Age Conflict

[InABox565]

Naughty I Know What You Mean

I just ended a "long" relationship with a woman, 20 years my senior. We were friends, and had a great time together, but we had little in common, unfortunately. Maybe the only thing that kept us together was the incredible sex, although I don't want to believe that was the only thing.

We both knew that the age difference was a major "problem" but for people who are closer in age I don't think it should be an issue, and I'm talking about ten to twelve years difference. Ours was just so incredibly large that it was a factor.

It was a learning experience, and I'm so very thankful for it. I wouldn't trade what I've learned for the world. You live, you learn, sometimes you hurt, but you always move on, its all part of this ride we call life.

 

[Guest]

Re: Naughty I Know What You Mean

I just ended a "long" relationship with a woman, 20 years my senior. We were friends, and had a great time together, but we had little in common, unfortunately. Maybe the only thing that kept us together was the incredible sex, although I don't want to believe that was the only thing.

We both knew that the age difference was a major "problem" but for people who are closer in age I don't think it should be an issue, and I'm talking about ten to twelve years difference. Ours was just so incredibly large that it was a factor.

It was a learning experience, and I'm so very thankful for it. I wouldn't trade what I've learned for the world. You live, you learn, sometimes you hurt, but you always move on, its all part of this ride we call life.

Had I met my younger man later in life it might have been different. The older you are the less difference 10 yrs. makes. When we were together I was 29 and he was 19. That sounds bad, but 39 and 29.......see what I mean?
I wouldn't change a thing though, he is still a friend, and I am now married to a wonderful man, my best friend.

Feelin' Naughty, not unregistered, damn cookies!

 

[TimeCrisis]

There were some mixed responses on this board but I'd just like to clarify some things. First off Pagen no one said 28 was old! In this case 28 is just "older" then me. Secondly in my original post when i refered to the recent posts for younger guys looking for older women I should of said that I believe that these posts aren't exactly looking for relationships because I don't believe they are. I believe they are looking for sexual encounters and an overall "good time" nothing long term or serious. Oh well theres my 2 cents.

 

[Feelin' Naughty]

There were some mixed responses on this board but I'd just like to clarify some things. First off Pagen no one said 28 was old! In this case 28 is just "older" then me. Secondly in my original post when i refered to the recent posts for younger guys looking for older women I should of said that I believe that these posts aren't exactly looking for relationships because I don't believe they are. I believe they are looking for sexual encounters and an overall "good time" nothing long term or serious. Oh well theres my 2 cents.

I'm afraid your thread was hi-jacked m' dear, that happens a lot. We knew what you meant, we just tend to get away from the original subject. I'm sorry hehe

 

[MacCortz]

older women

I most definatly like "older" women. Not necessarily older than I but women in thier mid 30s begain to develop a certain "charm" and maturity which is wonderful. I have met some absolutely charming woman in their 60s and 70s and one is 84. Relationships however remain quite platonic.

As we individualy age our views change and unfortunatly so do our bodies. The primary instrument of sex is the mind .... of course that was said by someone whose age had allow it to forget what a joy it was to use some of the other parts.

 

[Ree]

I tend to prefer men older then me, I am 30. My husband is younger but only by a year. Older men tend to take more time talking to women and seducing their minds. I like men who can turn me on with words not just with their hands. If I found someone younger who could do that I wouldn't discount them just because of age. I just find that most younger men start off the conversation with the stomach turning phrase, "You wanna have sex?" If you can seduce my mind then the rest of me will follow and you will be pleased that you got the whole package.

**Woohoo, it took me long enough but I just broke 100 and didn't even know it.**