Be honest...

[SkAoUt]

We're hard wired to...

Men are hard wired to mindlessly achieve orgasm while women need to pair bond. Therein lies the endless men from Mars women from the shopping planet conundrum. Ok, so now its a bit different; there are women out there that fuck a lot of guys realtively free of strings but notice that there aren't a huge # of spinsters out there. And they aren't there cos somehow the easy ladies get back on track and have to pair bond with someone.
I realize that this is a bit off topic but if you let me continue I will make the connection.

There is some research that suggests women pair bond to a fella who is a good provider but my not necessarily a good genes provider. She then finds a mate that she can get good genes from cos we all know that women love good denim . I saw a figure somewhere that stated 15- 20% of children in families are not the product of mommy and daddies once a week poke fests. That figure (if its true) should shut those hoes up about guys ruining all relationships.

I don't beleve in monogomy. I know that it is a mechanism of societal control. Fortunatly I am not a good provider (I don't own my own home etc...) so I know my g/f loves me for my denim .

My g/f and I have found other mates outside our relationship before without the others consent and I am sure it will happen again. It's pretty hard to control those urges to fuck another attractive person. Now I know about evolutionary theory I don't even bother trying .

*planting both feet firmly on the ground he awaits the wrath of womyn and myn everywhere*

 

[SkAoUt]

Oh yeah

Yes I would have a one night stand, and sure I'd fuck a stranger. I have criteria that stranger has to meet I order for me to fuck him or her. I'm not really really really easy, just really really easy.
Just another manwhore hangin out here at Lit .

 

[AzureAngel]

Could you really just have sex and walk away?

Nope.

I know I couldn't. In reference to one of the posts above, maybe I'm a genetic freak of a guy that wants/needs a connection first, as well. While there's the part of me, I'm sure, that would rejoice in the act, there's the other part that would feel pretty damn guilty afterwards.

I value sex pretty highly.

Ask me again in a year, I'll probably be a playa, baybee. Or something.

 

[His_kitty]

It's nice to fantasize about ....

but something that I couldn't do, when it came right down to it.

I need at least friendship with that person first. When I was younger I had a one time fling with a stranger. We met that night, had great sex, and I never saw him again, never wanted to either.

I've also had cyber sex with a few that I had met after chatting for a short while. While they were good and I'd have a strong orgasm, in the end I'd feel rather empty inside.

Just the type of girl who needs some sort of connection with the other person. Lots of flirtation built up over a period of time, just adding to the anticipation of what possibly is to come.

 

[desert spike]

nice to fantasize about, but isn't going to happen with me

Been presented with this opportunity a few times and thinking back to them. I didn't and couldn't go all the way.

Once was with a stanger (new who she was by name but that's it) Even got naked foolin around but couldn't keep going bucause I knew it was just male hormones kicking in and not about caring, sharing, having a relationship. Damn upper brain kicked in at the wrong time

Another time was with a very close friend who was attached at the time, I wasn't. We had partied together, drank, smoked, but nothing more than that ever happended. Until.... her SO went bar hopping in when we weren't of age so we stayed home - talked, visited, smoked and eventually got frisky on the couch. When we moved to the bedroom, laying naked together, I stopped it. Not sure why, even to this day. I think its because I wanted her (not just her body, but her soul too) And I new I couldn't, so I got dressed..... again. I've fantasized a different ending several times, but when it was real time/real life situation. I didn't and wouldn't.

Thank god I have a vivid imagination!!!

 

[cutie pie]

If someone that you have been flirting on here actually wanted to meet and have hot, passionate,make you scream at the top of your voice sex with you,would you?

Could you really just have sex and walk away?

Would you really fuck a stranger?

Not with a complete stranger. There doesn't necessarily need to be the promise of a "relationship", but I would need to know the person fairly well first - especially if meeting this person involves any traveling.

 

[weed]

If someone that you have been flirting on here actually wanted to meet and have hot, passionate,make you scream at the top of your voice sex with you,would you?

Could you really just have sex and walk away?

Would you really fuck a stranger?

RL Stranger....never.....did it once (was it just once, so long ago)...what a let down!

A dear friend, an on-line lover, a voice on the phone, to meet face to face someone i'd connected with over time.....that might be different....we'd have to meet as friends...then see where things went.....

I can see sharing passionate love-making and down-right fucking with a friend and getting on with life....but would never just walk away....even if a daily relationship was not possible that person would have a cherished place in my heart

Whatever the situation, honesty would be key.

 

[sweetlittleass]

I'm ready to be called a....

I have in the past and I will continue in the future to meet men in RL that I have met online. They aren't total strangers to me when I meet them in RL however, cause I usually get to know them online fairly well first, and won't consider meeting them until I KNOW about them. It's easy (for me?!) to figure out who people are and what they are about by asking questions - and asking them repeatedly - if the answers are the same each time, then there is a 80% chance that that person is telling you a version of the truth... if the answers are different - I'm outta there! And when I do meet, the aspect of safe sex is ALWAYS there - I've never had sex with a "stranger" (if thats what you want to call them) without making sure everything is wrapped up good and tight. I don't believe that sex is worth dying over or even getting sick over.

I recently met someone in RL that I've known off and on for the past few years online. It was the most erotic few hours of my life. I hope he reads this, recognizes himself and smiles, cause I certainly went to bed that night with the biggest on my face - and at no point did we get naked - I haven't made out like that since high school! It was by far one of the best nights of my life! As we get older, I think we forget how it was to be young - I certainly wanted to rip his clothes off him - but fortunately he kept his senses about him and wanted our first time together to be something new, exciting and something that we would both remember for the rest of our lives... I can't wait for that!

So, I guess I'm a resounding YES... and I know that people out there are going to pass judgement on me - saying and thinking that I'm a slut, or I'm easy or whatever... but if I just have to say, that if I was a guy, other guys would be giving me high fives for "conquering" so many others... when girls do it we are sluts - I hate that stereotype.


Baby

 

[TigerClaw]

Re: Re: Re: this is a trick question

I know Todd's multifaceted and all...

...but doesn't it take 3 people to have a threesome?

LOL, Uh, Ya... He would not have to be Multi-Faceted... And it would still be a three way....

Now am I multiFaceted..... But that is my secret.
GRRRRRRRRRrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

I would only allow someone I knew from the boards in as a three way. JL, BratCat or ????. (After I/we got to know them better, interest is one thing, knowing someone is altogether different.) Especially, with the blowout LTR and I had several Months back with the trolls, etc.

So, JL have you been talking to LTR?

She keeps insisting on a MMF which I say Eeeewww NO, I say, a WMW which she says NO, so it is most likely a fantasy. Besides isnt a fantasy better to be a fantasy?

JL nice to see you again.

 

[lilfrk]

Re: Re: Be honest...

It would be a helluva way to get to know someone. I wouldn't do it with the intention of walking away, but not knowing the person wouldn't necessarially stop me from doing it and getting to know them later. I guess that makes it a "yes" only if there's a promise of more

But I'd just as easily meet them solely to talk and see what develops.

Guess I'm just easy goin ...lol

Nah...you're just easy.

Nope I wouldn't have sex with a stranger...my kinks are just too dangerous to be gettin' it on with someone I don't know and trust.

 

[*bratcat*]

Re: Re: Re: Re: this is a trick question

 

[juicylips]

Re: Re: Re: Re: this is a trick question

<snip>

So, JL have you been talking to LTR?

She keeps insisting on a MMF which I say Eeeewww NO, I say, a WMW which she says NO, so it is most likely a fantasy. Besides isnt a fantasy better to be a fantasy?

JL nice to see you again.

Hello, T. Hope ltr is passing along those kisses to you.

I think the only fair thing to do with this threeway fantasy is to do both. Me, you, ltr. Then me, you and a guy that ltr picks out. Of course, she can watch or do the video.

JL

 

[MechaBlade]

The short answer is yes.

 

[Guest]

Could you really just have sex and walk away?

Yes. I prefer passionate lovers I know, though.

 

[YogiBare]

Nope. I need to have the emotional connection there. I could do it with one of the women whom I've gotten to know and like through posting together and PMs. Not with someone I really don't know, though.

 

[TigerClaw]

JL

Now that is the problem. I am not interested in a mmf. Oh well.

 

[teddybear4play]

If someone that you have been flirting on here actually wanted to meet and have hot, passionate,make you scream at the top of your voice sex with you,would you?

Could you really just have sex and walk away?

Would you really fuck a stranger?

Everything except the walking away bit. After all, that would mean no more hot, passionate, orgasms-so-intense-it-makes-the-sheets-catch-fire-and-the-neighbor's-cable-go-out sex.

TB4p

 

[marksgirl]

I'm kinky so

Sure, why not...it's just sex.

 

[Guest]

Re: I'm kinky so

Sure, why not...it's just sex.

What does a one night stand have to do with being "kinky"?

 

[Guest]

Hell yes!

But she'd have to crawl away

Right Cheyenne?

 

[Cheyenne]

Hell yes!

But she'd have to crawl away

Right Cheyenne?

Right. So I'm told, anyway.

 

[Guest]

Right. So I'm told, anyway.

Damn, you're fast!

BTW, not with a complete stranger. But as Minxy said, by definition Lit people are not compete strangers.

 

[someplace]

Yes and No

I agree with the others who say that people you "know" on Lit aren't strangers. Posting, PMing, Phoning, etc. provide quite a range of opportunities to get to know all about each other.

After getting to know someone well enough over time thru that process to have mind blowing sex with them, they become a close friend. I would not be able to just "walk away" from them, even if there was no more sex between us. There would still be the friendship that sparked it all in the first place and one can NEVER have too many friends.

<...Moving over to the "When did you last have sex" thread for my Cpost>