others shut down at the possibility, in fear of being "made" to engage in practices against their will.

I don't practice hypnosis so I'm not looking for volunteers, lol. Just some feedback.

Carry on and happy Friday

Feedback, well I can tell you for sure that at least myself becomes a different person while aroused and very submissive when a stronger female is talking to me. Doesn't even have to be in a humiliating way or degrative granted I would respond the same even with that tone. I have done things under the direction of another lady which normally I would never think of doing, let alone do without that suggestive push. Not sure if any of that made sense.

 

[VikingPhoenix]

I definitely find I'm much more susceptible to suggestion when highly aroused. However, and although I have to be careful to not get too carried away, I actually find it arousing in itself to be in that suggestive state. That then feeds into the arousal even more, creating an arousal/suggestibility feedback loop.

I couldn't agree more. Lol..in like your term. Arousal/suggestibility feedback loop. I'd say this is the time to ask for what you really want and its important not to ask early. This heightened state of arousal has comes with a degree of trust. I had a girlfriend that insisted that I cum inside of her, she even pulled off the condom. After I came, she instantly panicked and got angry. I did not laugh but was a little confused. I was younger then. Now, I only come when I chose to.hehe! Thanks for the conversation