an interesting and somewhat embarassing question...

[BBW Fan]

I was wondering what might cause this and/or how to fix this. Most of the time when I ejaculate, my cum pretty much flows out instead of shooting out.. if that makes sense. Most of the time this really isn't a problem, but there are a few things that this prevents me from doing effectively.. such as shooting my cum onto my wife's breast.

Is there something I can do? Change my diet or something?

 

[warrior queen]

the only thing that might help is pelvic floor excercises.

 

[Abaddonil Half-Dead]

Pal, you might try some of those sex-shop spray-s, they might help,really

 

[Dazz Hetfield]

Maybe a tighter grip too. If I wanna shoot I just grip tighter as I'm about to cum.

 

[EJFan]

try doing some exercises that strengthen the PC muscle. there may be a thread about them somewhere on lit.

don't quote me on this, but i'm fairly certain that peter north wrote a book 10 years or so ago. among other things, he detailed his diet and exercise regimen... including how to get those incredible distances from cum shots.

depending on how much you want to enhance this, it could be a matter of some basic PC exercises, or all the way to a complete body/lifestyle change.

 

[sharpchick]

A cock ring or even a hair elastic - remove at the crucial moment.

 

[FrenchManicure]

I've noticed that if a man ejacualtes often, it isn't as forceful. Like it may squirt really far the first time, but if we have sex again shortly after, it isn't as strong of a spurt. Have you tried waiting a day or two in between and seeing if that is the case?

Also: Don't be embarassed about asking that question. It's nothing to be embarassed about at all