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Attraction & Submission
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It's neither important or unimportant for D/s relationship. It all depends upon the people within the relationship. To some looks/body type is everything. To others is it nothing.
The D/s relationship is just like any other relationship - it is as individual as those within it.
It's neither important or unimportant for D/s relationship. It all depends upon the people within the relationship. To some looks/body type is everything. To others is it nothing.
The D/s relationship is just like any other relationship - it is as individual as those within it.
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Girl please, you gotta like the merchandise! You'd be cumming on that face all day, gotta make it pretty.
Just kidding. They matter the same way as they would in a "normal" relationship (tehe).
Love this answer...and true...
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Always remember that your brain is your biggest sex organ, once your brain is right, everything else falls into place.
Always remember that your brain is your biggest sex organ, once your brain is right, everything else falls into place.
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Lexi here are some things to understand about guys. We all have a HORNY switch and for must of us it is hard wired in the ON position.
There are several sub switches also. They may be labeled Hair Color, Breast Size, Butt Size etc. The Hair switch may be rotated from Brunette…..Blond, Bust from Big….Flat. These are our preferences but and in this case it is a big but, when the right woman comes along many of those switches may be totally reset.
I had a friend several years ago who liked tall blonds with big boobs. I never saw him date a woman who was not a tall big boobed blond. We lost track of each other for several years and when we found each other again he was married, married to a short brunette with rather small breasts. They now have been married for over 10 years and have three children.
I think a neat well groomed woman who takes pride in herself is about as sexy as it gets.
As far as D/s goes I doubt those relationships are much different then the average vanilla ones, at least mine isn’t.
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There are several sub switches also. They may be labeled Hair Color, Breast Size, Butt Size etc. The Hair switch may be rotated from Brunette…..Blond, Bust from Big….Flat. These are our preferences but and in this case it is a big but, when the right woman comes along many of those switches may be totally reset.
I had a friend several years ago who liked tall blonds with big boobs. I never saw him date a woman who was not a tall big boobed blond. We lost track of each other for several years and when we found each other again he was married, married to a short brunette with rather small breasts. They now have been married for over 10 years and have three children.
I think a neat well groomed woman who takes pride in herself is about as sexy as it gets.
As far as D/s goes I doubt those relationships are much different then the average vanilla ones, at least mine isn’t.
Mike
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Looks is important because it generally is covered by health. On a sub conscious level do you want a mate who is sub par to others? who can't protect you or take care of you because he cannot take care of himself. Someone who is out of shape is that way by choice despite but what they say and that betrays a weak character.
As for attraction, it can exist on looks alone but attraction is a combination of looks plus many other foundations like ability to provide,social intuition and commonalities. Personally I look for a sub who is "hot" or attractive because someone who is attractive generally takes care of themselves and are passionate, focused. Personally I prefer to dominate someone who is stronger because its more a challenge: a Lion needs a Lioness, not a mouse
Now I understand total submission does take a strong woman to fully put her trust and self into the hands of someone else but personally I am tired of dealing with women who think submission is about becoming a limp noodle and just letting things happen to them.....that shit is boring.....
So yes, attraction and looks are important in D/s though maybe not as important in D/s as they are in traditional settings?
As for attraction, it can exist on looks alone but attraction is a combination of looks plus many other foundations like ability to provide,social intuition and commonalities. Personally I look for a sub who is "hot" or attractive because someone who is attractive generally takes care of themselves and are passionate, focused. Personally I prefer to dominate someone who is stronger because its more a challenge: a Lion needs a Lioness, not a mouse
Now I understand total submission does take a strong woman to fully put her trust and self into the hands of someone else but personally I am tired of dealing with women who think submission is about becoming a limp noodle and just letting things happen to them.....that shit is boring.....
So yes, attraction and looks are important in D/s though maybe not as important in D/s as they are in traditional settings?
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