❓ Inquiring Minds Want To Know - Discussion Thread

[PrettyLilPussy19]

#60

#60 (suggested)

Broader Kink: Breeding

Hot or not? Does being or not being a parent affect the way you view this kink?

This one has a lot of layers foe a lot of people so an attempt at being respectful of others is always appreciated.

 

[UsuallyPresent]

#60 (suggested)

Broader Kink: Breeding

Hot or not? Does being or not being a parent affect the way you view this kink?

This one has a lot of layers foe a lot of people so an attempt at being respectful of others is always appreciated.

Not a parent, and not a personal perversion. If anything, I don't want to breed for multiple personal reasons.

I've USED others' breeding kink in pushing their buttons during play, but it does nothing for me (other than getting them hot and bothered, which is often a goal!)

 

[UsuallyPresent]

I think there were some positive replies before we got taken wildly off track. But ok.

I'm sure the next topic will be just as popular.

The phrase 'herding cats' comes to mind....

 

[Paul_Chance]

#60 (suggested)

Broader Kink: Breeding

Hot or not? Does being or not being a parent affect the way you view this kink?

This one has a lot of layers foe a lot of people so an attempt at being respectful of others is always appreciated.

I'm not a parent, so I couldn't really say if that impacts how I view the kink.

It appeals to the part of me that loves sex that is just as nasty as it can be.

Specifically, there are a couple of things that appeal to me. First, the almost total objectification of all participants - viewed not as people, but as objects of lust (albeit with an ulterior motive). The object isn't pleasure - though pleasure is involved - the object is fucking and cumming inside the woman. Period. End of story.

Second, the multiple men, single woman dynamic has always been arousing to me, both in fantasy and in real life.

Third, the element of "unrelenting sex" that pushes us to our limits and breaks past them.

 

[cookiecat]

#60 (suggested)

Broader Kink: Breeding

Hot or not? Does being or not being a parent affect the way you view this kink?

This one has a lot of layers foe a lot of people so an attempt at being respectful of others is always appreciated.

I never knew breeding (or bareback) was a thing until I wandered around the Fetish forum. One of the posts talked about claiming a woman through her womb and that was arousing. I found the post! https://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=83330605&postcount=1736

I think I'm too literal. The fucking part of breeding sounds neat. But then I go off on a tangent and start wondering about morning sickness, 9 months of breeding consequences, ripping open pussy as I give birth, can I afford the kid, what happens when she's two? Yada yada. This is why I'm a horrible role player.

Some of the things surrounding breeding get me off. A breeding bench. Specific times to fuck. Lactation. Even "birthing" -- I've never had kids -- I read a story about using an inflatable and having to push it out. It was pretty erotic.

Ultimately, though, I'd rather do all of the above in the context of kink and not breeding.

 

[Karabare]

I never knew breeding (or bareback) was a thing until I wandered around the Fetish forum. One of the posts talked about claiming a woman through her womb and that was arousing. I found the post! https://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=83330605&postcount=1736

I think I'm too literal. The fucking part of breeding sounds neat. But then I go off on a tangent and start wondering about morning sickness, 9 months of breeding consequences, ripping open pussy as I give birth, can I afford the kid, what happens when she's two? Yada yada. This is why I'm a horrible role player.

Some of the things surrounding breeding get me off. A breeding bench. Specific times to fuck. Lactation. Even "birthing" -- I've never had kids -- I read a story about using an inflatable and having to push it out. It was pretty erotic.

Ultimately, though, I'd rather do all of the above in the context of kink and not breeding.

I appreciate when someone else writes it all out for me. Having been pregnant and felt like a fucking whale, I like using it on someone because they enjoy the idea but it's definitely not my thing.

 

[UsuallyPresent]

I never knew breeding (or bareback) was a thing -snip-

At the risk of diverting the discussion, do you see these as being the same thing? Because I don't.

Bareback to me means sex without a condom, dental dam or the like - sharing fluids. It doesn't address if there are other protections in place, like recent medical tests, birth control, etc. Personally, I much prefer bareback sex to sex with a condom or dam, assuming the other mitigations are in place.

Breeding to me is bareback with no birth control, with the intent to cause pregnancy.

Am I off in my definitions?

 

[barefootgirl69]

I never knew breeding (or bareback) was a thing until I wandered around the Fetish forum. One of the posts talked about claiming a woman through her womb and that was arousing. I found the post! https://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=83330605&postcount=1736

I can see where that would be arousing. As a sub, I love the idea of being owned...and I loved being pregnant. I never felt more beautiful.

But, because I am not entirely sure of "breeding" (and I'm pretty sure you can't put it in a box because we are all human with different desires and needs), I can't really answer PLP's question.

 

[AlwaysFara]

I know. I’m still lost about what it has to do with cuck.

Also interesting how basically no one here is open about that being their thing. But nevermind

I’m not, because I like Dommy men, and most men that I know that identify as such don’t want to see me like that. I’m only speaking for my experience.
Plus, it’s just not my thing.

I’m not closed off to other people wanting it, but I don’t have a relationship like that. In fact, it was one of the things I put forward as something I don’t want to explore.

 

[AlwaysFara]

#60 (suggested)

Broader Kink: Breeding

Hot or not? Does being or not being a parent affect the way you view this kink?

This one has a lot of layers foe a lot of people so an attempt at being respectful of others is always appreciated.

Yes. Fucking yes. Even if it’s just to push my buttons, yes. Cum in me. Fuck with my head and tell me you’re going to knock me up. Make me “take it”... god damn.

YES!!! Is anything sexier than being marked inside?

Like BFG, also, I’ve never felt sexier than when I was pregnant. Or more beautiful.
Love every single part of it.
Fill me up.

 

[cookiecat]

At the risk of diverting the discussion, do you see these as being the same thing? Because I don't.

Bareback to me means sex without a condom, dental dam or the like - sharing fluids. It doesn't address if there are other protections in place, like recent medical tests, birth control, etc. Personally, I much prefer bareback sex to sex with a condom or dam, assuming the other mitigations are in place.

Breeding to me is bareback with no birth control, with the intent to cause pregnancy.

Am I off in my definitions?

No - sorry. I write like I think - bareback jumped in my head as a fetish I didn't know existed until I was in the Fetish forum reading about it. Just like breeding. And having sex with your mother while wearing socks. kidding

But other than the link you mention - bareback could cause pregnancy - they are not the same fetish.

I need to edit my posts.

 

[AveryElle]

#60 (suggested)

Broader Kink: Breeding

Hot or not? Does being or not being a parent affect the way you view this kink?

This one has a lot of layers foe a lot of people so an attempt at being respectful of others is always appreciated.

What’s hot about ‘breeding’ is unprotected sex. First of all, I’d only do that with someone I completely trust. And that’s rarer than almost anything. Second is the chance of ‘breeding’. I would never intentionally get pregnant that way (and never have!), but for me it’s the possibility not intent. Third, it’s that closeness you can’t get any other way. Feeling him cum in me is so hot, and knowing he shouldn’t be doing that is even hotter.

That said, I do see how it’s possible to start getting turned off by it quickly - looking at your calendar, counting, etc. I have been pregnant, nursed, etc (never had a ripped open pussy tho!), and I never felt less sexy in my life. Nursing was awful for me and I don’t wish to participate in anyone’s pregnancy/lactation fetish. There’s also a part of the breeding kink that is often related to Daddies and age play and incest play (at least online), and I am in no way interested in ever participating in that.

I think my like of it is just the risk, however small, and the word play. ‘I’m going to cum in you tonight’ type of stuff (can’t think off all the best words while eating dinner).

Forced breeding and the like also doesn’t do it for me. Fuck I’m boring.

 

[cookiecat]

I know. I’m still lost about what it has to do with cuck.

Also interesting how basically no one here is open about that being their thing. But nevermind

I think the cuckolding isn't discussed much because my sense is the majority of people who post here are Hetero Male D's and Hetero Female s's.

There are only a couple of threads devoted to male submissives. We have discussed cuckolding a bit in the "Gentle Femdom" picture thread. Once in a while, a male sub comes out of the dark to post.

The issue of hot wife and cuckold comes up more in the Fetish / Sex forum.

 

[Bramblethorn]

#60 (suggested)

Broader Kink: Breeding

Hot or not? Does being or not being a parent affect the way you view this kink?

This one has a lot of layers foe a lot of people so an attempt at being respectful of others is always appreciated.

This is something that used to be part of fantasy play with a partner of mine, when it looked like one day we might have a kid together.

Then a bunch of things happened, and it became clear that "have a kid together" wasn't going to happen, and that rather soured the fantasy :-/

 

[sally_sparrow]

#60 (suggested)

Broader Kink: Breeding

Hot or not? Does being or not being a parent affect the way you view this kink?

This one has a lot of layers foe a lot of people so an attempt at being respectful of others is always appreciated.

Whenever I am ovulating, or getting close to ovulating my sex drive goes waaaaaaay up. I'm very aware of the changes my body makes. My scent changes, secretions change, nipples become extremely sensitive, libido goes through the roof. I love to be owned and cumming inside during my fertile window, though risky, turns me on. It's more about the risk than the idea of having another kid for me. I am done having kids. No fantasy of a fresh little one on the way is in my line of sight.

I felt incredibly sexy while pregnant. I loved the way my body changed and sex was the absolute best at that point in time.

When I began to nurse my first baby I felt weird that I was turned on when my baby latched. The let down sensation accompanied by suckling was intensely arousing. I buried that thought for a long time and brought it out of the dark earlier this year with great enthusiasm.

I'm not into pregnancy fetishes but lactation is high up on my list of things I really like. I think mostly because first, it feels amazing, and second, it can be messy as fuck, and messy is the best in my book.

 

[maybee79]

#60 (suggested)

Broader Kink: Breeding

Hot or not? Does being or not being a parent affect the way you view this kink?

This one has a lot of layers foe a lot of people so an attempt at being respectful of others is always appreciated.

I remember an old friend of mine trying to trap a boy she liked into marriage by getting pregnant with his child; later, he confided in me that the sex was the hottest he'd ever had, and he's been - for want of a term - chasing that dragon ever since.

Being infertile, my experiences are pure fantasy; there's no actual risk involved, but it's fun to pretend, and I'll admit there are few things in the world that turn me on more than taking a full load of seed deep inside me and imagining, "What if ...?"

 

[Mei5ter]

#60 (suggested)

Broader Kink: Breeding

Hot or not? Does being or not being a parent affect the way you view this kink?

This one has a lot of layers foe a lot of people so an attempt at being respectful of others is always appreciated.

I don't know a great deal about this, but I've found these responses enlightening and thought-provoking.

Generalising shamelessly from six or seven comments aboves, my impression is that this kink seems to have a stronger appeal to women than to men. And there seem to be two strands: firstly that 'breeding' has an obvious link to pregnancy, which was when some posters here felt especially sexy, and secondly that 'breeding' tends to involve a woman having sex with a partner with whom there is sufficient commitment to be wanting to start a family. It's wanted, purposeful sex, rather than something a couple does once a week? Is that fair?

For men, I can see the obvious appeal of satisfying an enthusiastic partner, but while I do quite like babies and enjoy sex bareback, I don't see 'breeding' itself as being a kink I would particularly respond to. Are there guys for whom impregnating multiple partners is a special kink? Genuine question.

 

[AlwaysFara]

I don't know a great deal about this, but I've found these responses enlightening and thought-provoking.

Generalising shamelessly from six or seven comments aboves, my impression is that this kink seems to have a stronger appeal to women than to men. And there seem to be two strands: firstly that 'breeding' has an obvious link to pregnancy, which was when some posters here felt especially sexy, and secondly that 'breeding' tends to involve a woman having sex with a partner with whom there is sufficient commitment to be wanting to start a family. It's wanted, purposeful sex, rather than something a couple does once a week? Is that fair?

For men, I can see the obvious appeal of satisfying an enthusiastic partner, but while I do quite like babies and enjoy sex bareback, I don't see 'breeding' itself as being a kink I would particularly respond to. Are there guys for whom impregnating multiple partners is a special kink? Genuine question.

Mine is pure fantasy, now. While I’m still able to get pregnant, I am older, so I take precautions.
I just want his cum. It makes me feel full. Loved. His.

And Avery mentioned the incest thing. I don’t know anything about that. Mine is definitely the pregnant woman thing. The cum filled thing.

It’s primal.

 

[sally_sparrow]

Mine is pure fantasy, now. While I’m still able to get pregnant, I am older, so I take precautions.
I just want his cum. It makes me feel full. Loved. His.

And Avery mentioned the incest thing. I don’t know about that. Mine is definitely the pregnant woman thing. The cum filled thing.

That's how I feel about it as well. Precautions are in place but the idea is arousing.

 

[HappyToBeAlive]

#60 (suggested)

Broader Kink: Breeding

Hot or not? Does being or not being a parent affect the way you view this kink?

This one has a lot of layers foe a lot of people so an attempt at being respectful of others is always appreciated.

Diapers, waking up every two hours, crying, more diapers.... we are done with kids. It was awesome to have the ones we have because we wanted... but breeding as a fantasy? I just turn and see the box of diapers and I instantly go soft....

 

[HappyToBeAlive]

#59

On broader kink -

Cuckolding/Hot Wifing

Is sharing your partner or knowing your partner isn't faithful something that turns you on? Is faithfulness or exclusivity negotiable in your relationship? Can jealousy add to your dynamic?
If it's not your thing (and please be respectful if it's not), can you understand the pleasure derived in cuckolding or hot wifing?

I dont know why, but I would love to watch my wife with another guy... she is not interested though ( yes Ive asked)

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

#60 (suggested)

Broader Kink: Breeding

Hot or not? Does being or not being a parent affect the way you view this kink?

This one has a lot of layers foe a lot of people so an attempt at being respectful of others is always appreciated.

I think others have explained far better than me why it's hot. Especially as a form of roleplay or said in the heat of the moment. It's just primal. The epitome of masculinity and femininity. The idea of ownership. Fluid bonding. There's also this feeling of longevity that I'm not sure how to put into words. Also, his cum. The mess. The connection. Yep, everyone else said it better.

I think it's funny how people immediately start associating the act of breeding with "Well fuck! How am I.going to pay for tuition." I love the practicality in that. For me, it's a sexy fantasy to play with just like anything else.

Having a child physically is impossible for me, something that after a lot of work I've come to terms with but it's one of the bigger reasons I hesitate to share this fantasy with people bc I worry they think I'm using this as some sort of fucked up therapy. Which I'm not. I think, while I find this deeply. Intimately sexy it's one of the kinks I find easiest to put in storage if my partner isn't into it.

I'm pleasantly surprised by how many women have said yes. My previous experience with this suggested this was much more of a male fantasy. Also, I've never seen it associated with incest or DDlg, mostly the exact opposite.

 

[Blase]

Mine is pure fantasy, now. While I’m still able to get pregnant, I am older, so I take precautions.
I just want his cum. It makes me feel full. Loved. His.

And Avery mentioned the incest thing. I don’t know anything about that. Mine is definitely the pregnant woman thing. The cum filled thing.

It’s primal.

I agree with Fara, although I'm obviously approaching this from a male viewpoint.

Bareback, yes. Parenthood, no.

True story: I didn't use any protection when I lost my virginity, and it wasn't because I pressured my partner into taking a careless risk. I actually wanted to run up the street to a pharmacy and buy protection, but she said it was right then or not at all.

Many years later, it's so hot to remember that when we came together, we were both utterly naked, no latex sock involved, and when we finished and stood up, the proof of my pleasure was still inside her.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

This made me laugh after recent discussions.

https://66.media.tumblr.com/1f81fe1a18a022be6477b2892aee6106/79a21c6bd7e00981-21/s1280x1920/6232d5efd8654b7eab1e757dce512940dd5085c2.jpg

 

[AlpineFresco]

^ hahahahahaha! Oh god, I laughed out loud at that.