Bdsm

I did try ... I'm sorry.

It's funny because I don't have a dick but I feel as uncomfortable about that as pussy spanking.

pussy spanking can be hella fun in moderation.
but for some girls, too hard or too much = displeasure. :(
 
pussy spanking can be hella fun in moderation.
but for some girls, too hard or too much = displeasure. :(

Hmm... Okay. I guess it's a kind of erotic pain that adds sensation and therefore pleasure.
And I like a couple of those so I gueeeesss I can understand that. I've never been tempted to try it though.

And there are people who like CBT ... So I guess it works both ways.
 
It's biological, primarily. There's a rush of endorphines with pain, that associates it with pleasure. Other reasons are obvious. Some people like the control dynamic, some people the permission dynamic. I like the trust dynamic. There's something about giving yourself over entirely and knowing that person knows exactly where the lines are and will get as close as they can, but never cross them. Being bound adds to that.
 
Cut and pasted from Heathyr Hoffman's fetlife fetish list.

*Cum for me, princess
*Anal sex
*Armbinders
*Ass play
*Beautiful eyes
*Begging
*Begging to orgasm
*Being a princess
*Being a sexual being
*Being a slut
*Being bitten, scratched, and bruised
*Being called a slut by someone who I adore
*Being fucked with a hand on my throat and threats whispered into my ear
*Being scared of you, in a good way
*Being told cum for me slut
*Being told I'm a good girl
*Being told I'm a beautiful princess but getting fucked like a dirty little whore
*Being whispered to during rough sex
*Belt whippings
*Bite marks
*Biting
*Bondage
*Bound and teased
*Breast/Nipple play
*Bruises
*Candle wax
*Chakra energy play
*Claws
*Corsets
*d/s
*Dildos
*Energy play
*Energy work
*Finger fucking
*Fingernails gently across my bare skin
*Flogging
*Geeks, hair pulling
*Handcuffs
*I know you can take it, beautiful
*I wanna fucking tear you apart
*Intelligence
*Knife play
*Knives
*Leather cuffs
*Leaving marks
*Making pain beautiful
*Multiple orgasms
*Neck biting
*Needle play
*Orgasm control
*Piercings
*Pussy spanking
*Rope bondage
*Rough sex
*Sacred sexuality
*Sacred whore
*Scratching
*Sensation play
*Sensual domination
*Sensual play
*Sex magick
*Spanking
*Spiritual BSDM
*Spiritual submission
*Spreader bars
*Squirting
*Strap-ons
*Strong, confident submissives and slaves who know they are worthless, unworthy, trash, worms, or any of that other stroke fodder nonsense
*Subspace
*Talking dirty
*Thinking I am too cute to punish
*Touchless orgasms
*Vampires
*Vampirism
*Verbal humiliation and degradation
*Vibrators
*Waking daddy up by grinding my ass against his cock so he'll wake up and take what belongs to him
*Breast bondage
*Chains, co-domination
*Co-topping
*Collar and lead/leash
*Corset piercing
*Cutting
*Edge play
*Leather restraints
*Sensory Deprivation
*Shibari
*Single tail whips
*Vampire gloves
*Whips
 
Heathr, despite her pleasing exterior, may not be the girl for you, Mike.
 
Oh that's Shibari - Japanese rope bondage. While it looks extreme to you perhaps that tie is actually really mild and is just for show.

Those images are beautiful, but yes, on a sliding scale of discomfort they are definitely more erotic than anything.
 
You're probably right.

She's not vanilla enough for me.

It might work, but I worry about her being a post in the How To...

"My boyfriend, Mike, is great...but he is a little too vanilla for me. How do I get him comfortable with beating my ass red?"
 
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