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redelicious said:
This post was beautiful. Thank you James![]()
Red
Ummmm Wildone...I'm always good! It's just that sometimes, I'm better!!!wildone28 said:Goodnight everybody..I hope you all have great nights..
Night Casper and Red...
Congratulations spaceACE on getting 100 and getting your AV...
Night Jim...Be good!![]()

beth-n-mike said:
i dont know... have had an odd weight concious day ... was on another site, in a what seemed to be nice chat, for BBw, and i was asked to leave.. told i was "too big".... gee thanks ....![]()

Thanks James..you pretty much said what I am too pissed to put into words!!! I'm still pissed at that other thread though and want to know which one!James G 5 said:Hi All!
Casper, WB, we MISSED you!
Beth......it's a hard thing. Especially when you hear it from so many places at one time. *WE* all think you're beautiful......
I think I can explain what your husband might've been thinking tho
I find myself attracted to women 2 ways
First is physical
I have several "types" I like, as well as certain charachteristics that'll always chatch my eye (super long hair, DD's, pigtails, things like that)
There I get an immediate physical attraction based on visual
Then there're the people I get to know who I find sexy with no regard to their looks
This happens with a lot of my cyber friends.....I find the spark in their MINDS before I ever see their bodies, and sometimes with r/l friends as well
I think most guys operate that way when picking someone as a sex partner....the second way usually takes more time tho
You are a smart, beautiful, sexy woman......but unfortunately, many people, even those who like larger women, have a negative response initially to people over a certain weight/height ratio
I think what your husband was concerned about was not that you are unnatractive but that perhaps at this event people will be coming in with narrow attitudes or preconceptions & not take any time to know you & see your spark & sexiness
All I can say about that, if it's the case, is that they are FOOLS and would be missing out![]()
Go, and go with your head held up and proud, clothes in the certainty of your own sexiness
If you show enough fire, they will see
We all sure do![]()
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for Beth
And's for all the rest of the ladies & ^5's for the fellas
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Sounds like a blast to me.....count me in!!James G 5 said:BTW, about the pool party.....
I have 2 3-liter bottles of wine (REAL stuff, not the 3 liters you see in the grocery stores) I've been saving for a special occasion
I'll supply them![]()
Heck, that's enough wine that we can share with the nighbors and by then who'll care about suits????![]()

Well..so the mysterious MLadyPain finally makes an appearance!! Welcome to our little land of debauchery M'Lady!! I'm Jim!MLadyPain said:
WOW James, what a nice post! I know it was directed at a particular situation but its a nice to know some folks have a different viewpoint when we're feeling down on ourselves. I think I'm gonna snip & print it out, put it on my affirmations board.
Serious, not sarcastic....this time![]()
MLP

hrnyhrny said:Hello all:
Nice to see you again Casper. When is the nekkid dance party and pool opening?
Congratulations SpaceAge on your AV.
Good morning to those of you who went to bed. Nice to see everyone having a good time catching up on each other. One day will will have to catch up to one another - maybe at Casper's?
Beth, don't cry. You are a beautiful woman. What happens at your gathering will happen whether you cry or not. I have never seen you cry but I bet it is sight that does not compare to your gotcha picture. Kinda liked that one. Hug and kiss, chin up, boobies out, have fun.![]()
beth-n-mike said:i dont know... have had an odd weight concious day ... was on another site, in a what seemed to be nice chat, for BBw, and i was asked to leave.. told i was "too big".... gee thanks ....![]()
What thread was that?? So I can avoid it like the plague!
i eneded up getting off line , and well, being depressed, so i went horseback riding.cause that generally cheers me up, just me the fields and my pain ... ..ended up a semi cam roaring down the road, he shied , and i almost fell off, just catching myself, pulled my shoulder , and all , .. now myshoulder and arm is sore,the one i just got out of the cast last week.... and still had to cook supper... and then hubby and i are talking. since we have the poly thing comintg up this weekend and he tells me , well its gonna be hard to find someone , because of your weight... good , even now thinking about it , i just want to cry...
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i dont know....
hrnyhrny said:Welcome back:
Too hot to do anything except go play in the pool. So let us know so we can have plenty of time to drive down or ply down.
James G 5 said:BTW, about the pool party.....
I have 2 3-liter bottles of wine (REAL stuff, not the 3 liters you see in the grocery stores) I've been saving for a special occasion
I'll supply them![]()
Heck, that's enough wine that we can share with the nighbors and by then who'll care about suits????![]()
hrnyhrny said:Good afternoon Wildone.
I too wish you all a happy fourth. We just had ours on the first. Just popping in to see how everyone is doing. Got to go do some stuff now that my skin is not blistering from the heat.
Maybe if I get lucky and have time tonight I will check in and see how everyone else is doing. i do so enjoy the banter, even when I am not in it.
For those of you who will be here tonight, an early good evening. Happy Holiday neighbours.![]()
James G 5 said:
And here I was worried I'd offend everyone![]()
wildone28 said:
Hey to you hrnyhrny..Glad to see you here...hope you are having a good night...
Now a confession..dummy me just figured out you were from Canada..Your AV should have been a clue..I think it is time to get my glasses changed because forever now I thought your location was Pennsylvania..LOL![]()
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hrnyhrny said:
They kicked all the perverts out of Pennsylvania years ago. i could not get in. Always a good night here.
Yourself?
casper3110 said:Going to bed myself. Night wildone!
NIght hrny!
Good night John Boy!
hrnyhrny said:Happy holiday James and the ladies. Remember not to overeat.![]()