BBC is well known, so why not CBP (Cavernous Black Pussy)?

[Tajiqa]

We all come from our own angle, boo, and how it affects us is how it affects us. Maybe I'm generalising, but i'm feeling that neither you or Tajiqa are from the UK. In America there's the whole history of oppression, of the KKK an' shit like that. Guns. Violence.

As a black woman from the UK, in her thirties, I have heard very negative BS from my younger years, growing up...never, really, any violence an' more subtle forms of racism - which is never good, no matter - an' have seen the growing levelling of playing fields as I've got older. Work in progress...still not there.

Maybe it's my age, my environment or temperament that just refuses to rise to the bait and just sees it as a lame joke?

Anyways, It's giving the joke/comment way more than it's lifespan would be.

Bored now.

A x

Then leave, boo!

You don't have to hang around here, boo!

It looks like the guy finally got the message, boo, so you're the only one that's still arguing with me, boo.

 

[Tajiqa]

as in 'move along to the next topic'! They say something, you say you're not happy, it gets brought up again and again. There's no end unless someone parks it....boo !

A x

You park it, boo. And like i said, boo, I AM ON THE TOPIC.

Boo, if you're okay with some smartass whiteboy painting you as a fat black mammy with a "cavernous black pussy," that's your problem. But don't try to shut me up about it.

'K, boo?

 

[LMWM321]

Boo, if you're okay with some smartass whiteboy painting you as a fat black mammy with a "cavernous black pussy," that's your problem.

Is that what you think I did? I think you need to re-read the thread - from start to finish.

I'm done apologizing to you.

 

[LMWM321]

Maybe OP has had better jokes than this. I hope so. This one is offensive beyond belief. I'm a white cisgender bisexual male, and this offends me. OP could have made his point in so many non-offensive ways, including simply stating that BBC is a racist trope that's common in erotica. I don't want to know what OP's intentions or motivations were. They merely make the apology sound less and less sincere.

Check. Done that... Many times.. Here just two of my many posts on the subject.

BBC / Bull Myth

And another

Again.. this thread was intended to approach the subject from a different angle and use eye-widening humor to attract readers. Yes. I missed the mark. And I apologized.

 

[Tajiqa]

Is that what you think I did? I think you need to re-read the thread - from start to finish.

I'm done apologizing to you.

I read it. And re-read it. There is nothing in there that changes my mind. Want me to RE-SUMMARIZE it for you? Here it is.

CAVERNOUS BLACK PUSSY

I can say that, even though it's racist, because people say BIG BLACK COCK all the time.

Of course I don't REALLY mean it. I'm just using "humor" to make a point. So you aren't allowed to be offended.

Aren't I clever? I know I'm clever because my "track record" of jokes here is really good, at least according to me.

Oh, you're OFFENDED? Well, i sort of apologize but a) lighten up, i was only joking, and b) BIG BLACK COCK.

 

[pinkparkhorse]

Vaginas are quite elastic. They tighten back up shortly after being stretched.

 

[Tajiqa]

Check. Done that... Many times.. Here just two of my many posts on the subject.

BBC / Bull Myth

And another

Again.. this thread was intended to approach the subject from a different angle and use eye-widening humor to attract readers. Yes. I missed the mark. And I apologized.

It wasn't eye-widening humor, it was racist and offensive.

Don't believe me? Go out and start saying "CAVERNOUS BLACK PUSSY" in public. Loudly, in a crowded place full of people who don't know you, especially around black people. Around black WOMEN. See how people react to your "humor."

Your apology came off as insincere and half-assed.

 

[LMWM321]

It wasn't eye-widening humor, it was racist and offensive.

At this point… I think you’re full of shit. I think your outrage is disingenuous.

Where the hell have you been when BBC - an equally racist acronym and the impetus for my post - has been used in countless threads? Or Black Bull threads? I have taken people to task over it dozens of times. And you? Not once. Yeah… you’re full of shit. Troll someone else, please.

 

[Tajiqa]

At this point… I think you’re full of shit. I think your outrage is disingenuous.

Where the hell have you been when BBC - an equally racist acronym and the impetus for my post - has been used in countless threads? Or Black Bull threads? I have taken people to task over it dozens of times. And you? Not once. Yeah… you’re full of shit. Troll someone else, please.

MICROSCOPIC WHITE COCK is what you are.

You "take people to task" over BBC or Black Bull or whatever because it strikes at the core of your own insecurity over your own lack of manhood.

Your disgusting UNPROVOKED attack on black women expose you as the racist piece of shit you are, and your inability to stop pleading your case and your insistence on trying to get the last word just show that you're an asshole.

Go fuck yourself, you racist fuckwit.

 

[LMWM321]

Your disgusting UNPROVOKED attack on black women expose you as the racist piece of shit you are,

It wasn't an attack on black women, and I think you understand that. I was using irony to make a point. Yes, it was ham-handed and missed the mark and upset people, especially those who DIDN'T read the entire thread. Still, I acknowledged it was in poor taste and I apologized. Which is quite rare for ANYONE to do on a Kink website..

So, that notwithstanding. I will again will ask the question: If you're so concerned about racist tropes, where have you been when BBC - a deeply racist term - has been bandied about?

And now you start in with attacks on my penis size. Tsk, tsk. I would have expected better from you. ..Not that it should matter, but I AM self-conscious about my dick size. ..But not because it's small. On the contrary, some of my earliest posts here on Lit are about my frustrations with have having a HUGE dick. ..That it's often uncomfortable for my partners and limits the type of sex we can engage in. And I've sought to set people straight on that myth as well.

If curious...

Big Dick Blues

 

[bobb64]

It wasn't an attack on black women, and I think you understand that. I was using irony to make a point. Yes, it was ham-handed and missed the mark and upset people, especially those who DIDN'T read the entire thread. Still, I acknowledged it was in poor taste and I apologized. Which is quite rare for ANYONE to do on a Kink website..

So, that notwithstanding. I will again will ask the question: If you're so concerned about racist tropes, where have you been when BBC - a deeply racist term - has been bandied about?

And now you start in with attacks on my penis size. Tsk, tsk. I would have expected better from you. ..Not that it should matter, but I AM self-conscious about my dick size. ..But not because it's small. On the contrary, some of my earliest posts here on Lit are about my frustrations with have having a HUGE dick. ..That it's often uncomfortable for my partners and limits the type of sex we can engage in. And I've sought to set people straight on that myth as well.

If curious...

Big Dick Blues

give it up LMWM321 you've lost this one.

 

[AprilTwenties]

give it up LMWM321 you've lost this one.

Think they BOTH have, boo!

A x

 

[Tajiqa]

It wasn't an attack on black women, and I think you understand that. I was using irony to make a point. Yes, it was ham-handed and missed the mark and upset people, especially those who DIDN'T read the entire thread. Still, I acknowledged it was in poor taste and I apologized. Which is quite rare for ANYONE to do on a Kink website..

So, that notwithstanding. I will again will ask the question: If you're so concerned about racist tropes, where have you been when BBC - a deeply racist term - has been bandied about?

And now you start in with attacks on my penis size. Tsk, tsk. I would have expected better from you. ..Not that it should matter, but I AM self-conscious about my dick size. ..But not because it's small. On the contrary, some of my earliest posts here on Lit are about my frustrations with have having a HUGE dick. ..That it's often uncomfortable for my partners and limits the type of sex we can engage in. And I've sought to set people straight on that myth as well.

If curious...

Big Dick Blues

Ok I'm just gonna stop. I get what you're trying to say, I just don't agree with most of it, and I don't think we're gonna do much better than that.

I appreciate that you acknowledged some regret and made some effort to apologize. I hope you understand that I was genuinely offended and that it was difficult for me to let it go, even though obviously I should have.

Best wishes for 2026

 

[Tajiqa]

I will also answer your question, not to argue, but just because you asked it twice so it seems to matter: why have I not been outraged over the BBC stereotype?

Mostly I don't feel inclined to speak on behalf of black men, who could be considered the "victims." Because black men (and ok maybe black women too) likely have mixed feelings about it. BBC is, in a way, a positive stereotype, something that many would take pride in...

 

[Tajiqa]

...while the idea of a worn out, stretched out, "cavernous black pussy" is by no means positive.

I could dig deeper but let's leave it there. I think you wanted me to acknowledge there's some hypocrisy in accepting one stereotype while rejecting another, and I do. I hope you recognize there's a difference between me having mixed feelings about the BBC stereotype while at the same time being offended at a negative stereotype that applies to me.

 

[LMWM321]

Best wishes for 2026

Thank you! And to you as well.