As a Bi, Which Gender Do You Prefer?

You think that sex with men is harder to get than sex with women?
Not my experience to be honest but is this the experience of most guys?
Very much not my experience either tbh

I don't really have a preferred gender, it's all good... I guess in the past I would've said I have a romantic preference for women but these days I'm more open to whatever
 
As a bisexual guy I've noticed I'm very picky with men but very open with women. I think the more I "discover" about myself the more I'm attracted to femininity. In either sex
 
Hi all. I'm Charlie. I have a thread that chronicles my recent foray into bisexuality. Actually need to update it, because I sucked off my new buddy the other night. Only the third time I've sucked, and just the second guy. And I'm currently talking with a Lit friend, who's currently only bi-curious. But a thought occurred to me when I was talking to him. That I'm still much more attracted to women. I just happen to have found that I love cock, especially making a guy cum in my mouth. Haven't ventured into anal yet, but I definitely want to experience everything.

Anyway, I was curious how all of you feel about your gender preferences, if you have any. I want to know if those of you who have always been bi are more likely to enjoy men and women and others equally. And for those like me who were straight their entire lives, do you still prefer the opposite sex, even though you now enjoy same sex relationships? Or do you guys now prefer other men over women?

Hoping everyone shares their experiences and preferences here.
I only have romantic attraction to women..but I also love cock.. for me they're two different experiences.. with a woman it's sensual.. when playing with a guy.. it's just raw cock fun.. I know how good it feels to slide my cock in a mouth.. and getting together with a friend on the same page and pleasing the fuck out of each other's cocks is just primal hot fun.
 
Hi all. I'm Charlie. I have a thread that chronicles my recent foray into bisexuality. Actually need to update it, because I sucked off my new buddy the other night. Only the third time I've sucked, and just the second guy. And I'm currently talking with a Lit friend, who's currently only bi-curious. But a thought occurred to me when I was talking to him. That I'm still much more attracted to women. I just happen to have found that I love cock, especially making a guy cum in my mouth. Haven't ventured into anal yet, but I definitely want to experience everything.

Anyway, I was curious how all of you feel about your gender preferences, if you have any. I want to know if those of you who have always been bi are more likely to enjoy men and women and others equally. And for those like me who were straight their entire lives, do you still prefer the opposite sex, even though you now enjoy same sex relationships? Or do you guys now prefer other men over women?

Hoping everyone shares their experiences and preferences here.
I am still very attracted to women and love to be with a couple so he can do me whilst I have her
 
If I had both in front of me to choose I would choose to give oral to the guy. My favorite sex by far is giving head. The feeling of a cock in my mouth is better then me getting off myself. Getting a women off orally is the 2nd best feeling. Getting a woman off fucking is probably 3rd. Getting a man off fucking me is 4th. Getting a blowjob is 5th. Fucking a guy is 6th.
 
As a married guy, 99% of my interactions are with a woman. But every now and then, I get the yearning to submit my mouth to a man or men. The submissive rush I feel when pleasuring a cock cannot be satisfied any other way. But I do not yearn to change my lifestyle to 99% interactions with men. The great thing is that I have a close circle of friends whu understand me and give me what I crave when I am craving it.
 
As a married guy, 99% of my interactions are with a woman. But every now and then, I get the yearning to submit my mouth to a man or men. The submissive rush I feel when pleasuring a cock cannot be satisfied any other way. But I do not yearn to change my lifestyle to 99% interactions with men. The great thing is that I have a close circle of friends whu understand me and give me what I crave when I am craving it.
You are very lucky
 
I like cock best. Time to face up and own it. I’ve posted on this thread multiple times without fully committing. All my masturbation fantasies are about being a bottom. I prefer cock.
 
My very favorite is queer women.

As it happens, it seems to me that being a queer man makes me of interest to them, too. Almost all of my female lovers have turned out to be queer.

Some of the ones from when I was younger didn't know it or weren't out at the time, but I am never surprised anymore when one of them turns out to be some variety of orientation-queer or genderqueer years later.
 
I guess I have been bi for Decades. I posted the 1st time I sucked cock about my cousin telling me to suck his dick bitch. But that wasn't really the first time. It had been about 15 or 12 years, but my 1st was when I was a teenager, my freshman year in high school. I took piano lessons and my teacher's son was my 1st. Interesting story but for another time. I guess I would say for 40 years I preferred women, but it was a huge turn on when he said get down there and help her suck my dick bitch. I was having a threesome with my cousin and his wife. Now, by default I am more use to men. I was diagnosed with ms in 2013 and have not had a hard on in almost 7 or 8 years. So, I am almost the definition of a sissy. I am not able to fuck men or women so that leaves my tongue, fingers, and boy pussy or mouth to please my partner. I get off on being degraded so I guess today I am not sure. I like being cuckold and being dominated by an alpha male or an aggressive woman.
 
but to answer the question I am more attracted to women. But a dom guy forcing his cock down my throat or up my ass is soooo erotic,
 
It's strange. I definitely prefer women for romance and love sex with women. If I see a hot woman in yoga pants, I can't help but look. I don't think I've ever once checked out a guy that way.

But when the clothes come off, the visuals of a thick, white, rock-hard circumcised cock drive me wild with desire, more than just about anything else. I've been like that since puberty, and I used to think I was just really weird--I'm not really gay if I'm strongly attracted to women, but I'm not really straight if I love cock. And "bi" doesn't seem accurate, as I'm attracted to women and men in very different ways.

But then I got on this forum some years ago, and I see that there are a lot us in this same boat. It's more common than I thought.
 
It's strange. I definitely prefer women for romance and love sex with women. If I see a hot woman in yoga pants, I can't help but look. I don't think I've ever once checked out a guy that way.

But when the clothes come off, the visuals of a thick, white, rock-hard circumcised cock drive me wild with desire, more than just about anything else. I've been like that since puberty, and I used to think I was just really weird--I'm not really gay if I'm strongly attracted to women, but I'm not really straight if I love cock. And "bi" doesn't seem accurate, as I'm attracted to women and men in very different ways.

But then I got on this forum some years ago, and I see that there are a lot us in this same boat. It's more common than I thought.
I am with you. I read that most sissy types do what comes naturally to beta boy when faced by an alpha male presenting his cock for you/me to suck. I would fall to my knees and take the hard, thick, vein lined shaft in my hands and begin sucking and licking until rewarded with a mouthful of that sweet creamy reward.
 
I'm completely attracted to women. I love women and date women. However, I enjoy sex with men. I don't think I've ever looked at a man and thought "he's attractive". But what is between his legs and ass cheeks is attractive.
 
Hi all. I'm Charlie. I have a thread that chronicles my recent foray into bisexuality. Actually need to update it, because I sucked off my new buddy the other night. Only the third time I've sucked, and just the second guy. And I'm currently talking with a Lit friend, who's currently only bi-curious. But a thought occurred to me when I was talking to him. That I'm still much more attracted to women. I just happen to have found that I love cock, especially making a guy cum in my mouth. Haven't ventured into anal yet, but I definitely want to experience everything.

Anyway, I was curious how all of you feel about your gender preferences, if you have any. I want to know if those of you who have always been bi are more likely to enjoy men and women and others equally. And for those like me who were straight their entire lives, do you still prefer the opposite sex, even though you now enjoy same sex relationships? Or do you guys now prefer other men over women?

Hoping everyone shares their experiences and preferences here.
I've had three wives and have had sex with lots of women. It's just rare, as I don't hang out in places where I'll meet many women. I mostly play with guys now and tend to prefer the company of men. If I do play with women, their husbands or boyfriends are usually involved. I do enjoy trans ftm and mtf folk as well. My last encounter with a woman was a few months ago. She was 35 years younger with a daddy fetish. I'm equally opportunistic...if someone's
interested, I'll give them a whirl, but
usually only hunt for dick.
 
I am more attracted to women, but an ex-girlfriend hit me with a statement that still rings in my head. "You are like 51% straight."
 
I enjoy both. If I want to be more dom I prefer women.but when I want to be a sub I enjoy men more
 
I only have romantic attraction to women..but I also love cock.. for me they're two different experiences.. with a woman it's sensual.. when playing with a guy.. it's just raw cock fun.. I know how good it feels to slide my cock in a mouth.. and getting together with a friend on the same page and pleasing the fuck out of each other's cocks is just primal hot fun.
I feel exactly the same way! It seems that some men who also feel that way have a problem with the label bisexual, as they aren't interested in anything but a guy's dick. I'm happy to call myself bisexual, even though the idea of kissing another guy makes me nauseous. 🤣
 
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Recently bi but still primarily attracted to females. I like their complete package. Only attracted to a guys junk. No explanation for it. That’s just how it happened
I am the same. Hairy asses and bellies don't do a thing for me. I'm not into asses, either male or female, and I like tits.
 
As a married guy who was heterosexual most of my life, I prefer women for relationships. I also find myself checking out women more.

But since I have limited experience with men (I got curious around 40 but didn't act on it until about a year and a half ago; I've only been with men 3 times so far and only for oral) I find sex with a man more exciting - at least at this point. It gets me incredibly turned on.

I guess I need to have more male hook ups so it's less of a novelty LOL
 
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