pink
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*coming up behind you, kissing and licking your neck*
Are all the Bisexual Ladies shy or something?
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*coming up behind you, kissing and licking your neck*
Jade_Eyed_Lady
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Thanks for the welcome. I have read a few stories and saw their postings above, but idk... guess it doesn't work the same for me. I downloaded yahoo msgr last week just because most people have it, but i have yet to chat on it....
Farrah
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Sinking against you as you wrap your arms around me. *sigh*
Farrah
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Well, I sincerely hope you find what you are looking for. Best of luck, Jade!
celticbtrfly
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I echo VaGirl's welcome and hope we can all be of help to find the inspiration. I know I go through periods of time where I'm very inspired and can't stop writing and editing until it's all out on paper....and there are times when the well of creativeness runs dry. If nothing else, maybe this can be a place to kick around ideas or gain some new ones.
Jade_Eyed_Lady
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I echo VaGirl's welcome and hope we can all be of help to find the inspiration. I know I go through periods of time where I'm very inspired and can't stop writing and editing until it's all out on paper....and there are times when the well of creativeness runs dry. If nothing else, maybe this can be a place to kick around ideas or gain some new ones.
Thanks! I have for sure gained some ideas, but yes, I think I'm dry! lol
I am also working on a novel, not sexual, but interesting and fun to write just the same so I really need to fill up on creativity! I think, really, I'm just looking for others that fall into the same boat... married, but curious...
it took me a long time to get to this point, and after a few years of prodding by my hubby, he of course is all for it... The girl I originally chatted with is much younger and beautiful, and local to us. My issues with that (all those what-ifs) were hard to work through, but when I finally did, she quit texting me... Honestly, I think her problem is she can't have him without me and now that I type that, it pisses me off...
Then there was another woman, much older this time and also local, that was very willing to "show me the ropes" and didn't want my hubby to touch her at all, but then she reconciled with her ex-girlfriend...
I like to chat and so does he... There were times when girl x made me practically drip with desire and he really liked that... so hit me up!
pink
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Thanks! I have for sure gained some ideas, but yes, I think I'm dry! lol
I think, really, I'm just looking for others that fall into the same boat... married, but curious...
it took me a long time to get to this point, and after a few years of prodding by my hubby, he of course is all for it... The girl I originally chatted with is much younger and beautiful, and local to us. My issues with that (all those what-ifs) were hard to work through, but when I finally did, she quit texting me... Honestly, I think her problem is she can't have him without me and now that I type that, it pisses me off...
Then there was another woman, much older this time and also local, that was very willing to "show me the ropes" and didn't want my hubby to touch her at all, but then she reconciled with her ex-girlfriend...
I like to chat and so does he... There were times when girl x made me practically drip with desire and he really liked that... so hit me up!
You have definitely come to the right place for inspiration.
Welcome!!!
MrsCCfromRC
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Hi all.... she said to the empty room!
celticbtrfly
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Thanks! I have for sure gained some ideas, but yes, I think I'm dry! lol
I think, really, I'm just looking for others that fall into the same boat... married, but curious...
it took me a long time to get to this point, and after a few years of prodding by my hubby, he of course is all for it... The girl I originally chatted with is much younger and beautiful, and local to us. My issues with that (all those what-ifs) were hard to work through, but when I finally did, she quit texting me... Honestly, I think her problem is she can't have him without me and now that I type that, it pisses me off...
Then there was another woman, much older this time and also local, that was very willing to "show me the ropes" and didn't want my hubby to touch her at all, but then she reconciled with her ex-girlfriend...
I like to chat and so does he... There were times when girl x made me practically drip with desire and he really liked that... so hit me up!
We both have something in common, Jade. I'm working on a second novel (chick lit, mostly...some sex, but definitely not the focus). Of course, I can't work up the nerve to get the first novel out there.
And I've had challenges meeting women as well...or keeping them around. My situation's a little different in that my husband wouldn't be involved with another woman should I find one to be involved with. But one of the women I dated in the past wanted nothing to do with my husband...didn't want to meet him or even talk to him on the phone...and that was a problem as well. Another woman disapeared off the face of the planet suddenly after some great conversations. It's tough, and it's hard not to take it all personally when it happens.
Take care and talk to you soon.
ketalia
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Hi there Ladies!
Tonight I have made a discovery.... Apparently, I'm not bi. Truefax *nodnodnod* Real True Lesbians have told me that I'm not into women...
We were all sitting on the balcony at the sushi place (Gods, that's so even stereotypically queer!) and talking about our love lives. Or rather, they were talking and I was living vicariously. So anyway, I told them about the fiasco at the Slow Jam two Mondays ago. And they kind of gave each other a look and said "well, it' probably because you're not really gay or bi or anything. She'd rather take a chance on a possibly straight girl who might be experimental than a girl who's not really into women at all." I looked at them all flabbergasted and googly-eyed and said "what do you man I'm not really bi? I knew I wasn't gay, and I've suspected that I'm more pansexual than bi 'cause I like all genders, but still, I like girls as much as boys."
And then, in a most irritatingly condescending way, I was basically informed that I'm tolerated as a tagalong because it's kind of cute, but they all know that even if I did go out on a date with a woman, I'd never end up with one permanently, because I'm really into men, I just don't realize it. I like to hang out with the Lezbeeyuns because they're safe for me to hang out with; I know I'm really into men, and they know I'm really into men, so no-one will ever hit on me and I get to go dancing and camping and hang out with the cool kids and never have to worry about my virtue... I'm basically the gay kids equivalent of Bobby Belden (if you've read the Trixie Belden books, you know what I mean.)
Um, yeah.
Apparently my gaydar is so damned broke that I couldn't even tell that I'm really het.
This is one of those nights when it'd be really helpful to be a drinker.
I probably should have stayed and brazened the situation out, but I was so embarrassed that I excused myself and left. I'm supposed to be volunteering at a function this weekend at one of our local gay bars. I don't want to bail on the charity in question but then again, how much humiliation is a girl supposed to take? Maybe I can come down with the 24 hour Bubonic Plague or something.
Tonight I have made a discovery.... Apparently, I'm not bi. Truefax *nodnodnod* Real True Lesbians have told me that I'm not into women...
We were all sitting on the balcony at the sushi place (Gods, that's so even stereotypically queer!) and talking about our love lives. Or rather, they were talking and I was living vicariously. So anyway, I told them about the fiasco at the Slow Jam two Mondays ago. And they kind of gave each other a look and said "well, it' probably because you're not really gay or bi or anything. She'd rather take a chance on a possibly straight girl who might be experimental than a girl who's not really into women at all." I looked at them all flabbergasted and googly-eyed and said "what do you man I'm not really bi? I knew I wasn't gay, and I've suspected that I'm more pansexual than bi 'cause I like all genders, but still, I like girls as much as boys."
And then, in a most irritatingly condescending way, I was basically informed that I'm tolerated as a tagalong because it's kind of cute, but they all know that even if I did go out on a date with a woman, I'd never end up with one permanently, because I'm really into men, I just don't realize it. I like to hang out with the Lezbeeyuns because they're safe for me to hang out with; I know I'm really into men, and they know I'm really into men, so no-one will ever hit on me and I get to go dancing and camping and hang out with the cool kids and never have to worry about my virtue... I'm basically the gay kids equivalent of Bobby Belden (if you've read the Trixie Belden books, you know what I mean.)
Um, yeah.
Apparently my gaydar is so damned broke that I couldn't even tell that I'm really het.
This is one of those nights when it'd be really helpful to be a drinker.
I probably should have stayed and brazened the situation out, but I was so embarrassed that I excused myself and left. I'm supposed to be volunteering at a function this weekend at one of our local gay bars. I don't want to bail on the charity in question but then again, how much humiliation is a girl supposed to take? Maybe I can come down with the 24 hour Bubonic Plague or something.
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Jacqueline_
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ketalia
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Thanks! I was so busy ranting that I wasn't clear.... It wasn't really a group of friends, more like one friend (who didn't say anything, way to help out there!) and a group of fairly friendly aquaintances who are singers who are trying to put together a second GALA choir here in town, as ours kind of died a few years back. My email this morning had an apology from said friend, whom I'm really pissed at, and an a not quite apology from one of the other organizers.... She's was sorry if they made me uncomfortable and she hoped I'd still like to be involved in the choir because they won't be able to pay a director for a few years and they were hoping I'd volunteer, as choir members don't have to be LBQTQWERTY in order to participate. My kneejerk response is "No way in Hell; either you welcome everyone with no commentary on what you perceive their sexuality to be and keep your opinions to yourself, or you don't. Clearly you don't....."
I haven't answered yet, I'm still too pissed off. Might say something super rude in response if I'm not careful.
Jacqueline_
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They deserve a rude response - even in the semi apology she implied that you weren't actually bi! (And in the same breath asking for a favour!). They sound like they're not worth your time.
celticbtrfly
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Ok, so let me pick my jaw up off of the floor after reading your two posts and say loudly and indignantly "HOW DARE THEY!"
To me, that whole thing is the equivalent of a straight person seeing a woman and deciding that she's too cute (too femme, too "fill in the blank") to be lesbian.
Ultimately, the choice to continue to participate in the choir should be on whether it would be good for you. Would you be uncomfortable now? Would it make you happy, knowing that there are potentially people there that aren't accepting you as you? (And both of these are asked with no judgement, but are things to think about).
I know my knee jerk reaction would be a response among the lines of "go to hell." And very possibly, my reaction after I cooled off would be a little more "Irish diplomatic": I would still tell her to go to hell, but I'd do it in a way that she'd look forward to the journey.
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wvbutterfly
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Hi!
Hi ladies, I just recently submitted my first story to the site. I saw this thread and thought I would come say hi. I'm bi, but after living 10 years in Orlando, moved to this terribly crappy, small town and am totally unsure about how to meet like-minded girls!! I've tried CL, but it seems they all want 3 somes with their men, and I really don't want that. So frustrating!
Hi ladies, I just recently submitted my first story to the site. I saw this thread and thought I would come say hi. I'm bi, but after living 10 years in Orlando, moved to this terribly crappy, small town and am totally unsure about how to meet like-minded girls!! I've tried CL, but it seems they all want 3 somes with their men, and I really don't want that. So frustrating!
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celticbtrfly
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Hi, sweetie.Hope you're having a great Sunday!
Just got up...still not really going yet though.
Hope you're having a great day we well.
pink
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Just got up...still not really going yet though.
Thank you, I am having a good day but I find myself horny as hell.
celticbtrfly
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Thank you, I am having a good day but I find myself horny as hell.
There's probably a way to take care of that...
wvbutterfly
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Hello and welcome! And we can exchage CL stories.
Thanks! And you too, huh? Lol
On a positive note, my story finally got published and it's getting very positive feedback! So exciting!
celticbtrfly
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Oh yeah.
And congrats! I'll have to check it out. I remember getting my first story on here--I was a nervous wreck. Similar threads
