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ABOUT ME - VANILLA
I am a 40 years old male Daddy Dom from Europe. I'm 1,77m and 70kg. I'm monogamous (but open to poly) and straight.
I'm a nerd who loves videogames, anime and manga. I have two bachelor's degrees, one in history and literature and another one in communication and media. Personality wise, I'm calm, affectionate and emotionally supportive for my partner. I value consistency and mutual effort inside a dynamic, building a stable communication and shared time together while still respecting personal space and time and valuing autonomy and real life responsibilities.
BDSM AND DYNAMICS
I've been active in BDSM for 15 years with experiences both online and in person and I live BDSM seriously as a lifestyle. I identify myself as a pleasure Dom and a Daddy, I'm strict and firm when needed, and I love routine, reinforcements, rules and structure. I enjoy molding my sub, molding her with care and dedication. I focus mostly on the sexual and pleasure side of domination so expect a rather kinky dynamic where sex is core and center.
My ideal type of D/s dynamic is a long term one potentially evolving or leaning towards Total Power Exchange earned through time and trust. Communication and honesty are extremely important to me, I enjoy regular contact through texting but i respect balance and healthy boundaries, preferring genuine presence through the day.
I prefer an approach based on communication and trust. I love control, structure and routines, building authority over time and being emotionally supportive for my partner.
KINKS AND LIMITS
This is a non exhaustive list of my kinks and the things i enjoy, for the complete list we can talk about it in private:
At this moment I'm looking for a submissive partner - little, slave, sub or pet (or all things mixed is fine too). The dynamic will be online (long distance is fine, I work well with time difference if the schedules matches) with possibility of future meetings in person if things work out. I value emotional maturity, willingness to communicate, desire to please and obey and commitment and consistency. I'm not seeking occasional play partners, I want a serious and hopefully long lasting dynamic that is meant to be part of our daily life. I am mainly looking for monogamous partners , but I might also consider a poly situation or married partners with honesty and shared goals present. Age, location, race and body size/shape are not important.
ABOUT PICTURES AND VIDEOS
Erotic photography and video is one of my main kinks and the most important for me. Pictures and videos will be an active part of the dynamic, but they will only happen once trust and comfort will be enstablished (though upon a reasonable time). Your privacy and discretion will always be respected, and nothing will ever be shared anywhere and everything will be saved and kept safe by me and can be deleted at once upon request. If taking pictures and videos is not something you're comfortable with, then I suggest avoiding contacting me as we are not likely to be a good match and not be compatible. Though I advice to avoid contacting me if you are not comfortable sharing pictures and videos.
HOW WILL WE START
We will begin chatting here on the site at first. Once we are both comfortable we will move to a private messaging app of our choice. Rules, structure and expectations will be discussed together and can be adjusted over time and never set in stone. I want to create a dynamic where we both feel safe, fulfilled and valued.
If you've read this far and like my approach you're welcome to reach out to me in private!
I am a 40 years old male Daddy Dom from Europe. I'm 1,77m and 70kg. I'm monogamous (but open to poly) and straight.
I'm a nerd who loves videogames, anime and manga. I have two bachelor's degrees, one in history and literature and another one in communication and media. Personality wise, I'm calm, affectionate and emotionally supportive for my partner. I value consistency and mutual effort inside a dynamic, building a stable communication and shared time together while still respecting personal space and time and valuing autonomy and real life responsibilities.
BDSM AND DYNAMICS
I've been active in BDSM for 15 years with experiences both online and in person and I live BDSM seriously as a lifestyle. I identify myself as a pleasure Dom and a Daddy, I'm strict and firm when needed, and I love routine, reinforcements, rules and structure. I enjoy molding my sub, molding her with care and dedication. I focus mostly on the sexual and pleasure side of domination so expect a rather kinky dynamic where sex is core and center.
My ideal type of D/s dynamic is a long term one potentially evolving or leaning towards Total Power Exchange earned through time and trust. Communication and honesty are extremely important to me, I enjoy regular contact through texting but i respect balance and healthy boundaries, preferring genuine presence through the day.
I prefer an approach based on communication and trust. I love control, structure and routines, building authority over time and being emotionally supportive for my partner.
KINKS AND LIMITS
This is a non exhaustive list of my kinks and the things i enjoy, for the complete list we can talk about it in private:
- Pictures and videos
- Total Power Exchange
- Posing and poses training
- Orgasm control and denial
- Wardrobe control
- Pet play
- Ddlg
- Voyeurism
- Exhibitionism
- Teasing
- Body writing
- Forced nudity
- Forced masturbation
- Kneeling
- Edging
- Scat
- Vomit
- Family&friends
- Rp/erp
- Weapons play
- Blood/needle play
- Diapers
At this moment I'm looking for a submissive partner - little, slave, sub or pet (or all things mixed is fine too). The dynamic will be online (long distance is fine, I work well with time difference if the schedules matches) with possibility of future meetings in person if things work out. I value emotional maturity, willingness to communicate, desire to please and obey and commitment and consistency. I'm not seeking occasional play partners, I want a serious and hopefully long lasting dynamic that is meant to be part of our daily life. I am mainly looking for monogamous partners , but I might also consider a poly situation or married partners with honesty and shared goals present. Age, location, race and body size/shape are not important.
ABOUT PICTURES AND VIDEOS
Erotic photography and video is one of my main kinks and the most important for me. Pictures and videos will be an active part of the dynamic, but they will only happen once trust and comfort will be enstablished (though upon a reasonable time). Your privacy and discretion will always be respected, and nothing will ever be shared anywhere and everything will be saved and kept safe by me and can be deleted at once upon request. If taking pictures and videos is not something you're comfortable with, then I suggest avoiding contacting me as we are not likely to be a good match and not be compatible. Though I advice to avoid contacting me if you are not comfortable sharing pictures and videos.
HOW WILL WE START
We will begin chatting here on the site at first. Once we are both comfortable we will move to a private messaging app of our choice. Rules, structure and expectations will be discussed together and can be adjusted over time and never set in stone. I want to create a dynamic where we both feel safe, fulfilled and valued.
If you've read this far and like my approach you're welcome to reach out to me in private!
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