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SweetErika
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I can't remember why I came across that, but it seems like AFF and its affiliated sites have a good reputation for using bots, not doing anything about spammers and generally ripping people off. Plus, the male to female ratio on those sites is outrageous; there are lots of other horndogs looking for NSA sex and relatively few women who meet most guys' qualifications.
Remember, if it seems too good to be true...
I can't remember why I came across that, but it seems like AFF and its affiliated sites have a good reputation for using bots, not doing anything about spammers and generally ripping people off. Plus, the male to female ratio on those sites is outrageous; there are lots of other horndogs looking for NSA sex and relatively few women who meet most guys' qualifications.
Remember, if it seems too good to be true...
Yang4yin
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To make contact with anyone on those sites, you have to pay a membership fee (unless they've changed the rules since the last time I checked). Other than lit, the only other sites I know of that are truly free are...
Bondage Busy, lots of fakes, and if you don't become a premium member, you can't contact other non-premium members using their messaging system
CollarMe Lots of activity
Fetish Exchange Minimal activity
NewArt Some activity, very specialized
Plenty of Fish Busy, mixed crowd
SlaveFarm Minimal activity, very specialized
Bondage Busy, lots of fakes, and if you don't become a premium member, you can't contact other non-premium members using their messaging system
CollarMe Lots of activity
Fetish Exchange Minimal activity
NewArt Some activity, very specialized
Plenty of Fish Busy, mixed crowd
SlaveFarm Minimal activity, very specialized
SweetErika
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Yang4yin said:
http://www.okcupid.com is 100% free, too.
I've met people from there and CollarMe, as well as here, of course.
I was a member of AFF and last year met a couple of people that I had talked to thru that site. I never paid to be a member. I was able to respond to messages that paid members sent to me. I talked to many many people from there but only met a few. Some people complain because there are a lot of bots on there and some complain that women do not want to meet in person. I know from experience that if a guy wrote to me a one line message asking to meet or something crude, I rarely responded. In order to get a woman to want to go to bed with you, you must go through her mind as well as the obvious physical.
Hope this helps.
Hope this helps.
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I've met a few friends off of Collarme.com, which is totally free, and zero from alt.com, which I had to pay for. I was hoping that if I hit a pay site, people would be more serious about what they were doing since they had to pay for it. Boy, am I a fool or what? = )
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Women and couples looking for men have FAR different experiences on sites like AFF than men do. Because they are in far shorter supply, they can afford to be exceedingly choosy and never pay a cent, whereas that's not the case for most men.LucyLoo75 said:
JoeAnaMamma
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Im a free member on AFF and I have meet a few people I actually meet one guy in person after being on for like 2 days It seems to me that men have more trouble then women on it cause my ex is also on and hes been for a bout a week and he hasnt done so good I think im gonna try the collarme one
In the past I have been a member of Bondage.com, Alt.com and AFF.com. Of the three, I had the most 'luck' meeting girls and couples from AFF. Although it's the most vanilla sight, there are specifics that will set the fetishes apart (along with a descriptive profile). For guys, being a Premium member is a must as the guys outnumber the girls/couples by a bunch. Good luck and have fun.
girlygirl_76
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I've had the best luck with Plenty of Fish, and Yahoo..but that was looking for well, fuck buddies. Craigslist has been okay... not so much quantity wise but quality wise. I never paid for any but I think that works cuz I'm a girl. I always message everybody even remotely meeting my needs, its easy enough to weed 'em out after you chat a bit.
girlygirl_76
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I've had the best luck with Plenty of Fish, and Yahoo..but that was looking for well, fuck buddies. Craigslist has been okay... not so much quantity wise but quality wise. I never paid for any but I think that works cuz I'm a girl. I always message everybody even remotely meeting my needs, its easy enough to weed 'em out after you chat a bit. I've meet people from aff and alt and sexy ads but its slim picking, one was actually the same person on all three.
