Are you dominant or submissive

[CapnCuddly]

I am very Dominant with sub's and littles, but do switch with my wife. I know she enjoys taking control with a strapon and CBT.

 

[MsLead]

submissive with strength of convictions

 

[Lordsmythe]

Dominant - have known that since I was about 15.

 

[ebunny15]

Submissive. Although I try to be dominant when my partner requires it of me.

 

[MoleskineScribbler]

Submissive in my fantasies.

 

[jessieXXX27]

Same here---submissive in my fantasies. If my boyfriend could just get the hang of being more dominant, things could be going a lot better!

 

[PleaseBeGentle]

Submissive. Unquestionably.

 

[darkheels]

Submissive most of the time and dominant when I have to be.

 

[BuzzCzar]

Dominant

 

[Miss_raptor]

Bratty with men, more traditionally submissive with women, though I do like to switch with women.

 

[Lisa_soccermom8]

Want to be a submissive during sexual activities but mostly dominant during the all other parts of my life.

 

[Eldan01]

Submissive though dominate in the work I do...unless a handsome older man tells me to do something, then I'm submissive

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

Sort of traditionally submissive with my SO. But I have been in a relationship with a woman where I was dominant. And there have been a few men that totally brought the Domme in me out front and center. And there are times, with my Dom when I just want to turn the tables and devour him completely...
And even as the sub, I am very demanding. I demand what I want and need as sub, open to negotiation to make sure he is comfortable with the things I want and need, of course.
So, Beck, if you are still reading your own thread... you tell me. Am I dominant or submissive?

 

[1millionsecrets]

I am both. It really depends who I am with. Currently I am a subbie and I love my Master. Perhaps (because he can be both also) for Christmas he'll allow me to switch rolls.
Our relationship is mostly lacking in the sexual department, because he is married and that part of his life is only her's.
So basically I'm a sexually frustrated but insanely loyal flip flopper who takes mental relief and comfort here.

 

[bootsnz84]

Dom at work I have to be. I demand impossible feats and get paid very well for it.
Sub when in a relationship. Unless Im with another woman then I'll pick up the dominant role again. Saves having a flip flop session lol

 

[SuziC]

Definitely submissive but cheeky and a bit of a tease so a lot of people miss it

 

[Stevesteveson]

Thinking about it I'm neither. I like pain and I like handing over control. I'm not submissive though.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

.... Am I dominant or submissive?

Time to re-read Stella's usual rant?

 

[VenusButterflies]

Submissive, but sometimes difficult and defiant.

 

[YourDreamGirl]

Sub checking in and reporting for duty.

 

[All_4_Love]

I am submissive both sexually and nonsexually.

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

Time to re-read Stella's usual rant?

Sound advice, and I already know it by heart
I was just making the point that Beck asked the question, so was curious to see if he had any input. I like to hear what other people think. Occasionally

 

[MeekMe]

I like to provide caring service. So whatever that is.

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

I like to provide caring service. So whatever that is.

Sweet and highly sought after?

 

[MeekMe]

Sweet and highly sought after?

f^_^; heh, I suppose?

*blush*