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So yesterday I asked what turned you on. Today I am wondering how you get off…
What is your inspiration? Videos/porn sites? Categories? Do you need or want visual stimulation or do you use your mind only? Do you use toys, lube, have any favorites. Please share them!
Do you edge for a long time first or do you just get it done? How often do you play?

I’m thinking solo play only today.
As always I can’t wait to hear your answers but I will definitely share my own experiences.



This is currently my favorite toy. I love everything about it. It’s waterproof multiple vibration settings and intensities and six different thrusting patterns. It’s delicious. Only complaint…it works a little too well 😂😘🤭
Damn. I missed it by 5 minutes
 
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So yesterday I asked what turned you on. Today I am wondering how you get off…
What is your inspiration? Videos/porn sites? Categories? Do you need or want visual stimulation or do you use your mind only? Do you use toys, lube, have any favorites. Please share them!
Do you edge for a long time first or do you just get it done? How often do you play?

I’m thinking solo play only today.
As always I can’t wait to hear your answers but I will definitely share my own experiences.



This is currently my favorite toy. I love everything about it. It’s waterproof multiple vibration settings and intensities and six different thrusting patterns. It’s delicious. Only complaint…it works a little too well 😂😘🤭
I watch videos as well as reading erotic stories. I enjoy both the visual and mental stimulation of videos and stories. I do just use my mind only. I don't use any toys or lube. I do both edging and getting it done quickly. I masturbate 3 or 4 times a week
 
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So yesterday I asked what turned you on. Today I am wondering how you get off…
What is your inspiration? Videos/porn sites? Categories? Do you need or want visual stimulation or do you use your mind only? Do you use toys, lube, have any favorites. Please share them!
Do you edge for a long time first or do you just get it done? How often do you play?

I’m thinking solo play only today.
As always I can’t wait to hear your answers but I will definitely share my own experiences.



This is currently my favorite toy. I love everything about it. It’s waterproof multiple vibration settings and intensities and six different thrusting patterns. It’s delicious. Only complaint…it works a little too well 😂😘🤭
I’m all over the place, usually use my mind, a combination of imagination and past experiences.

I run hot so generally every morning lie-ing in bed by my wife, I don’t need lube, and no toys.

Sometimes at night I edge for a while and then end up going two or three times. on those occasions I’m reading stories from a bunch of categories (a lot of bdsm or power exchange but also some just well written erotica) and intersperse it with some porn.

great thread loving the positivity.
 
There is no one thing but I do have ✨a type✨, but that's for another time covered off in the edit.

I need a mental & emotional connection usually, but there have been a couple of times in my life where I've not been feeling so good, flustered, distracted etc, and a stranger has looked at me from across the room and taken my breath away.

People who look at me and can see through my bullshit immediately and just see me, the real me - with a penetrating gaze or whatever it is they have - do it for me.

EDIT: their voice. I am a musician (hobby only) so I have a very good memory for melodies.

I also have a thing for regional accents, specifically the Lancashire (UK) ones (not sure why).

The melody of someone's voice remains in my head if I've heard it enough, so like with PG I will now read her posts with her voice (if that makes sense?)

My types are -
Men: tall, muscled, tattoos, looks like he'd throw you around just because, muscles because he needs them to throw me around

Women: I actually prefer girly girls who have that glint in their eye where you know they're filthy

As others have said, I need that mental stimulation. I need someone to come to me with a conversation, not just a "hey! Nice tits!" That'll get you a "thanks! I grew them myself!" And then I'll expect you to fuck off 🤣

Someone who is witty, thoughtful, knows how to have fun. There's a lot of emphasis on being "old" in society but IDGAF about that. Let yourself go!
 
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💨 poof

So yesterday I asked what turned you on. Today I am wondering how you get off…
What is your inspiration? Videos/porn sites? Categories? Do you need or want visual stimulation or do you use your mind only? Do you use toys, lube, have any favorites. Please share them!
Do you edge for a long time first or do you just get it done? How often do you play?

I’m thinking solo play only today.
As always I can’t wait to hear your answers but I will definitely share my own experiences.



This is currently my favorite toy. I love everything about it. It’s waterproof multiple vibration settings and intensities and six different thrusting patterns. It’s delicious. Only complaint…it works a little too well 😂😘🤭
Audio porn on headphones, so they're literally in my ears, and a good vibrator. I have a few toys but my fave at the moment is my Lovense Lush. The vibration settings are varied enough to be extremely effective.

I have a couple of fave audio porn creators and they never fail to immerse me in a scenario. I love voices, accents, hearing the other person breathe and orgasm...ok I need to go back and edit my response to yesterday's question!! 🤭
 
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Before returning to Lit, I mostly only got off when I was in the shower with the shower head. I'm back in the habit of using my toys again, and have bought a few new ones! I only use lube for butt stuff, because things get plenty wet on their own otherwise 🙈 Before I was in a relationship, I enjoyed videoing myself and sharing it with a few close friends. Now I get even more enjoyment out of sharing all of that and more with him. 💦💦💦
Reading this reminded me of something…
I’m pretty sure it was you who one time tried to teach me how to put my butt plug in by myself. 🤣🙈🤦‍♀️
 
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So yesterday I asked what turned you on. Today I am wondering how you get off…
What is your inspiration? Videos/porn sites? Categories? Do you need or want visual stimulation or do you use your mind only? Do you use toys, lube, have any favorites. Please share them!
Do you edge for a long time first or do you just get it done? How often do you play?

I’m thinking solo play only today.
As always I can’t wait to hear your answers but I will definitely share my own experiences.



This is currently my favorite toy. I love everything about it. It’s waterproof multiple vibration settings and intensities and six different thrusting patterns. It’s delicious. Only complaint…it works a little too well 😂😘🤭
First, sorry. I intended to record my answer, but today has been insane and I have zero privacy.

Second, the Lab is doing well. I am sure he just ate something he shouldn't have. Like maybe a bicycle.

Now, getting off

For inspiration, I am a pretty conventional, predictable man. Mostly. I respond to visual stimuli. My porn choices are, let's just say varied. Mostly, I tend towards amateur porn. But I have a few favourite pornstars. I have never liked male toys, but yes on the lube.

I enjoy having the luxury of time to edge, but I don't always get it.

But back to stimulus. I have another source of "inspiration".

Writing.

No, I don't mean written erotica, although that certainly enters into my play. And I also enjoy hearing porn read (there are a few on the story side). And I am not referring to sexting / e-boning. That has been hit and miss. I have played with creative, engaged women who know how to keep up their end of the "conversation" I have played with some who just want me to write them something hot so they can get off.

No, I mean my own writing. I was given the wise advise when I started writing that if it doesn't make me hard it won't get anyone else aroused. I write things that turn me on and yes, I take advantage of the arousal. The person that gave me that advise complimented me on m y ability to write a sex scene. I need work on character and plot development :ROFLMAO:.

But, my varied tastes are the reason 75% of my writing will never see the light of day.:devilish:
 
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So yesterday I asked what turned you on. Today I am wondering how you get off…
What is your inspiration? Videos/porn sites? Categories? Do you need or want visual stimulation or do you use your mind only? Do you use toys, lube, have any favorites. Please share them!
Do you edge for a long time first or do you just get it done? How often do you play?

I’m thinking solo play only today.
As always I can’t wait to hear your answers but I will definitely share my own experiences.



This is currently my favorite toy. I love everything about it. It’s waterproof multiple vibration settings and intensities and six different thrusting patterns. It’s delicious. Only complaint…it works a little too well 😂😘🤭
I’m sad I missed your pic PG!

https://voca.ro/11LRAnOpX6jv
 
I’m sad I missed your pic PG!

https://voca.ro/11LRAnOpX6jv
Luv, luv, luv your answers here, Lonelywife!
So informative and interesting, exhilaratingly comprehensive, and well... extremely arousing, to be honest.

The conversational aspect of how you present this fascinating glimpse behind the erotic curtain is delightful.
(And you've got a beautiful voice, too.) I enjoyed how you spoke about 'text' being a great warm-up, though not quite getting you there... while 'audio', and visual stimulation, could take you to the wondrous finish much more effectively.
But actually "hearing" you describe it really drove home the power of the audio connections you describe!
(Life imitating art, perhaps... lol.)

Anyhow, I could go on and on... and maybe I already am. Luv this audio! Thanks so much for sharing with us here!
 
Amazing posts, Photog1rl. Awesome audio!
I probably could've added my gushing compliments to any number of your posts, as I've fallen down the rabbit hole... and I luv it. Amazing! I'm enthralled by your positivity, fun and sunny (and sexy) personality, and your celebratory approach. I admittedly came here originally for the eroticism (*blush*), but I was then blindsided by refreshing ruminations that made me feel better about myself as a person. What a gift. Thank you for this!

As I mentioned, I'm sure this comment could have found a home in any number of places because I've enjoyed a great many of you contributions tonight. But I also wanted to say that this specific audio was a fantastic idea! (And you have a truly lovely voice! Beautiful. Inspiring... Your whole 'audio' vibe is sweet.) I'm almost totally new to any kind of online community like Lit, and since I joined last weekend it's been a steep learning curve for a nearly tech-illiterate former-luddite such as myself... but am I ever glad that I joined. Folks have been so welcoming, and forgiving of my ignorance. For example, I'd never even heard of Vocaroo until a couple days ago. But after discovering Lonelywife's great audio earlier today, and then yours this evening, I can see that I've got another new world to explore. Thanks!

Apologies if this is the wrong place for giving 'all' of this feedback, but I also wanted to say how much I luv your profile! I'm really glad to hear that you value kindness and positivity, because you're less likely to find my long-winded stream of over-the-top praise to be irritating... lol. But if I am guilty of being a kiss-ass (whoops), I only do so when I'm fueled by enthusiasm and sincerity. And I really, really like what you've got to say, how you say it, and this inclusive community of celebration and fun that you are overseeing! What a blast...

Okay, well I'd better wrap this up soon because I seem to have lost whatever loose thread once ran precariously through my narrative. (Maybe I should write messages at the start of my night on Lit, not at the end. Or should I say, not after the "finish"... *blushing*. Now, my point, my point... where's my point, lol.) Here it is. Luv your audios, luv the idea, luv this thread, and all of your other incredible posts that I've stumbled upon so far! Thanks for generously creating such fun content.

And I hope that you have a great day, and a fantastic week too!
 
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Ok. So there seems to be a desire for more audio threads. I will get that started this week. I love audio so it should be fun!
Another thing Iove doing is going to the pool and showing off a little.
Tonight I'm sharing a photo that gives y’all a peek into my life. You can see some tan lines but you also get to see what I love to do post shower in the summer. I turn the fans on and lay down on the sheets to let the cool air dry my body. It is sensual and relaxing and I feel so sexy.
 
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