A Final Foray (Maybe?): 39F for Gentleman

[Desiree_Radcliffe]

May as well give this a bump to see if anyone else is interested in what I could provide. Understandable if not. I hope you all have a good day.

 

[SingleWisconsinite38]

Giving this a little bump with a nerdy fact that, as a mathematician, I find interesting.

Any number made of only the digit 1 (e.g., 11, 111, 1111, etc.) is prime if the number of ones is prime except.

For example: 111 is prime but 111,111 is not because 3 goes into 111,111 37,037 times.

 

[pollock0]

I'm still hoping you find the right person for you Desiree.

 

[Imakewetspots]

You know, Desiree, for a woman who describes herself as very submissive and is searching (without success) for someone special, you have a way of coming across as arrogant and uncompromising. Even judgy with some condescension mixed in.

Maybe I’m reading you wrong and if so, I apologize. I’ve known folks in the Goth world before and I admire the common attitude of not caring what others think. It can be a gift. But the flip side of that coin is it can be off putting to most others.

I only mention it because I foresee you being alone if you normally behave the way you are in this post. To get what you’re searching for, you might need to accept that most people won’t meet your high standards of perfection.

Again, not throwing knives. Just trying to offer an unbiased opinion, even if it wasn’t asked for. I sincerely hope you find the person you’re looking for. You really do sound like a very intriguing woman.

 

[Desiree_Radcliffe]

You know, Desiree, for a woman who describes herself as very submissive and is searching (without success) for someone special, you have a way of coming across as arrogant and uncompromising. Even judgy with some condescension mixed in.

Maybe I’m reading you wrong and if so, I apologize. I’ve known folks in the Goth world before and I admire the common attitude of not caring what others think. It can be a gift. But the flip side of that coin is it can be off putting to most others.

I only mention it because I foresee you being alone if you normally behave the way you are in this post. To get what you’re searching for, you might need to accept that most people won’t meet your high standards of perfection.

Again, not throwing knives. Just trying to offer an unbiased opinion, even if it wasn’t asked for. I sincerely hope you find the person you’re looking for. You really do sound like a very intriguing woman.

You are throwing knives because what you said was meant to elicit a reaction. I hope you have a good day. You were never required to respond to this thread and certainly not with the judgment that you claim I have.

By the way, search is over. I wish everyone well. All the best to you and thank you to those of you were kind. To the unhelpful, salty men, maybe be more polite and respectful in the future and you'll get whatever you are searching for. Cheers, everyone!

 

[MysteriousStrangerI]

No, Desiree is a bit of a dick. You extend an invite for content and, when it is not precisely what you want, you dismiss people rather curtly

For example, I was accused of conspiracy theory but my whole post was factual, no conspiracy. Just a mention that people get things wrong

Example: Crime rises steadily from May to August on average. The sale of ice cream increases steadily slightly behind it
If I say, for example, ice cream does not cause crime, this is correlation, not causation, Desiree might respond with "I did not start this thread to hear conspiracies"

They are connected - they both increase because it is summer.

I once had someone argue that the US used atomic weapons on Japan but not Germany because of racism, Germans being white and Japanese not.
This is conspiracy theory on the part of the person claiming the racism and they "prove" their claim by pointing out only Japan, of the whole Axis, was nuked
But I can easily disprove this because the main race to develop atomics was against Germany. That, and the first actual atomic weapon was not available until July 15, 1945 and Germany had surrendered May 8, 1945. Even for a group as deplorable as the Nazis, it is really poor sportsmanship to nuke someone some 2 months and a bit AFTER they surrendered

 

[Grimm_Hatter]

It is me again.

A while back I wrote an advert in which I was seeking a gentleman. I spent a lot of time talking about who I was and what I desired. However, I don't think I really knew what I wanted, and so now I wonder if I shouldn't be a little more specific to clear up confusion. So, here we go again.

I am a 39-year-old educated woman drifting rather aimlessly through the world. As I wrote in the other post, I probably fill two of your fantasies, as I work in a library and am goth. I genuinely enjoy The Cure, cemetery strolls, and wearing a lot of black (I don't always wear black). I don't "dress goth" for anyone. I do it because I have been goth for years, and it suits my philosophy and frankly makes me happy.

I've seen people post ads here for all sorts of things, so I am going to try to better illustrate what I am looking for.

I'd like a long term online-only dynamic with someone who has or can make time. I have found that this has been very difficult to find, because a lot of the men here are married and devote most of their time to either their spouse or sneaking around on their spouse. I find that degrading to both me and the spouse, so I don't go there. I know a lot of you have your reasons, but I will put you on ignore if you whinge about them here. I am not for you and you can scroll on. PS: I don't hate the married men here. I will just not engage with them sexually.

Having said that, for the right person I can be utterly devoted. I am very submissive, so I do tend to value a power dynamic, but what that entails can be very flexible. I am not into degradation or being objectified, so if that is your thing, it would be OK to scroll on. I am into being pleasing, obedient, and some other more specific things that we can discuss if this pleases you.

Time is so important to me. It's very frustrating when someone is never online at the same time, or does feast or famine communication. I do not ask for a constant online presence, but even daily textual conversation would be welcome. As I said before, I am looking for online-only. I value my privacy and solitude, and while I do always hope for some philosophical and intimate connection, I am not here for anything that will last forever. Just enjoy it while we can.

So, if you have some time and are hopefully a decent, well-read person, this is the advert for you. For reference, I am in the EST time zone, but I do have flexibility if you don't mind having the same. Thank you for reading and I wish you all the best.

I would absolutely love to talk with you. I am a single man with 2 beautiful daughters I am raising. I have now than enough time to take with you anytime day or night. No drama no strings just straight up long term online talk and\or line yet online relationship