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LOL. I mean 'what town' kind of questions.

If I wanted that info known I would have put it in my profile. Sheesh! :catroar:
 
Anne Waters said:
LOL. I mean 'what town' kind of questions.

If I wanted that info known I would have put it in my profile. Sheesh! :catroar:
Anne,
First a hug and a :kiss: for the lovely lady. If some fool is that dumb to think you or anyone would tell something like that before you got to know someone. Tell them I live on the corner of Lit and Erotica #149674 come around sometime me and the old man love to play beat the fool :) . I know bad Fred :D

In over 20years I have been on the net...I know showing my age...back in the days of telnet ...There has been only once when I ask someone where they lived... she was sick and need help. But I have meet over 150 people over the years but with each one we learned to know and trust each other before that info was given.

Well today I'm very SAD and Missing RS she has removed herself from AmPic.. I understand the reason, but I will still miss her... so I will dance alone in the dark missing a friend were no one can see my tears or hear me cry.


leaving a :rose: for missing friend

Fred
 
slyfox_vixen said:
hi, im new too lit,to the net actually... BIG HUGZ to all of you :) i have depression, sometimes i get so depressed i silently cry myself to sleep, why silently? because my husband doesnt believe in depression. He has never suffered from it and doesnt understand it. He believes that i should choose to be happy and whatever else all the time. So instead of support i have to hide the way i feel most of the time. Now i met someone, a guy who is so supportive and so wonderfull, and im sure without him i wouldnt be here because id have walked infront of a bus a long time ago.... but this is in some ways complicating my life, because i find myself falling inlove with him...needless to say this is confusing as hell, cause i love my husband and dont want to lose him, the worst part is that, i have cheated on my husband with my friend out of pure frustration... and it was the best sex of my life... which has left me even more confused... i am slowly but surely going insane.

I can so relate to this having gone through something recently.

My husband doesn't understand my needs, and I met someone else. I too was unfaithful and it was great because he was experienced and Hubby and I learned together, and are stuck in a rut.

Unfortunately for me, it didn't work out with the other man, for a few reasons, one of which was he didn't want to break up my marriage.

Someone once told me to think very carefully about leaving my husband because we have a history together and that will never change. It is very true, we've been together 22 years, we have 2 children, and I know I can trust him, and he loves me.

I was tempted by the excitement of someone new, but I know it would never have worked. Even if it still hurts like hell.

Please be careful your husband doesn't find out, and you lose them both. Some men lose interest in a woman when she is no longer married...

I'm sure you have already tried, but can you talk to your husband about how you feel?...get a book about it and show him. Partly he is right, you can chose to be happy, check out this site but it's not easy when you are in a depression, to find your way out, and you really need your husband to support you.

((HUGS))
 
Life is hell, it is little things that can make you crazy. One person tell you one thing another tell you this or that... and together you lost it. I hurt a friend today. Not because I wanted to it just happen. I have so few hurts... hurt one , in turn hust me a hundred times more. Both of the friends did not mean to upset me, but together it drove me crazy... and I hurt my friend. No I did not go and beat on them ...but I know I hurt their feeling. Why do I do this shit... my friend I am so sorry. I hope you will forget me.... please talk to me.

hugs kisses

Fred
 
drtshare said:
Life is hell, it is little things that can make you crazy. One person tell you one thing another tell you this or that... and together you lost it. I hurt a friend today. Not because I wanted to it just happen. I have so few hurts... hurt one , in turn hust me a hundred times more. Both of the friends did not mean to upset me, but together it drove me crazy... and I hurt my friend. No I did not go and beat on them ...but I know I hurt their feeling. Why do I do this shit... my friend I am so sorry. I hope you will forget me.... please talk to me.

hugs kisses

Fred


Fred dear,

We are good... its alright... *hugs tight*

Take care, will talk tomorrow. :)

:rose: :kiss:

~RS
 
So helpful...

I'm happy that people are talking. Talking is the hardest, first step. With friends in two of the services and my being retired. I have experienced many of the lows and also some of the highs. I'm also on meds for depression. So I will always try to be here for whoever wants to talk. Hugs to all.
 
I'm having a horrible day. Burst into tears at work - how embarrassing!!!
Then after work met up with some friends and told them what happened and burst into tears again.

Just want to curl up and cry in the corner..... does anyone mind if I just stay there for a bit?
 
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