25 Married Female Curious

[curious_sub_NZ]

Hi Everyone,

I am a 25 year old married female from New Zealand and very curious about the whole BDSM. Ever since I can remember I have always enjoyed submitting, it's hard to explain sometimes I just enjoy doing it and it's like I always want to do it, if that makes sense.

I am interested in seeing what I can learn and about the BDSM lifestyle. My Husband is not into being dominant so I thought I would take this into my own hands sort of thing.

I am looking more so for something online but we will see what happens.

PM me if you or ask questions or anything in here.

Thanks.

 

[nights1717]

Curious

Hello curious

What experience have you had? or what ideas make your body tingle?

 

[allforjulie]

not into BDSM but would be happy to try dominant PM me

 

[curious_sub_NZ]

Hello curious

What experience have you had? or what ideas make your body tingle?

I'll be honest and say I have not had too much experience. I have chatted in chatrooms before though that was more of a once off thing.

Ideas that make my body tingle are, a lot of things from...

Kissing to being tied up/down, spanking excites me, oral, everything about sex excites me..I think I have a high sex drive and for me the thought of wanting to submit comes about by doing anything that I know would please the person I am submitting to. It's more about knowing that they are happy or pleased etc that I am doing everything that they have asked of me.

One thing I have not tried is anal though I could be open to this in the future.

Another thing that excites me is orgasm control, I'm not sure why but the thought of not being able to have an orgasm is quite a turn on.

I also love to play with my clit so I have had the thought of where I just play with my clit and not stop though doing it myself I always stop because it gets too intense.

 

[Dreamliner]

hello c_s_nz, great place to look here at lit and interact with like minded people. Check out the BDSM forums and you may also like the NZ F_Buddy thread here.

Enjoy exploring.

D

 

[curious_sub_NZ]

hello c_s_nz, great place to look here at lit and interact with like minded people. Check out the BDSM forums and you may also like the NZ F_Buddy thread here.

Enjoy exploring.

D

Thanks I will take a look at the link you posted as well.

 

[SirSensual]

PM sent.