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Brother, I'm right there with you. Chemistry seems to be a rarity anymore. Once you find it, protect and guard it, because after finding it and then losing it is simply one of the most empty feelings one can suffer.
 
I miss meeting somebody who got me right off the bat.

I miss meeting somebody who was into me and what I have to say and not just answering questions.

I miss meeting somebody who has a propensity to talk a lot.

I miss meeting and being able to talk to them throughout the day. Or at least part of their day.

I miss meeting someone who can allow me to be sexy and funny. Flipping back-and-forth.

I just miss meeting someone.

Do we have chemistry?
Yessssss!! To this entire post. Why is this so hard to find? Genuine connection is the spark that makes everything else meaningful. When two people feel safe enough to be real with each other—unfiltered, attentive, present—desire stops being performative. It becomes alive and fucking delicious. It’s about attention. Listening. Feeling the rhythm of another person’s thoughts and emotions and meeting them there.

Because when the mind is engaged, when connection is authentic, every touch carries deeper resonance. A brush of fingers feels like lightning. A whisper sends shockwaves of pleasure

The most explosive sexual experiences rarely begin in the body at all. They begin with curiosity. With presence. 🔥

Whoa.. that just flowed out. It’s obviously something that’s been on my mind as well. I’m going to put some of this in my bio. I think it sums up what I’m looking for perfectly.

I hope you find it too!
 
It's really hard to go from having it to not. It's becoming harder and harder to find it (or am I getting too old?!), but it's important to remember that we never expected it in the first place, and sometimes lightening does strike again. If we're lucky.
So true! I realized long ago that the right person takes time. There is no urgency, mistakes will be made if make hasty decisions. I've found some wonderful people online when I least expected it. Oh yeah, i do have a few 'burn" marks on me :unsure:
 
Yessssss!! To this entire post. Why is this so hard to find? Genuine connection is the spark that makes everything else meaningful. When two people feel safe enough to be real with each other—unfiltered, attentive, present—desire stops being performative. It becomes alive and fucking delicious. It’s about attention. Listening. Feeling the rhythm of another person’s thoughts and emotions and meeting them there.

Because when the mind is engaged, when connection is authentic, every touch carries deeper resonance. A brush of fingers feels like lightning. A whisper sends shockwaves of pleasure

The most explosive sexual experiences rarely begin in the body at all. They begin with curiosity. With presence. 🔥

Whoa.. that just flowed out. It’s obviously something that’s been on my mind as well. I’m going to put some of this in my bio. I think it sums up what I’m looking for perfectly.

I hope you find it too!
If and when you both get past the "friendship" stage, it makes for the physical memories that much more special and intense. That is what I definitely want and look for.
 
it's also rare to connect with anyone at all, let alone via a website like this.
So true, come to think of it, I think I build a thicker barrier around me because of this specific site. I'm in no way saying that the people/friends here are less desirable or authentic. I'm saying that because of the topics, it is a little more of an uphill climb building trustworthy friends at first. For me it starts out friends first then progresses to the kinks and taboo stuff, that's just IMO for me.
 
I miss meeting somebody who got me right off the bat.

I miss meeting somebody who was into me and what I have to say and not just answering questions.

I miss meeting somebody who has a propensity to talk a lot.

I miss meeting and being able to talk to them throughout the day. Or at least part of their day.

I miss meeting someone who can allow me to be sexy and funny. Flipping back-and-forth.

I just miss meeting someone.

Do we have chemistry?
My degree is in human biology, but I have taken several chemistry classes.

I worked for 8 years at a fertility center. I can teach you how everything works, needing biology and chemistry
 
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