BornNorCal
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Lit is full of surprises.Beautiful. And probably not expect it to hit from lit!
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Lit is full of surprises.Beautiful. And probably not expect it to hit from lit!
No shit.Lit is full of surprises.
Yessssss!! To this entire post. Why is this so hard to find? Genuine connection is the spark that makes everything else meaningful. When two people feel safe enough to be real with each other—unfiltered, attentive, present—desire stops being performative. It becomes alive and fucking delicious. It’s about attention. Listening. Feeling the rhythm of another person’s thoughts and emotions and meeting them there.I miss meeting somebody who got me right off the bat.
I miss meeting somebody who was into me and what I have to say and not just answering questions.
I miss meeting somebody who has a propensity to talk a lot.
I miss meeting and being able to talk to them throughout the day. Or at least part of their day.
I miss meeting someone who can allow me to be sexy and funny. Flipping back-and-forth.
I just miss meeting someone.
Do we have chemistry?
Let me think about it, yeah it could definitely be worse, could have found the right chemistry with your pet goldfish, so yeah no problemIs it awful I found the best chemistry with a total grandpa ?
So true! I realized long ago that the right person takes time. There is no urgency, mistakes will be made if make hasty decisions. I've found some wonderful people online when I least expected it. Oh yeah, i do have a few 'burn" marks on meIt's really hard to go from having it to not. It's becoming harder and harder to find it (or am I getting too old?!), but it's important to remember that we never expected it in the first place, and sometimes lightening does strike again. If we're lucky.
it's also rare to connect with anyone at all, let alone via a website like this.So true! I realized long ago that the right person takes time. There is no urgency, mistakes will be made if make hasty decisions. I've found some wonderful people online when I least expected it. Oh yeah, i do have a few 'burn" marks on me![]()
If and when you both get past the "friendship" stage, it makes for the physical memories that much more special and intense. That is what I definitely want and look for.Yessssss!! To this entire post. Why is this so hard to find? Genuine connection is the spark that makes everything else meaningful. When two people feel safe enough to be real with each other—unfiltered, attentive, present—desire stops being performative. It becomes alive and fucking delicious. It’s about attention. Listening. Feeling the rhythm of another person’s thoughts and emotions and meeting them there.
Because when the mind is engaged, when connection is authentic, every touch carries deeper resonance. A brush of fingers feels like lightning. A whisper sends shockwaves of pleasure
The most explosive sexual experiences rarely begin in the body at all. They begin with curiosity. With presence.
Whoa.. that just flowed out. It’s obviously something that’s been on my mind as well. I’m going to put some of this in my bio. I think it sums up what I’m looking for perfectly.
I hope you find it too!
So true, come to think of it, I think I build a thicker barrier around me because of this specific site. I'm in no way saying that the people/friends here are less desirable or authentic. I'm saying that because of the topics, it is a little more of an uphill climb building trustworthy friends at first. For me it starts out friends first then progresses to the kinks and taboo stuff, that's just IMO for me.it's also rare to connect with anyone at all, let alone via a website like this.
My degree is in human biology, but I have taken several chemistry classes.I miss meeting somebody who got me right off the bat.
I miss meeting somebody who was into me and what I have to say and not just answering questions.
I miss meeting somebody who has a propensity to talk a lot.
I miss meeting and being able to talk to them throughout the day. Or at least part of their day.
I miss meeting someone who can allow me to be sexy and funny. Flipping back-and-forth.
I just miss meeting someone.
Do we have chemistry?