Anal Play (male) How??????

[james69]

I am really interested in anal play, but i have no idea how to do it. Can you please help me. Tell me what i need to do, what lube is needed everything that i need to know! You are talking to a real amateur in this area,

Thanks

 

[atic]

The best advice anyone can give you on this is the following: go slowly!

Personally I like Probe Classic for anal, but lube is a very personal choice, so I'm sure many others have differing opinions.

If you are anything like me, you'll get a toy (I recommend spending the extra on silicon toys, they are much nicer), get excited and rush things. That can really hurt. So start with a finger, then two etc. work your way up to something bigger.

Toys - dildos and buttplugs are both fun. I buy mine at http://www.babeland.com/, they are really nice there and they have great stuff.

 

[ntp]

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[VSE]

Initial advice as per above is start slow. Best thing to use initially is a finger (trim your nail(s) first).

KY works plenty fine, but to start with no reason why you couldn't use Olive or veg oil. DONT use soap, shampoo, shower gel etc they will all leave you feeling less than comfortable. At a push Sun Cream/ after sun/moisturiser can be used, but personally I'm a little wary of using them simply becuase of the chemicals in them.

At the very least, go to the toilet before you start and have a play while you are in the shower/bath.

If you enjoy it, then start to consider maybe investing in a toy (they are far superior to anything you have lying around the house and arent going to get lost). What is going to be most entertaining depends on your own preference, I've got a plug and a dildo. Sometimes its just nice to feel full (and you'll love the first orgasm with a plug in) sometimes a bit of action is more appealing. As suggested, take it easy to begin with, trying to stick the Ron Jeremy imitation cock up your arse when you've previously only used a finger is going to have you hugging the lightfitting.

 

[ReadyOne]

Speaking of "around the house", there are tons of stories about things getting stuck up inside people's ass. Things like shot glasses are common.

Ask any one who works in an ER or emergancy clinic, and I'm sure they have more than one story where they really had to work hard to stay serious while treating the poor person.

They will treat you , no questions ask, and take you seriously, and they will not demean you or make you feel guilty.

It's just that in hind site, things can be really funny, especially if you're not the one who had the problem. Slapstick comedy.

Moral of the story: Always use something that has a large end which will stop it from going all the way in.

 

[fsumusic1981]

Here's what I have done...

I started off with fingering my ass while masturbating, learning to feel the pleasure. I did that a few times...

I didn't want to buy sex toys, lest my girlfriend get the wrong idea if she opened the mail, or she stumble into it while cleaning (she is a neat freak)... so I opted to look around my house to see what was around....

I then tried using the end of a wooden broom (it's lame, I know! But it's all I had!). It was smooth (no splinters!) and I covered it with two condoms just to be safe. I tried that one time and decided I wanted something larger.

I went to the supermarker and picked up two cucumbers and some romaine lettuce, and a tomato. Everything went into the crisper except one of the cucumbers. I brought that to the bedroom with me, put two of my condoms over it, coated it with KY and slowly slid it up my ass. It was very enjoyable and I was able to get 8 inches inside of me and still have some to hold onto.

When I was done, I cleaned up... cucumber went into the trash and I took a shower.

It worked for me, so maybe you wanna try it.

 

[Arden]

Anal Eze is nice, it's cherry scented and has an ingredient that numbs your skin to an extent, making penetration a bit easier. Take things slowly and enjoy your exploration to it's fullest.
(No pun intended)

 

[Bobmi357]

Speaking of "around the house", there are tons of stories about things getting stuck up inside people's ass. Things like shot glasses are common.

Ask any one who works in an ER or emergancy clinic, and I'm sure they have more than one story where they really had to work hard to stay serious while treating the poor person.

They will treat you , no questions ask, and take you seriously, and they will not demean you or make you feel guilty.

It's just that in hind site, things can be really funny, especially if you're not the one who had the problem. Slapstick comedy.

Moral of the story: Always use something that has a large end which will stop it from going all the way in.

My wife tells a story of one time while she was a first responder they answered a call from a woman that got a little adventerous with a bottle. The only problem was the woman didn't know the bottle should have had a hole in the bottom of it to prevent a suction from building up.

Needless to say the poor woman was stuck fast and the crew answering the 911 call did solve the problem. And they waited til after they left before breaking into fits of laughter.

So to add to your moral, if you want to experiment with household products, either make sure it won't get stuck, or have a friend handy to help you out so you don't have to call for help.

 

[Xtacy]

My advice, try it on yourself first and see the things you need to do inorder to build up, then apply similar things to him. ie you probably wouldn't be too happy if he just rammed the John Homes special up you without warning, but if you start off with a rub and a finger then slowly work your way up to easing it all in.

And most of all have fun!!