人 心

[Crimsonblue]

你 好 !
mandarin pin yin (mixed with english) okay?
wo mei you zhong wen de keyboard.

中-lish is fine with me, 歡迎!

还记得年少时的梦吗？想作一朵永不凋零的花……”，走吧,走吧,人总要学着长大……这就是爱的代价……”,想做一位成功人士，就不要结婚。想过日子，吃饭睡觉，就找个人结婚。呵呵。这是本人的短浅的认识，

只要是人，都渴望能拥有一份珍贵的感情，恋爱是为了幸福，能拥有爱情的人都是幸福的。不要结婚? 哈哈哈哈, 也未必可以成为'成功人士'。想一想吧, 千万别为自己蓋棺定論。

“天生我才必有用”，相信自己可以主宰自己的命运，不要自惭形秽，不要屈服。也不要幻想他人能为自己鸣锣开道，在这个世界上能够拯救你的只有你自己，也只有自己劳动所得果实才最为甜蜜。

如果事情真的这么简单当然好，所以，这也很难说... *感慨万千*

不过感觉你这哥一定是有很多东西留在心里, 嘿嘿~~~那就一起愁吧

 

[cnhnchenjin]

我最想生气的时候是在办公室里.因为同事的都有些变态.(我认为)喜欢装出一副了不起的样子.还会背后打我的小报告.还把困难留给你.把好处留给自己.这种同事不好相处啊.

 

[Crimsonblue]

我最想生气的时候是在办公室里.因为同事的都有些变态.(我认为)喜欢装出一副了不起的样子.还会背后打我的小报告.还把困难留给你.把好处留给自己.这种同事不好相处啊.

只有不够聪明的人才批评,指责和抱怨别人,的确,很多愚蠢的人都这么做.但是,善解人意和宽恕他人, 需要有修养自制的功夫。

要想成功，人际关系是门必修课。其实只要我们用心做并不难。不管在什么混乱的环境上,都要保持心明。

说做人要有原则，但也要灵活，虽然我们不倡议拍马跟风。但却要知道察言观色。

君子以自强不息,一屋不扫何以扫天下？微笑,微笑,多多微笑哦,嗯！

 

[peach]

全是假的，人心为什么那么多虚伪呀!?

Read some of your stuff and you seems to be very romantic and full of thoughts related to your feelings.
I have to disagree with your above statement though, in the sense that it does not apply to some people.

 

[peach]

cnhnchenjin 君:

这么热闹，俺也来凑凑趣～爱是幸福的，被爱也是幸福的. 婚姻是人生一大喜喜事


好话不多说
热闹别错过
有酒尽管上
你也别想躲 ~ 呵呵

祝福你们 白头偕老

Look back after 10 years and see what is the % falls into.

 

[peach]

it isn't show 屁股

Those are proofs that I'm out of touch.

 

[peach]

有位大嫂在公共汽车上看到一位即将下车的男人掉了包烟在踏板上，于是赶紧对那男人说：同志，你烟掉了！男人大怒：你才阉掉了！

某公司招聘，下一位该面试的女孩的英文名是“spring“。秘书欲借机卖弄一下自己的英语水平，喊道：“hi！那个叫‘春’的，轮到你了！”


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You really made me laugh !!!

 

[peach]

你好，你如果想打中文字，可以先打开控制面板，再打开日期，时间，语言设置。选中区域语言选项。再选中语言。再选择详细信息。再选择添加，再在语言选择栏选则中文输入。
if you want to type chinese word.you open control board,and select TIME,LANGUAGE,icon.and select language option.and select particular.select china language in column.

Thanks for good tip. My computer only has English (US) under language.

 

[Microwave0ven]

Thanks for good tip. My computer only has English (US) under language.

mine too, i'm in canada, so no chinese on my computer.
even if it did though, i dont know how to type chinese aside from pinyin (which i learned from school).
i thought it would be fun to read and learn some chinese on the messageboard here too.

 

[Crimsonblue]

Look back after 10 years and see what is the % falls into.

你是否面对婚姻有悲觀的看法呢？

Read some of your stuff and you seems to be very romantic and full of thoughts related to your feelings.
I have to disagree with your above statement though, in the sense that it does not apply to some people.

you probably right

 

[Winterfall]

Look back after 10 years and see what is the % falls into.

Why?



Hi CB and new friends.

 

[Winterfall]

我最想生气的时候是在办公室里.因为同事的都有些变态.(我认为)喜欢装出一副了不起的样子.还会背后打我的小报告.还把困难留给你.把好处留给自己.这种同事不好相处啊.

Keep away from those who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you believe that you too can become great. - Mark Twain

Life is partly what we make it, and partly what it is made by the friends we choose.

 

[peach]

你是否面对婚姻有悲觀的看法呢？

I don't know a lot of people, judging from those I know, I believe I have conclusion.

Look it at another way. I've learned that one has to treat the other as a good friend to have a true happy marriage. (note, there are certain people who don't deserve to be a good person's friend); or each one has to be self-disiplined to not do anything to undermine a happy family and do enough things to make family better. (note, there are a lot of people who don't have self-disipline).

 

[peach]

Why?



Hi CB and new friends.

This is simply a suggestion to observe and make your own conclusion. It does imply what would be the likely facts.

 

[cnhnchenjin]

This is simply a suggestion to observe and make your own conclusion. It does imply what would be the likely facts.

你好。PEACH你认识中文吗？我也在线。

 

[peach]

只有不够聪明的人才批评,指责和抱怨别人,的确,很多愚蠢的人都这么做.但是,善解人意和宽恕他人, 需要有修养自制的功夫。

要想成功，人际关系是门必修课。其实只要我们用心做并不难。不管在什么混乱的环境上,都要保持心明。

说做人要有原则，但也要灵活，虽然我们不倡议拍马跟风。但却要知道察言观色。

君子以自强不息,一屋不扫何以扫天下？微笑,微笑,多多微笑哦,嗯！

People's brain can be devided into roughly two types in terms how they look at other's statement or action. One type is that look for similarity, the other type is look for differnece. I read this from web not from book. Obviously, the former has an advantage socially.
Additionally, people can be devided two types by how they react. One is "feeling", they think about the how other feels first; the other type is "judging", they tend to ignore feeling and states fact. Obviously, former has a head start.
Having said that, I'm not give some people excuse for their behavior, I'm simply suggesting that, some of those people might have a good heart, however, they might not know the impact of their reaction on other people. Such people are naturally in a disadvatage in building relationship.
You are so right "要想成功，人际关系是门必修课".
It is easy said than done "其实只要我们用心做并不难".
When you can "做人要有原则，但也要灵活", you belong to a very small percentage, I consider them elite few.

 

[cnhnchenjin]

mine too, i'm in canada, so no chinese on my computer.
even if it did though, i dont know how to type chinese aside from pinyin (which i learned from school).
i thought it would be fun to read and learn some chinese on the messageboard here too.

你好。加拿大朋友你好。很高兴听到你学习中文。中国的地位上升了。中文不好学。主要是组词。比如说：”好“字 组词有：你好，天气好，大家好，好吃，好玩，好看。都说的是赞美天气。和热情的表示。

 

[peach]

你好。PEACH你认识中文吗？我也在线。

Yes, that is my native tongue.

 

[cnhnchenjin]

和我一样。能用中文聊天真的舒服多了。

 

[cnhnchenjin]

你为什么不说话啊。朋友。我很无聊。88了

 

[peach]

你为什么不说话啊。朋友。我很无聊。88了

I was watching TV and playing Sudoku. I was already doing two things at the same time. It's commercial and my puzzle goes nowhere.
I can't type Chinese.

 

[Crimsonblue]

一个人能够为自己所喜爱的事业而奋斗，总是很快乐的。保持冷静的头脑，既不盲从也不能固执己见一意孤行，既不能凡事皆凑个热闹也不能游离于集体之外。

学会适应环境而不能为环境所左右。对生活不要抱有太多的顾虑，有些事情时间会帮你解决的。

也许这一刻我什么也不该说了，我依旧拿出我的那一份坦诚， 来表明我的感觉。





*无论怎样好好学习loh*

-/)/)
(o.O)
m-m

 

[Crimsonblue]

女人的反抗

一对年轻人谈恋爱，男的想试探女的是否能作到守身如玉，便问女友道：“如果你深夜一人在街上走，突然来了一个男人要和你亲嘴，你怎么办？”
女友答道：“我会反抗，并打他一个耳光。”
男的又问：“如果又来了一个喝醉了的男人一下子要抱住你，你怎么办？”
女友答道：“我会全力反抗，不让他得逞。”
男的听了，高兴的连连点头，继续问道：“假如又走来一个很帅的男人，向你提出那种要求，你怎么办？”
女友听了，回答说：“你要知道，一个女人的反抗毕竟是有限的！”


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[cnhnchenjin]

 

[Crimsonblue]

you are happy today, a very good night to you cnhnchenjin

and hi to all of you too, good morning