Are you dominant or submissive

I enjoy taking the initiative, setting the pace, acting upon, making the decisions, do the tying or binding, putting her in a blindfold, giving the spanking or flogging, and doing the penetrating, devouring, and ravishing,
BUT this always all happens within a pretty tight feedback loop—verbal and nonverbal. It’s about her pleasure, and a good part of her pleasure is being used and pleasing me.
 
Most of my life involved heterosexual sex which never made me feel dominant or submissive. I have had sex with one woman who dominated me. Since that affair, I have had no sexual attraction to men. I am attracted to and have sexual fantasies about women. Those fantasies are confusing because sometimes I'm dominant and other times submissive.
 
I will submit, but do not consider myself submissive. I will control and dominate, but do not consider myself dominant.

For me, there is pleasure to be gleaned from each. And I like sex for the pleasure it gives me.
 
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