Be kind to your elders...

Thank you KDB, always my champion!

My life is changing.

I am walking away from so much.

Twenty five years of trying to make a marriage work. Of staying with an abusive person, nursing him through illness and injury. Trying to work things out with someone who thinks they are never at fault. But still, it is 25 years of my life invested in something that is not going to be any more.

My daschund. I rescued him from certain death, and 4 years later I can still see the gratitude in his eyes. He will not understand where I have gone.

My crafts. Over 20 years and tens of thousands of dollars invested. My outlet for creativity, my means of helping others find their own creativity through teaching them.

My Harley. The focal point of my lifestyle for the past 7 years, and many of the friends I have made through the HOG chapter. I will forever have an empty spot in my heart and my life that will hurt when I see and hear bikes and on those perfect-for-riding days.

My house. Since 1993 it has been a labor of love. Blood, sweat and tears making it a home. Decorating, remodeling, furnishing it to get just the right look and feel. It's me. And I am walking away.

I will not change my mind. I can never return. It would be far, far worse if I did.

I have made my decision. I have taken action. I will not look back. I will not allow regret to shake my resolve or make me sad.

It is what it is.

And it is what is best for me in the long run.

TTYS, LtL :rose:
 
Best of luck to you, we have talked enough that I know you have had struggles. You are a strong women, I know you will be okay, too bad about your things, no way to recover any of them?

I have no room in my condo for them. It is furnished, very nicely. But there is not enough room for the crafts I have that now fill a 22X32 room. I am cutting 20 boxes down to 2, maybe 3. A mere fraction.

But they are just things. I am getting out of here with what really matters. My sanity, my emotional well being, my heart, and my life.

Thank you...:rose:
 
Wishing you only the best LTL. Can only imagine how hard it must be.

I know I don't often post here on your thread, but this place and the people here do care about you. Stop by when you can. You are always missed when you are gone.
 
Best of luck to you in this new chapter of your life. I wish you well and will be thinking good thoughts to send your way! :rose:
 
Ltl, wow, you go girl...don't let anything stop you

I don't intend to! "If you are not part of the steamroller, you are destined to become part of the road."

Best wishes sweetie :kiss:

Thank you SD!!

Wishing you only the best LTL. Can only imagine how hard it must be.
I know I don't often post here on your thread, but this place and the people here do care about you. Stop by when you can. You are always missed when you are gone.

Thank you!! It is nice to know. I will be here as time allows. Hopefully things will settle soon.

Best of luck to you in this new chapter of your life. I wish you well and will be thinking good thoughts to send your way! :rose:

Thank you CL, I can use them!!
 
Continue to be strong

On the other side of the dark cloud you are in, is beautiful sun!
 
Thank you KDB, always my champion!

My life is changing.

I am walking away from so much.

Twenty five years of trying to make a marriage work. Of staying with an abusive person, nursing him through illness and injury. Trying to work things out with someone who thinks they are never at fault. But still, it is 25 years of my life invested in something that is not going to be any more.

My daschund. I rescued him from certain death, and 4 years later I can still see the gratitude in his eyes. He will not understand where I have gone.

My crafts. Over 20 years and tens of thousands of dollars invested. My outlet for creativity, my means of helping others find their own creativity through teaching them.

My Harley. The focal point of my lifestyle for the past 7 years, and many of the friends I have made through the HOG chapter. I will forever have an empty spot in my heart and my life that will hurt when I see and hear bikes and on those perfect-for-riding days.

My house. Since 1993 it has been a labor of love. Blood, sweat and tears making it a home. Decorating, remodeling, furnishing it to get just the right look and feel. It's me. And I am walking away.

I will not change my mind. I can never return. It would be far, far worse if I did.

I have made my decision. I have taken action. I will not look back. I will not allow regret to shake my resolve or make me sad.

It is what it is.

And it is what is best for me in the long run.

TTYS, LtL :rose:

I wish you all the best.
 
hope things work out for you and you are happy again hugs.
 
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Best of luck with the move :rose:

Sucks you gotta leave so much behind tho :(
 
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I hope things improve for you rapidly lovely lady. You deserve the best !
 
Thank you KDB, always my champion!

My life is changing.

I am walking away from so much.

Twenty five years of trying to make a marriage work. Of staying with an abusive person, nursing him through illness and injury. Trying to work things out with someone who thinks they are never at fault. But still, it is 25 years of my life invested in something that is not going to be any more.

My daschund. I rescued him from certain death, and 4 years later I can still see the gratitude in his eyes. He will not understand where I have gone.

My crafts. Over 20 years and tens of thousands of dollars invested. My outlet for creativity, my means of helping others find their own creativity through teaching them.

My Harley. The focal point of my lifestyle for the past 7 years, and many of the friends I have made through the HOG chapter. I will forever have an empty spot in my heart and my life that will hurt when I see and hear bikes and on those perfect-for-riding days.

My house. Since 1993 it has been a labor of love. Blood, sweat and tears making it a home. Decorating, remodeling, furnishing it to get just the right look and feel. It's me. And I am walking away.

I will not change my mind. I can never return. It would be far, far worse if I did.

I have made my decision. I have taken action. I will not look back. I will not allow regret to shake my resolve or make me sad.

It is what it is.

And it is what is best for me in the long run.

TTYS, LtL :rose:

I have never spoken to you, but, I really hope everything works out for you. We take so much for granted. :rose:
 
Thank you KDB, always my champion!

My life is changing.

I am walking away from so much.

Twenty five years of trying to make a marriage work. Of staying with an abusive person, nursing him through illness and injury. Trying to work things out with someone who thinks they are never at fault. But still, it is 25 years of my life invested in something that is not going to be any more.

My daschund. I rescued him from certain death, and 4 years later I can still see the gratitude in his eyes. He will not understand where I have gone.

My crafts. Over 20 years and tens of thousands of dollars invested. My outlet for creativity, my means of helping others find their own creativity through teaching them.

My Harley. The focal point of my lifestyle for the past 7 years, and many of the friends I have made through the HOG chapter. I will forever have an empty spot in my heart and my life that will hurt when I see and hear bikes and on those perfect-for-riding days.

My house. Since 1993 it has been a labor of love. Blood, sweat and tears making it a home. Decorating, remodeling, furnishing it to get just the right look and feel. It's me. And I am walking away.

I will not change my mind. I can never return. It would be far, far worse if I did.

I have made my decision. I have taken action. I will not look back. I will not allow regret to shake my resolve or make me sad.

It is what it is.

And it is what is best for me in the long run.

TTYS, LtL :rose:


:kiss::kiss::rose:
 
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