Purple_Fronds
Later Meiosis
- Joined
- Nov 27, 2022
- Posts
- 522
I do love otk, it’s just so sensual and also much safer, I do find that impact play to the inner thighs has an erotism to it, as it’s a more tender part of the body. For some women having their pussy slapped is a big turn on, which I also think is partly because of the taboo nature of it. Although the draw back is the risk is higher so the level of care has to be higher, similar for men receiving cbt.I am not much of an out of control sobbing kinda gal even when the tears flow. Sometimes I am very tender and that part of me gets extra raw and open with physical pain in the context of safety and love. Idk if it works that way for others or not.
I haven't found one kind of pain to be definitely the thing vs others, but otk spanking is a very intimate form of administering pain. An easy place to start a journey into impact play... and to discover what level of pain works for both parties.
And yes, aftercare is essential.

