All things Edging

I’m an old guy. Every so often I hear of “something new” and either I don’t understand it or it seems like something old.

Edging. You mean masturbating and not coming as quickly as you can?

I used to do that when I would rent a half dozen VHS porn movies and beat off for three hours.
Yes. You work until nearly a blow, stop cold. Throbbing and leaking. No pulsing ejaculation.

let the throbber relax and leaking. Start again as a thick chubby.
 
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I love edging. Whether it is just taking my time to work up to a hard orgasm, or letting my mind be mesmerised for hours with stories, audios or fantasies, its such an amazing way to keep the sexual brain engaged and let the body quiver along..or vice versa. Sometimes I will edge for hours, or even days..chatting with online playmates, indulging in tasks and performing to scratch my exhibitionist itch.

i have also been tied, edged and denied in private play and parties. There is something hypnotic about being taken to and held at that point just before you tip...and I love to find new and interesting ways to enjoy it.

Keen to hear others experiences...if you are an edger how do you do it, who do you do it with, what do you watch, listen to or read. How many inventive and interesting ways have you found to get to that edge and stay there? How long can you hold it??

Lets take the conversation to the edge...
Edging and orgasm control are central to our sex life. My wife controls my orgasm and allows me to cum 1-2x a month.

We have sex a few times a week and my focus is always on her orgasm and pleasure. When I get close to cumming, I back off or slow down. Sometimes I will get competent flaccid and then restart. We typically have long session - around 30 minutes.

She will give me good, long edging handjobs without letting me cum abt once a week. This requires strong communication to keep me on the edge without tipping over. Then she leaves me delightfully and maddeningly frustrated.

When she’s not entirely in the mood, she will let me masturbate. She usually watches. Sometimes when I’m horny, I will also masturbate alone, but I always tell her and i edge and I don’t cum.

I save my ejaculation for her.

When I do cum, it is powerful, voluminous and shoots pretty far. I’ve been three weeks without cumming and I think I am due this weekend or next. (I hope)

The thing is, the feeling of lust you have after a few weeks really changes you. I become super attentive to her and loving and horny. When I edge, it’s an amazing feeling!

When I cum, I lose that feeling.
 
Edging and orgasm control are central to our sex life. My wife controls my orgasm and allows me to cum 1-2x a month.

We have sex a few times a week and my focus is always on her orgasm and pleasure. When I get close to cumming, I back off or slow down. Sometimes I will get competent flaccid and then restart. We typically have long session - around 30 minutes.

She will give me good, long edging handjobs without letting me cum abt once a week. This requires strong communication to keep me on the edge without tipping over. Then she leaves me delightfully and maddeningly frustrated.

When she’s not entirely in the mood, she will let me masturbate. She usually watches. Sometimes when I’m horny, I will also masturbate alone, but I always tell her and i edge and I don’t cum.

I save my ejaculation for her.

When I do cum, it is powerful, voluminous and shoots pretty far. I’ve been three weeks without cumming and I think I am due this weekend or next. (I hope)

The thing is, the feeling of lust you have after a few weeks really changes you. I become super attentive to her and loving and horny. When I edge, it’s an amazing feeling!

When I cum, I lose that feeling.
sounds amazing and thanks for sharing your experience, I love all aspects of that dynamic, especially the orgasm control and focus on her pleasure...a female led relationship is a thing of beauty
 
I love edging. Whether it is just taking my time to work up to a hard orgasm, or letting my mind be mesmerised for hours with stories, audios or fantasies, its such an amazing way to keep the sexual brain engaged and let the body quiver along..or vice versa. Sometimes I will edge for hours, or even days..chatting with online playmates, indulging in tasks and performing to scratch my exhibitionist itch.

i have also been tied, edged and denied in private play and parties. There is something hypnotic about being taken to and held at that point just before you tip...and I love to find new and interesting ways to enjoy it.

Keen to hear others experiences...if you are an edger how do you do it, who do you do it with, what do you watch, listen to or read. How many inventive and interesting ways have you found to get to that edge and stay there? How long can you hold it??

Lets take the conversation to the edge...
I find edging so incredibly enjoyable. I love that feeling of knowing that your orgasm is just a stroke or two away and you stop, reset a little and build back up. These days I don’t have nearly the time I used to when I was in college, but my wife and I do work some edging in and when I do finally cum it is so much more powerful.

In college though I could edge for 3-4 hours just looking at Playboy or Penthouse magazines and fantasizing about the young women I knew.
 
I find edging so incredibly enjoyable. I love that feeling of knowing that your orgasm is just a stroke or two away and you stop, reset a little and build back up. These days I don’t have nearly the time I used to when I was in college, but my wife and I do work some edging in and when I do finally cum it is so much more powerful.

In college though I could edge for 3-4 hours just looking at Playboy or Penthouse magazines and fantasizing about the young women I knew.
Fantastic, sharing that edging with a partner makes it so much more intense in my experience.
 
I’m an old guy. Every so often I hear of “something new” and either I don’t understand it or it seems like something old.

Edging. You mean masturbating and not coming as quickly as you can?

I used to do that when I would rent a half dozen VHS porn movies and beat off for three hours.
Yup…Edging is holding back…you can edge while fucking, or masturbating…as long as you’re consciously delaying your orgasm…you are EDGING
 
Edging and orgasm control are central to our sex life. My wife controls my orgasm and allows me to cum 1-2x a month.

We have sex a few times a week and my focus is always on her orgasm and pleasure. When I get close to cumming, I back off or slow down. Sometimes I will get competent flaccid and then restart. We typically have long session - around 30 minutes.

She will give me good, long edging handjobs without letting me cum abt once a week. This requires strong communication to keep me on the edge without tipping over. Then she leaves me delightfully and maddeningly frustrated.

When she’s not entirely in the mood, she will let me masturbate. She usually watches. Sometimes when I’m horny, I will also masturbate alone, but I always tell her and i edge and I don’t cum.

I save my ejaculation for her.

When I do cum, it is powerful, voluminous and shoots pretty far. I’ve been three weeks without cumming and I think I am due this weekend or next. (I hope)

The thing is, the feeling of lust you have after a few weeks really changes you. I become super attentive to her and loving and horny. When I edge, it’s an amazing feeling!

When I cum, I lose that feeling.
Wow I love this! I would love to hear how you guys got into this
 
I find edging so incredibly enjoyable. I love that feeling of knowing that your orgasm is just a stroke or two away and you stop, reset a little and build back up. These days I don’t have nearly the time I used to when I was in college, but my wife and I do work some edging in and when I do finally cum it is so much more powerful.

In college though I could edge for 3-4 hours just looking at Playboy or Penthouse magazines and fantasizing about the young women I knew.
Yes, that was a pastime of mine in college too...Penthouse letters and Xavier Hollander. I know I hit 1.5 hours regularly. Retired now and wife and I worked edging into our playtime about 10 years ago. Started watching videos together. Would've never believed she was up for it, but she opened out sex life up by joining me in edging and looking at vids.
 
Yes, that was a pastime of mine in college too...Penthouse letters and Xavier Hollander. I know I hit 1.5 hours regularly. Retired now and wife and I worked edging into our playtime about 10 years ago. Started watching videos together. Would've never believed she was up for it, but she opened out sex life up by joining me in edging and looking at vids.
Wow I love this my wife and I too just incorporated edging into our sex life l!
 
Keen to hear others experiences...if you are an edger how do you do it, who do you do it with, what do you watch, listen to or read. How many inventive and interesting ways have you found to get to that edge and stay there? How long can you hold it??

Lets take the conversation to the edge...
I edge about half of the time; building on multiple orgasms feels just as good. I listen to music, rain sounds, videos of concerts, and literotica audios. Visual input comes from reading, my mind's eye, and/or fantasy.

Suddenly stopping clitoral stimulation is abrupt and usually drops me away from the edge too fast. That's rarely the intention, it doesn't let me enjoy being tantalizingly close which is the true pleasure.

My favorite pattern is circles and side to side on my clit. Slowing down my favorite patterns... then changing to patterns I don't like but don't hate (ex tapping, up and down)... and then stopping always feels pleasureably frustrating.

I can hold it for hours. Most of the time, I'm not trying to set a personal record and am just building some anticipation for... absolutely inevitable... release.
 
From a husband/wife bondage event, a different kind of edging: Four Posts and an Edge

"Yeah. We've done a tiny bit of experimental rope stuff, couple times, which was fun. But this was on account of something I read."

My eyebrows went up.

"Read? Where?"

"I am not going to tell you. But I read that for most males, the best, absolutely best, way for them to experience a grand mal orgasm is to be tied up. The sexual tension increases dramatically, everything outside their control, the build-up of sperm pressure, the exquisite desire for release, the whole business is heightened, and enhanced, with restraint."
 
Been edging since I was a kid but we didn’t call it that. Didn’t call it anything. But I did find out in my late teens that it was a really great way to build stamina so I just kept it up and never had an issue with getting off too fast.
 
I edge about half of the time; building on multiple orgasms feels just as good. I listen to music, rain sounds, videos of concerts, and literotica audios. Visual input comes from reading, my mind's eye, and/or fantasy.

Suddenly stopping clitoral stimulation is abrupt and usually drops me away from the edge too fast. That's rarely the intention, it doesn't let me enjoy being tantalizingly close which is the true pleasure.

My favorite pattern is circles and side to side on my clit. Slowing down my favorite patterns... then changing to patterns I don't like but don't hate (ex tapping, up and down)... and then stopping always feels pleasureably frustrating.

I can hold it for hours. Most of the time, I'm not trying to set a personal record and am just building some anticipation for... absolutely inevitable... release.
Nice…I started a thread a while back for us to describe the various techniques we all use when edging…love your description …check out this thread and feel free to explain in detail your edging routine…you’ll see that a lot of us enjoy this hobby❤️😈

https://forum.literotica.com/threads/best-edging-techniques.1644824/page-10#post-103807272
 
Been edging since I was a kid but we didn’t call it that. Didn’t call it anything. But I did find out in my late teens that it was a really great way to build stamina so I just kept it up and never had an issue with getting off too fast.
Exactly…it’s a great way that can also make love making sessions last a nice long time as well👍🏻
 
I edge about half of the time; building on multiple orgasms feels just as good. I listen to music, rain sounds, videos of concerts, and literotica audios. Visual input comes from reading, my mind's eye, and/or fantasy.

Suddenly stopping clitoral stimulation is abrupt and usually drops me away from the edge too fast. That's rarely the intention, it doesn't let me enjoy being tantalizingly close which is the true pleasure.

My favorite pattern is circles and side to side on my clit. Slowing down my favorite patterns... then changing to patterns I don't like but don't hate (ex tapping, up and down)... and then stopping always feels pleasureably frustrating.

I can hold it for hours. Most of the time, I'm not trying to set a personal record and am just building some anticipation for... absolutely inevitable... release.
You normally don’t think of women ‘edging’…with the ability to have multiple orgasms, one after another…with the awesome ability to have a clitoral orgasm, a vaginal orgasm and G spot orgasm…one right after the other…most guys think why on earth women would ever edge for hours when they can have dozens of orgasms in the same amount of time…good for you taking up the hobby 👍🏻
 
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