2 for 1 / Bi women and Crossdressing Men

[Paige.]

I am a married, straight, father of two who loves wearing panties! I mean I really love it! My wife knows of my panty fetish but doesn't know that I wear them. She has made comments like "I'm sure when I'm not home you prance around in my panties." she has let me wear a pair of hers once during sex and has given my hand jobs with her panties. I buy most of her panties because I just enjoy the process so much. But one time I mentioned the website Manties.net where I ordered my panties and she got mad thought I was taking the fetish too far. I'm not sure if she just doesn't want to be a part of it or she is truly mad about it.
Anyway, I would love it if she would indulge my panty fantasy but since she hasn't been too willing I will just continue to wear in private.

Hi Cardinal,

Was your wife ok with having sex with you while wearing her panties? Your fetish isn't a secret from her so maybe you shouldn't wear panties only in private. It sounds like you are cutting off your nose to spite your face because she got piqued for some reason. You don't have to hide anything from her since she is already aware of your fetish.

Maybe she thought you were ordering and wearing panties to attract other men and that thought had negative consequences for her, like homosexuality. Just a suggestion for you.

Maybe the next time you buy panties for her, buy the exact same ones for yourself and ask her if you can both wear them at the same time. Communicate with her and let her know you only wear panties for her because it excites you to be seen in panties.

I hope I don't sound like an Ann Landers advice column.

 

[cchheels]

Hi Cardinal,

Was your wife ok with having sex with you while wearing her panties? Your fetish isn't a secret from her so maybe you shouldn't wear panties only in private. It sounds like you are cutting off your nose to spite your face because she got piqued for some reason. You don't have to hide anything from her since she is already aware of your fetish.

Maybe she thought you were ordering and wearing panties to attract other men and that thought had negative consequences for her, like homosexuality. Just a suggestion for you.

Maybe the next time you buy panties for her, buy the exact same ones for yourself and ask her if you can both wear them at the same time. Communicate with her and let her know you only wear panties for her because it excites you to be seen in panties.

I hope I don't sound like an Ann Landers advice column.

To add my 2cents worth...Paige is dead on. The idea of buying an extra pair for yourself is a great way to get her more involved. And since Ann is no longer able to give advice, maybe Paige should open a column. Good luck.

 

[cchheels]

Hi Erica,

It is alway nice to hear from you.

Dry me off and then let me have your panties. I like them and the effect they produce. I'll help you take them off you if you will put them on me.

Nothing would please me more....(leans down, removes current pair). Can't give you my favorites, but would these do?

Kisses from Erica

 

[Paige.]

Nothing would please me more....(leans down, removes current pair). Can't give you my favorites, but would these do?

Kisses from Erica

Thank you honey. Sexy shoes, gorgeous legs, fishnet stockings, and panties with a wet spot. If I can't have your favorite pair these will do in a pinch!!

Do you ever wear a skirt, bra and blouse?

Kisses friom Paige

 

[cchheels]

Thank you honey. Sexy shoes, gorgeous legs, fishnet stockings, and panties with a wet spot. If I can't have your favorite pair these will do in a pinch!!

Do you ever wear a skirt, bra and blouse?

Kisses friom Paige

Yes, of course. I have a embarassingly large collection of femme clothes. Many of the pictures are on display at my other site...link is below...but let me see if I can find some that I haven't used and I'll post them here.

Thanks for asking by the way....no use in having them if I don't get to show them off. Right?
Erica

 

[rbijon]

Hi Cardinal,

Was your wife ok with having sex with you while wearing her panties? Your fetish isn't a secret from her so maybe you shouldn't wear panties only in private. It sounds like you are cutting off your nose to spite your face because she got piqued for some reason. You don't have to hide anything from her since she is already aware of your fetish.

Maybe she thought you were ordering and wearing panties to attract other men and that thought had negative consequences for her, like homosexuality. Just a suggestion for you.

Maybe the next time you buy panties for her, buy the exact same ones for yourself and ask her if you can both wear them at the same time. Communicate with her and let her know you only wear panties for her because it excites you to be seen in panties.

I hope I don't sound like an Ann Landers advice column.

Panties are FUN no matter who wears them!

 

[venus_can]

Yes, of course. I have a embarassingly large collection of femme clothes. Many of the pictures are on display at my other site...link is below...but let me see if I can find some that I haven't used and I'll post them here.

Thanks for asking by the way....no use in having them if I don't get to show them off. Right?
Erica

WoW.. I love Erika's choice of shoes...
so elegant... so chic

 

[cchheels]

WoW.. I love Erika's choice of shoes...
so elegant... so chic

Thanks....yep, I've got a serious shoe fetish. Wanna come visit...I'll let you try them all on. You might even turn out to be Cinderella

Here's another more for you....
Erica

 

[Paige.]

Thanks....yep, I've got a serious shoe fetish. Wanna come visit...I'll let you try them all on. You might even turn out to be Cinderella

Here's another more for you....
Erica

Erica honey, you are seriously hot looking!
Venus and I are going to get into a cat fight over you.

I am so pleased you posted some of your pics below showing you fully dressed. I particularly like the first one in a blue top. Of course I know your boobs are fake but it's my fetish. In male parlance, would that would make me a 'breast woman' Lol. The other one that got my attention is the third, of you in a brown skirt and top.

You are definitly feeding my fetish here and for that I am both thankful and fascinated.

On this thread I am trying to learn a couple of things. One of those is to understand for myself, why attractive, dressed men ignite me into a blazing inferno. Another is to get an impression from the men (straight men mostly) how they feel when they are dressed, sexy, vulnerable, powerful, seductive, attractive, etc, etc. and if they would dress more often and publicly if they had feminine support. And why don't more women support you guys.

Right now I can't get my thoughts past your legs, heels and stockings. Wow! Devastating pics Erica.

Thanks for coming here.

 

[cchheels]

Erica honey, you are seriously hot looking!
Venus and I are going to get into a cat fight over you.

I am so pleased you posted some of your pics below showing you fully dressed. I particularly like the first one in a blue top. Of course I know your boobs are fake but it's my fetish. In male parlance, would that would make me a 'breast woman' Lol. The other one that got my attention is the third, of you in a brown skirt and top.

You are definitly feeding my fetish here and for that I am both thankful and fascinated.

On this thread I am trying to learn a couple of things. One of those is to understand for myself, why attractive, dressed men ignite me into a blazing inferno. Another is to get an impression from the men (straight men mostly) how they feel when they are dressed, sexy, vulnerable, powerful, seductive, attractive, etc, etc. and if they would dress more often and publicly if they had feminine support. And why don't more women support you guys.

Right now I can't get my thoughts past your legs, heels and stockings. Wow! Devastating pics Erica.

Thanks for coming here.

{{{blush}}}
Well, thank you for such nice words, but the two of you don't have to fight...there's plenty to go around. But thanks again....you've made my day.

 

[venus_can]

Why fight over Erika?

Erica honey, you are seriously hot looking!
Venus and I are going to get into a cat fight over you.

I am so pleased you posted some of your pics below showing you fully dressed. I particularly like the first one in a blue top. Of course I know your boobs are fake but it's my fetish. In male parlance, would that would make me a 'breast woman' Lol. The other one that got my attention is the third, of you in a brown skirt and top.

You are definitly feeding my fetish here and for that I am both thankful and fascinated.

On this thread I am trying to learn a couple of things. One of those is to understand for myself, why attractive, dressed men ignite me into a blazing inferno. Another is to get an impression from the men (straight men mostly) how they feel when they are dressed, sexy, vulnerable, powerful, seductive, attractive, etc, etc. and if they would dress more often and publicly if they had feminine support. And why don't more women support you guys.

Right now I can't get my thoughts past your legs, heels and stockings. Wow! Devastating pics Erica.

Thanks for coming here.

Why fight over a good "thing" when we can both share? After all there are mutiple sides

 

[Paige.]

Why fight over a good "thing" when we can both share? After all there are mutiple sides

Venus you are so right and it would be so much more fun. It would definitely double my pleasure with the three of us.

 

[cchheels]

Venus you are so right and it would be so much more fun. It would definitely double my pleasure with the three of us.

'Morning you two
Count me in....Now let's see, where do I begin Who wants what?

 

[Pet to my Mistress]

I took ten years for me to come out to my wife. I was so terrified that she would find out and reject me. She was very good though and stifled any urge to yell, cry, or giggle(not sure which i was most worried about). The she made me dress up and show her. She helped me with a dress, some make up, she even bought me my first pair of heels. The sex we had the first time i was completely dressed was unlike anything i had ever experienced before. I felt so fem and completely vulernable (sp?) and powerless i was no longer in control. I think she felt very en powered.

 

[lincspoacher]

as subject

Hi Paige,

In answer to your question .. I can only say that whilst I love TG women (and I just know you're going to ask why .. and I wish I could give you a simple "one size fits all answer" but I can't) .. let's just ask why do some people prefer Red wine to White ? .. or Milk Chocolate to Plain ? .. for me,it's a matter of personal preference.

I've never had the least desire or urge to wear my TG partners undies (or my Mother's or Sister's or ex Wife's or Daughter's for that matter) .. it's just not my thing.

At risk of being a little crude (for which I apologise if I offend anyone) .. I once dated a Pre-Op Girl who said she was delighted I didn't want to do this as she "Already had one Arsehole in her panties & didn't want another" ..

I'm perfectly at ease with who & what I am and wish to continue taking the traditional Male role in any relationship.

Others may choose their own path & provided they harm no one else .. good luck to them.

Bye for now,

Poacher xx.

 

[Chelsea1960]

Would definately do it

I would dress all the time if that were the case. I love being tan and wearing womens shorts as they are much prettier. I would probably even try growing some breasts!

 

[Paige.]

Hi Paige,


I'm perfectly at ease with who & what I am and wish to continue taking the traditional Male role in any relationship.

Others may choose their own path & provided they harm no one else .. good luck to them.

Bye for now,

Poacher xx.

Hi Poacher,

The world needs men like you. It would be a terrible place if all men had a desire to dress in women's clothes.

I appreciate your 'laissez-faire' attitude. I agree with you. None of us here are in a position to point fingers and throw stones.

Thanks for you comments.
Paige

 

[carverII]

I've "dressed" in the past and still love the feel of panties from time to time. In the winter, I keep my legs shaved so I can wear tights (easier to get away with in the winter) and I love the feel of those. It's an all day reminder of sensuality.

I'd dress up in a heartbeat if she asked me too. As it stands now, she gets a kick out of catching a glimpse now and then of me wearing panties in worn-out jeans or shorts.

 

[Paige.]

I would dress all the time if that were the case. I love being tan and wearing womens shorts as they are much prettier. I would probably even try growing some breasts!

I suggest you take it one step at a time and curb your enthusiam for growing breasts for the time being. I encourage you to enjoy your crossdressing and how it makes you feel. Wanting to grow breasts, and actually growing breasts is an entirely different matter. You need a lot of consultation and help for that. Perhaps you could talk to Tymeless or GI Venus for advice.

Good luck
Paige

 

[Sun Tan Guy]

Thank you so much for posting your pic. Venus_can said it well, "Wow"

You make my heart beat faster!!

{{{Paige}}} and mine too when I see your pics.. Damn.. I love the new av.. I need to get one of those shiny bras for myself.. Care to take me shoppin?? You could help me pick out some shiny stockings to go along with it and let you pic out the outer attire for me to wear over it all!

 

[blackieone]

i did it once-for work

it was a theathre play,a lot of fun,even if some did say i did look like Frankstein's Bride -and no,it wasn't for the silver streaks in the hair

Paige,nice to see you again

 

[cchheels]

Welcome back

Hi Paige, glad to see you back online again.
Hope you had a wonderful time and some great experiences.
I agree with stg....love your new AV, and since I don't want to fight y'all for it, then maybe I could join your shopping trip also. What'dya think?
Erica / "Heels"

 

[Chelsea1960]

I CD as much as I can. My wife has no idea, and want to keep it that way. I do like men and other CD/TV/TS and would love to meet with a couple. I love to dress for my BF's , it is unbelievable how many guys contact me for sex. moxt just want oral, and i love to give it. I also shave most of my body, it makes me so hot when I shave and then put on some nice lingerie. I want to stay male, but would consider at least getting some small breasts. My two cents worth- Chelsea

 

[cchheels]

I CD as much as I can. My wife has no idea, and want to keep it that way. I do like men and other CD/TV/TS and would love to meet with a couple. I love to dress for my BF's , it is unbelievable how many guys contact me for sex. moxt just want oral, and i love to give it. I also shave most of my body, it makes me so hot when I shave and then put on some nice lingerie. I want to stay male, but would consider at least getting some small breasts. My two cents worth- Chelsea

I'd love to see some pictures Chelsea...I know how you feel (that feeling of being so SEXY) after you've done a shave, then slide into some sexy undies. Thanks for sharing your thoughts....like most of us, they're worth a LOT MORE THAN 2 CENTS.
Come visit my page and you'll find lots of pictures.

 

[Paige.]

Hi Paige, glad to see you back online again.
Hope you had a wonderful time and some great experiences.
I agree with stg....love your new AV, and since I don't want to fight y'all for it, then maybe I could join your shopping trip also. What'dya think?
Erica / "Heels"

Thanks Erica,

You guys are all too kind but I'm glad you like the Av. A shopping trip with you and STG would be great. We could all get some new shiny things.

I had a blast on my trip but I'm afraid the next pair of panties I buy might double as a parachute.

Thanks for the welcome back
Paige