Attraction and Lust.....

[dearc]

Wondering if a really good Vin Diesel mask could get me over FB?

 

[PeteHulbert37]

Yum!

http://t0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQRIo4kMUrG461JG7-QIlmnilqogBIm4JY2CTxmsd2-dxfV2e-EgQ

 

[fire_breeze]

Wondering if a really good Vin Diesel mask could get me over FB?

It might... or you can use the contacts

 

[PeteHulbert37]

Been thinking about this some more lately, so I thought I would bump it up.

 

[sereneone4u]

I know many consider men like Rob Lowe or John Stamos such heartthrobs, but they do not do a thing for me...too pretty.

I prefer more masculine men such as Daniel Craig, Gerard Butler, and Jason S...they just come off very manly to me, not assholes or brutes, just MANLY...in the best way....strong, resolute and you better not fuck with them...with a softer side for that special woman.

 

[JennyNo1]

I know many consider men like Rob Lowe or John Stamos such heartthrobs, but they do not do a thing for me...too pretty.

I prefer more masculine men such as Daniel Craig, Gerard Butler, and Jason S...they just come off very manly to me, not assholes or brutes, just MANLY...in the best way....strong, resolute and you better not fuck with them...with a softer side for that special woman.

I totally agree, sereneone. Give me handsome and manly over pretty any time.

 

[erostorm]

Her............... simple beauty. 24/7.

http://s4.postimage.org/v38mj7hy4/isla_fisher.jpg

 

[Aquagal]

Aesthetics may be an initial attraction...but unless there is some good online chemistry through writing, good lucks doesn't sustain me very long. On the other hand an average looking person that emotes and is an eloquent writer will catch my interest far longer.... and they become much more attractive in the long run.

 

[sunshinegirl05]

I'm more a Dwayne Johnson drooler...and let me just repost my fav picture...cuz it makes me happy.

http://images.blog-u.net/wp-content/original/2011_02/dwayne-johnson-2.jpg

I mean seriously, what's NOT to like.


now what was this thread about???

While he makes me extremely happy.......................I don't want to do him or anything. He could just stand there, shirtless, and smile....maybe even sing for me.

 

[PeteHulbert37]

Her............... simple beauty. 24/7.

http://s4.postimage.org/v38mj7hy4/isla_fisher.jpg

Yes I do think I could apply the terms attraction and lust to her. She is cute as can be!

 

[Kat73]

As far as celebrities go...Jon Bon Jovi is still my total "star" lust and I wouldn't think twice about seducing him...

As far as Lit goes. I don't generally use AV's to judge a person. I am much more interested in what's under their hat than behind their zipper. This is online after all, so physical appearance isn't so important as how their mind works. I have been attracted to someone based on posts and lusted after them only to be dissapointed in their true personality.

 

[smallgirl]

does anyone think its possible to lust after a person from the "getting to know them part" and then when you see them in person they arent someone you normally would be attracted to? but you still are mentally?

if that makes any sense at all...

 

[bluegypsy]

does anyone think its possible to lust after a person from the "getting to know them part" and then when you see them in person they arent someone you normally would be attracted to? but you still are mentally?

if that makes any sense at all...

Makes sense to me. Lust is more than just physical attraction. Personality and attitude are a huge part of the equation.

 

[smallgirl]

Makes sense to me. Lust is more than just physical attraction. Personality and attitude are a huge part of the equation.

do you think its possible to get past that? knowing you wouldnt have found them physically attractive at first?
if you had met first, without the getting to know each other part?

i know that sounds really shallow, but this very situation has happened to a girl friend of mine, and i didnt really have any advice for her.

when i met my hubby, i was attracted to him for his looks. by the time i figured out i didnt really like him as a person we were married with kids...

 

[bluegypsy]

do you think its possible to get past that? knowing you wouldnt have found them physically attractive at first?
if you had met first, without the getting to know each other part?

i know that sounds really shallow, but this very situation has happened to a girl friend of mine, and i didnt really have any advice for her.

when i met my hubby, i was attracted to him for his looks. by the time i figured out i didnt really like him as a person we were married with kids...

Not sure how to answer that. Love and lust are two separate issues. You can lust after someone for a variety of reasons - sometimes physical, sometimes personal, sometimes situational. But if you're looking for a LTR or a life partner, you'd better make damn sure you love them first. Lust only gets you so far, and tends to fade over time. (It sure is fun while it lasts, though.)

 

[fire_breeze]

Been thinking about this some more lately, so I thought I would bump it up.

I was actually thinking about this a little while back, and I still hold to my original thought before I went on a tangent with Vin Diesel

Being physically attracted to a person is, for me, not lust. Lust is a physical desire to be intimate with someone, whether or not you actually attack the person, shed clothes and fuck like bunnies or not. Attraction is that which makes your head turns, that may or may not spark a brief fantasy or two, but it's not (again, for me) lust.

Hell, I'm attracted to works of art. They stir deep feelings in me. But do I want to fuck them? Nope. I view most people that way when I people-watch or watch movies, etc.: beautiful works of art. Attraction to a physical person is just that - attraction. It sparks an interest. But it's most not definitely not lust. If there isn't that mental connection, that respect for the individual, I feel absolutely nothing.

Yes, I know it's complicated. Who ever said that I was simple and uncomplicated?

And yeah yeah, I know that each have that Vin Diesel

 

[smallgirl]

Not sure how to answer that. Love and lust are two separate issues. You can lust after someone for a variety of reasons - sometimes physical, sometimes personal, sometimes situational. But if you're looking for a LTR or a life partner, you'd better make damn sure you love them first. Lust only gets you so far, and tends to fade over time. (It sure is fun while it lasts, though.)

oh i know. lust fades. quickly sometimes too.

i still dont have any advice for her...she likes the guy. alot. she just has the little question in her mind i think? if he had asked her before she got to know him first, would she have said no based on his looks?
then she realizes how shallow that sounds.

he isnt ugly. i have seen a pic...but he isnt her type physically at all.

 

[PeteHulbert37]

I thought I would bump this thread. I have been sensing some lust floating around the playground these mid winter days.

 

[Scrubber]

Just looking at a picture of someone I don't know is not going to make me moist however attractive they are. Unless I feel I "know" them based on having seen them on film or stage or whatever. I have to have seen them move and heard their voice.

If I have developed a mental connection with someone then their picture can get me very excited.

I am not hugely fussy about someone's looks, and don't have any particular requirements in terms of favoured physical types, but if something about their physical attributes is repellant to me than I doubt any amount of mental connection would get over that.

I have on occasion lusted after a complete stranger that I have seen, say, in a bar or restaurant - if the looks, dress, attitude and voice are right. It's only ever happened if the man is well dressed but somewhat louche, though. And the looks can't be classical film star. Much more along these lines:

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/thumb/9/9e/Furio_giunta.jpg/250px-Furio_giunta.jpg