any advice

[warrior queen]

I know Nadias who are of pakistani origin.

and 'paki'? really?

your location says you're from the UK, so i'da thought you'd understand 'paki'.
all the nadia's i know are from european countries. russia, ukraine, etc.
all the pakistanis i've met have names like shaheen and shahinsha.

 

[where]

your location says you're from the UK, so i'da thought you'd understand 'paki'.
all the nadia's i know are from european countries. russia, ukraine, etc.
all the pakistanis i've met have names like shaheen and shahinsha.

yeah, 'paki' in the uk is a bit like saying 'nigger'.

Nadia is a common name for muslim and pakistani women.

 

[December]

yeah, 'paki' in the uk is a bit like saying 'nigger'.

Nadia is a common name for muslim and pakistani women.

Not just in the UK.

 

[SkAoUt]

Also some more advice. Put this gown on, hop up on the table, lie back and place your feet in these stirrups. I'll be back in a few minutes.

I was hoping for pervy advice off SkAoUt, but that is as good as any, I guess.

I gave pervy med fet advice. That bird flew.

 

[where]

Not just in the UK.

I was giving the benefit of the doubt.

 

[Saint Peter]

That bird flew.

There is nothing like a plan coming together.

 

[where]

I gave pervy med fet advice. That bird flew.

I have a very slow connection and I'm a bit... not straight.

but I very much liked your advice. what do you do when there's no stirrups? Hook your ankles over the Dr's shoulders?

 

[pointless]

noobs. warrior queen is a racist. just accept it.

 

[warrior queen]

yeah, 'paki' in the uk is a bit like saying 'nigger'.

Nadia is a common name for muslim and pakistani women.

all my ex-pat brit friends here in oz (and surprisingly, i have quite a few of those!) use the term 'paki'.
i don't use the n-word... but even saying 'black' nowadays is cause for vilification.
hell, we can't even call our own here 'aborigine' any more. excuse me, but they're indiginous australians.
but you know, all my aboriginal friends use that term for themselves (and yes - i have friends there too!), much like the african-americans call themselves n*****, but god help you if you're pale-skinned and you use that word!
fuck me - double standards anyone?

 

[where]

noobs. warrior queen is a racist. just accept it.

I can't keep tab. I just respond to post 90% of the time. the other 10% is stalking for sex.

 

[SkAoUt]

I have a very slow connection and I'm a bit... not straight.

but I very much liked your advice. what do you do when there's no stirrups? Hook your ankles over the Dr's shoulders?

I says pardon?

"Thats a most irregular prostate exam doc. Also take yer hands off my shoulders..."

 

[warrior queen]

noobs. warrior queen is a racist. just accept it.

and i'll damn well stay that way so long as i'm called a skinny white cunt by just about every darker-skinned person who makes a snap judgement of me based on my skin colour.
racism works in all directions.

 

[where]

I says pardon?

"Thats a most irregular prostate exam doc. Also take yer hands off my shoulders..."

damn. I wish I had my own cock.

 

[IrezumiKiss]

but you know, all my aboriginal friends use that term for themselves (and yes - i have friends there too!), much like the african-americans call themselves n*****, but god help you if you're pale-skinned and you use that word!
fuck me - double standards anyone?

Just an FYI...not ALL of us African-Americans call ourselves that word.

Despite what you hear in some of that hippity-hop music and Quentin Tarantino movies, we actually call each other by given names or as human beings in real life. Astonishing, I know, but I swear to you it's the truth. The real standard, no double.

 

[SkAoUt]

damn. I wish I had my own cock.

I've often wondered if hermaphrodites had the best of both worlds.

 

[pointless]

and i'll damn well stay that way so long as i'm called a skinny white cunt by just about every darker-skinned person who makes a snap judgement of me based on my skin colour.
racism works in all directions.

that's stupid.

 

[where]

I've often wondered if hermaphrodites had the best of both worlds.

only if they are true ones. having cunt and cock.

how fucking amazing to have both.

and I know it was a pun. but fuck...

I want a cock!

 

[IrezumiKiss]

and i'll damn well stay that way so long as i'm called a skinny white cunt by just about every darker-skinned person who makes a snap judgement of me based on my skin colour.
racism works in all directions.

What happens when a "lighter-skinned" person calls you a skinny white cunt based off a snap judgement of you from your skin color?

 

[warrior queen]

What happens when a "lighter-skinned" person calls you a skinny white cunt based off a snap judgement of you from your skin color?

exactly the same.
i'm gonna judge you by what you say to me redardless of your skin.
funny though - it's not usually the white dude that says that... almost always it's the pissed abo. and that's at 10 in the morning

 

[warrior queen]

Just an FYI...not ALL of us African-Americans call ourselves that word.

Despite what you hear in some of that hippity-hop music and Quentin Tarantino movies, we actually call each other by given names or as human beings in real life. Astonishing, I know, but I swear to you it's the truth. The real standard, no double.

i didn't say ALL.
btw, i have actually been to the united states... and i have actually heard a lot of this myself.
but again, it wasn't ALL of the african-americans who spoke that way - but sure as hell it was some of them.
and my response is: if you don't want people to say that word, it's got to stop within your own community too.

 

[IrezumiKiss]

i didn't say ALL.
btw, i have actually been to the united states... and i have actually heard a lot of this myself.
but again, it wasn't ALL of the african-americans who spoke that way - but sure as hell it was some of them.
and my response is: if you don't want people to say that word, it's got to stop within your own community too.

The thing is, though...that's never an excuse for you to use slurs. And it also doesn't mean that everyone in a particular community condones or accepts its use. Cultural and social inclusion of a community's vocabulary doesn't change the damage. And nobody knows that better than the people using them daily without thinking. Or maybe they don't know at all. In which case, the damage is done.

Now, if you use ethnic slurs, which is in your right to do so if you absolutely must describe other people with them, then it means something. And no abbreviation or nuanced spelling of that slur in its usage by you will mitigate what it will make you look like. Ask John Galliano how he's feeling these days.

 

[blunt_trauma]

all my ex-pat brit friends here in oz (and surprisingly, i have quite a few of those!) use the term 'paki'.

yeah, those are what we brits call 'racists'.
good to know you're taking a few of them off our hands.

 

[ruminator]

Even the threads where I have nothing to add are still fascinating to read.

 

[redheadedtxn]

what if my boy friend (whom i have not met since 20 years) sent an email to my abusive hubby without my knowledge.

m i under any threat of interrogation or prosecution

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Funnah.

well i used to live in pak. but no more. boyfriend lives in india. we started communicating through emails.

my hubby, who is still my hubby and lives with me, found out our email contact. he assaulted me (not the first time though). then he assaulted my parents who were visiting. i called help. he got arrested. later i felt sorry for him. he got out and we sort of made a bit of piece. he knows that i still communicate through email with my bf in india.

my bf knows about the abuse and was furious. so he wrote an email. hubby got furious and grilled me.

bf promised he will send no more mails.

later, i dont know y, he sent one to my hubby saying that i love nobody but my hubby and m missing his beatings.

my hubby got annoyed and called cops

so????????????????/

Uh...

its 'husband' apparently wants 'her' to fuck with no boundaries.

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=513597

wow.

yeah, 'paki' in the uk is a bit like saying 'nigger'.

Nadia is a common name for muslim and pakistani women.

I had no idea....

 

[blunt_trauma]

kowbell, her 'no boundaries' thread was in 2007.

you picking out that particular thing as evidence for bullshittery, well, it really bothers me. violent relationships rarely start out violent, so going from sex threads to battered threads in the space of 3-4 years would be proof of altdom? or is it that people who contemplate bedroom kinkiness are not allowed to complain about abuse?

i'm not saying she was genuine,
i'm saying that was a fucked up choice of 'evidence'.