Are all the Bisexual Ladies shy or something?

It's nice to read another woman who feels that way about her husband, I am just not comfortable, he can have me all he wants, he can be with me while another female and I play, but at this time in life, he's off limits to others. So far he's been fine with that! To me, nothing beats woman to woman sex, intimacy.

So I'm not the only one! I'm not comfortable sharing either. I've already had a couple of women try to steal him from me or break up our marriage. I don't trust that not to happen again, at least not at this moment of time. It may never happen and he finally admitted he was okay with that as long as he could watch. I don't mind being watched, sharing though is a no no!
 
Woo hoo! We share something! I haven't had that, but I know perhaps in the moment I would enjoy it, but after is what I worry about and it's not worth throwing away years of a great marriage. But I'll tell ya what, he and a gal fingered me at the same time, and she sucked my clit, that was hot!! He is ok with it too, as long as he knows and is hopefully present!

I think that is the best kind of man, one who is okay with knowing and being present but not necessarily involved. There is too much potential drama any other way.
 
I absolutely agree! You have me craving the touch, taste, scent of a woman in a bad way. Not to mention an amazing pm session with a gal too!

:eek: Now I'm blushing, to inspire that kind of want is something I don't think I have ever done before. *sighs* I too crave the touch of a woman, it's been way too long since I have been with one.
 
Blushing is beautiful, many different human responses go along with that. But I am certain you have done that to others, they perhaps didn't say so... I am a very sensual, erotic woman that knows what I want. I am not afraid to speak it. It has been a long time for me as well. I miss it all!

I rarely blush, not much ruffles my feathers these days. It's been at least four years since my last woman (may I be honest and say my only woman). I've been wanting since, but tried to fight it. Now I've let go and accepted who I am and what I want.
 
Well, I think you would be someone to ruffle more than feathers. I have had a few women, not as many as I desire. But as I have advanced in my years, mid-40s now, I am more open than ever with my desires and I am proud to say I am a Bi-Sexual Woman!

:D I'd hope I'd ruffle more than feathers once I found the right woman. I look forward to it being a dark and beautiful seduction that will have her craving more. There is a whole side of myself I have to hide that I want to show her and I look forward to it very much. :devil:
 
I live in Ohio. I see that you are from New Jersey. Funny, I was born and raised in New Jersey (only moved to Ohio to be with hubby).

Where in NJ?

Depending on the woman my hubby will join.... It's cool either way... One rule we have if he wants to play with another woman it will be with me present....

I have brought "Friends" home and sometimes he plays, sometimes not and has even declined... But afterwards our sessions rock when we're alone

:rose:
 
Well, I think you would be someone to ruffle more than feathers. I have had a few women, not as many as I desire. But as I have advanced in my years, mid-40s now, I am more open than ever with my desires and I am proud to say I am a Bi-Sexual Woman!

Wishing you were closer :devil:
 
:D I'd hope I'd ruffle more than feathers once I found the right woman. I look forward to it being a dark and beautiful seduction that will have her craving more. There is a whole side of myself I have to hide that I want to show her and I look forward to it very much. :devil:

One state away :devil:
 
Where in NJ?

Depending on the woman my hubby will join.... It's cool either way... One rule we have if he wants to play with another woman it will be with me present....

I have brought "Friends" home and sometimes he plays, sometimes not and has even declined... But afterwards our sessions rock when we're alone

:rose:

I was born in Sussex county, raised in Morris County. I will always be a Jersey girl at heart, no matter where I live.

well my hubby knows I have a couple of rules. He can have me while I am with a woman, but he can't touch her and he's off limits to her. I have too many trust issues to have it any other way.
 
I am certain you will find her. I can only fantasize of the things you can do, show. The way you communicate, your words, has my mind reeling with a menagerie of various scenarios that we could enjoy.

Now you've got me curious! Care to share your ideas with me via pm? :rose::devil:
 
I used to have the rule that hubby couldn't touch the other woman. It wasn't my hubby that I didn't trust, it was the other women that I couldn't trust. It was me that ended up cheating on my ex husband with another man.

With my current husband, the only rule is that I must be there and involved.
 
This is all very interesting to think about. Haven't gone there, but hubby is encouraging me to branch out because he knows how much I'm turned on by women. Would need to think up ground rules about his involvement. Not sure right now how I'd feel about him touching or fucking the other. Watching I think I'd be good with if she also was.

After a dozen times or so, I loosened up the rules, and things have evolved into what is now. The happiest we have ever been.
 
That's good to hear (happiest you've ever been). That sounds amazing. Gives me hope. My attraction to my H is not running high right now.

Sorry to hear that. we went through a rough spot for awhile, now we are great. Things we needed to deal with, to really find ourselves as individuals again.
 
We are dealing with things but I'm worried about the attraction piece. I asked him about me being on lit and chatting with people. The fact that he's ok with it, so long as I don't fall in love and run away with someone, makes things better. I have a husband-approved outlet now.

Good for you. It is great isn't it.
 
We are dealing with things but I'm worried about the attraction piece. I asked him about me being on lit and chatting with people. The fact that he's ok with it, so long as I don't fall in love and run away with someone, makes things better. I have a husband-approved outlet now.

Hubby and I share this name, we met on Lit 9 years ago and married 8
 
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hey guys, first post on any forum ;)
like quite a lot of you guys i am really wanting to explore sex with a woman but have not had a chance yet. although i think many of my friends might be interested only one girl in my group of friends identifies as bi, and as much as i love her as a friend im just not interested in her sexually.
i want to come out as bi/pan/humansexual but i feel like people would make a big deal of it, and i dont want to alienate the friends i already have or lose some closeness.
would love to chat with other women <3
 
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