are spankings humiliating?

DVS said:
Humiliating? It's all in how you approach it. Just the simple OTK spanking isn't really that humiliating, but add some ceremony to it...hands tied behind back and ankles bound together

The spankee stands beside the spanker as he's sitting in his chair. He slowly lowers her clothing from the waist down, all the way to her ankles. One last item is added to the bondage apparel. The ball gag. Then, the spankee is told to drape herself over the spanker's lap, which is difficult to do because of the bondage. But, with considerable struggling to keep balance, the spankee finally drops across the spanker's lap. There, squirming and wiggling on his lap, she can only wait until the ordeal is to begin.

The spanker mentions the alabaster color of the spankee's naked ass, and how she produces a very cute target when she clenches her ass cheeks. She is told the reason for her spanking, and, if the spanker feels generous, maybe even the length of it. But, telling the length gives the spankee a stopping point to look forward to and that spoils some of the fun. The spanker decides leaving the total number of swats unsaid is best, only to say the angry redness of the punished behind will be his satisfaction.


A little bit of added humiliation is to have the spankee count the swats out loud. This is difficult to do, when wearing a ball gag, but not impossible. The problem is understanding the number. But, a warning that it will all start over from the beginning, if the number isn't loud and understood can do a lot with keeping the spankee on her toes, so to speak.

Counting out loud is always fun because the spankee is well aware of the number of swats administered and as the spanking goes on, losing count can be easy. Another threat of starting over, if the count is lost can add to the humiliation factor of the spankee. Even if the spanker has no intention of doing so, the spankee doesn't know that.

After a while, drool is dripping from the ball gag, and the counting of swats only increases that drool. And, each time the number reaches another total of 10, the spankee hopes her punishment is coming to an end. And, each time these numbers are passed, she feels more helpless, more chastised and more humiliated that her position is still OTK of the spanker.

Frequent stops to feel the heat on the spankee's belabored behind, as if testing the temperature for a satisfactory punishment can be fun, because is seen as a possible finish to the spankee, and then the rubbing of her bottom is somewhat sensual and comforting. But, this all is soon squelched when the spanking resumes.

The final bit of humiliation is when the splanking is finally concluded. The spanker removes the gag and asks the spankee if she has anything to say, while he's rubbing her hot behind. Between the tears, the spankee usually says she's sorry, and she won't ever do it again. But, we all know she's not telling the truth. She will do it again, and she will again find her in the same position.

Then she's required to get up off of the spanker's knees. Trussed up as she is, this is usually not possible and she just slowly slides off and onto the floor, making sure she lands on her side or stomach, and not on her poor punished behind. There she is left, naked and bound...her punished behind on fire...to think about her punishment, and the reason for it.

Anyone want a spanking? :p

Fuck yes!

I mean...please? *bats eyes sweetly*
 
Do you mean spanked with a bare hand?

If so, I don't find them humiliating, but I don't like them.

They hurt! ALOT!! :mad:

I prefer him to use an implement rather than his hand, but that has not been humiliating (yet) either. Although his advancing on me with a kitchen spoon with his daughter in the room is awkward and hard to keep any kind of composure. I once asked for her help but she said 'no' she didn't want to end up being hurt! So much for female solidarity :rolleyes:

I don't think he has found it humiliating to OTK spank me with his hand, although there was one time which makes me smile.

He decided to put his foot on the sofa, and put me over his leg/knee.
Problem is I am quite short and with his leg up, it was a bit high for me to bend over it.
I ended up sort of leaning awkwardly against his leg, which was clearly not his intention.

I did find it funny, but did not dare smirk or giggle in case he opted to sit down and put me over his knee properly and spank me!

He has never tried that position again though :confused:

LOL
 
shy slave said:
Do you mean spanked with a bare hand?

If so, I don't find them humiliating, but I don't like them.

They hurt! ALOT!! :mad:

I prefer him to use an implement rather than his hand, but that has not been humiliating (yet) either. Although his advancing on me with a kitchen spoon with his daughter in the room is awkward and hard to keep any kind of composure. I once asked for her help but she said 'no' she didn't want to end up being hurt! So much for female solidarity :rolleyes:

I don't think he has found it humiliating to OTK spank me with his hand, although there was one time which makes me smile.

He decided to put his foot on the sofa, and put me over his leg/knee.
Problem is I am quite short and with his leg up, it was a bit high for me to bend over it.
I ended up sort of leaning awkwardly against his leg, which was clearly not his intention.

I did find it funny, but did not dare smirk or giggle in case he opted to sit down and put me over his knee properly and spank me!

He has never tried that position again though :confused:

LOL

LOL Me and K's bed is tall. It's a waterbed frame, with a regular mattress and boxsprings in it. I have a stool so I can get into it. K tried to bend me over it once. We ended up having to shift position a bit. lol

I also prefer an impliment on my rear - but it's normally a hand, cause that's easily accessible. *sigh* As to humilitiating that depends on why I'm being spanked.
 
So far spanking hasn't been humiliating for me ever. A time or two I was worried about falling off his lap but he is strong and that didn't happen. It was sort of exciting that it might happen though. It was also somewhat distracting.

Fury :rose:
 
no...

they turn me on. he's got the right kind of hands, the right touch, the right look, and the right words... it makes it magic.
 
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