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A Tuesday night bump

Hope you are doing well and will be back soon
 
Thank you all ever so much. I am still playing the waiting game. "it" is still being a pill.
Hopefully this will be over soon. My reserves are wearing thin. I appreciate all your well wishes and encouragement!!:rose::kiss::heart:

VA_Boy, it is quite possible you saw me there ;) But don't look for me this year :(
 
Thank you all ever so much. I am still playing the waiting game. "it" is still being a pill.
Hopefully this will be over soon. My reserves are wearing thin. I appreciate all your well wishes and encouragement!!:rose::kiss::heart:

VA_Boy, it is quite possible you saw me there ;) But don't look for me this year :(

I too worry for you although I don't comment much, but this causes me concern. would you explain or is it none of my damn business?:confused:
:rose: :heart: :kiss:
 
Putting yourself out there for judgement/comparison is never easy... especially for those over a certain age/size/body type. But here goes nothing...

Well I think you have nothing to be scared of! Amazing pictures! Keep them coming!
 
I too worry for you although I don't comment much, but this causes me concern. would you explain or is it none of my damn business?:confused:
:rose: :heart: :kiss:

Thank you Rolando. :rose:

In a nutshell, my husband is claiming to be completely disabled and unable to support himself. That is not correct. He has lied horribly on the papers he filed through his attorney. He wants spousal support from me.

He wants to keep everything... the house, (which is mine, purchased before we married), the RV, bikes, vehicles, household furnishings, etc. even my condo.

I made him an offer... he could keep the RV, his truck, his bike, tools... whatever else he wanted of his things. We would sell everything else and split the money. I wanted to keep it fair and equitable for both of us. All I wanted besides my clothes and the few personal things i took was my bike.

But no. He has lied, threatened me and anyone who would show support for me. So I am in "exile". My friends are afraid of what he will do, so they don't call or come by. I don't go out, for fear that he is still having me followed. Going somewhere by oneself is no fun anyway. He is still planning his *expose'* of my "lifestyle" in court, to discredit me.

His plan is to leave we with no place to live, no money, no friends... nothing.
Not a pretty picture. And one I had tried very hard to avoid. I am not vindictive, or mean... I just wanted out.
 
Thank you Rolando. :rose:

In a nutshell, my husband is claiming to be completely disabled and unable to support himself. That is not correct. He has lied horribly on the papers he filed through his attorney. He wants spousal support from me.

He wants to keep everything... the house, (which is mine, purchased before we married), the RV, bikes, vehicles, household furnishings, etc. even my condo.

I made him an offer... he could keep the RV, his truck, his bike, tools... whatever else he wanted of his things. We would sell everything else and split the money. I wanted to keep it fair and equitable for both of us. All I wanted besides my clothes and the few personal things i took was my bike.

But no. He has lied, threatened me and anyone who would show support for me. So I am in "exile". My friends are afraid of what he will do, so they don't call or come by. I don't go out, for fear that he is still having me followed. Going somewhere by oneself is no fun anyway. He is still planning his *expose'* of my "lifestyle" in court, to discredit me.

His plan is to leave we with no place to live, no money, no friends... nothing.
Not a pretty picture. And one I had tried very hard to avoid. I am not vindictive, or mean... I just wanted out.

I hope your attorney is a blood thirsty shark . You don't deserve crap like this.:heart:
 
You look stunning.....:kiss::rose:

Thank you :) :rose::kiss:

I hope your attorney is a blood thirsty shark . You don't deserve crap like this.:heart:

He is a fighter, and a long time friend, but not the cutthroat I perhaps should have gotten. He said once that if I wanted someone to cut off his head and shit down his neck, it wouldn't be him. I asked if he could at least kick him in the nuts... He laughed and said he could do that. :)
 
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Have a great weekend sexy lady.
Hope you are back soon
 
Thank you Rolando. :rose:

In a nutshell, my husband is claiming to be completely disabled and unable to support himself. That is not correct. He has lied horribly on the papers he filed through his attorney. He wants spousal support from me.

He wants to keep everything... the house, (which is mine, purchased before we married), the RV, bikes, vehicles, household furnishings, etc. even my condo.

I made him an offer... he could keep the RV, his truck, his bike, tools... whatever else he wanted of his things. We would sell everything else and split the money. I wanted to keep it fair and equitable for both of us. All I wanted besides my clothes and the few personal things i took was my bike.

But no. He has lied, threatened me and anyone who would show support for me. So I am in "exile". My friends are afraid of what he will do, so they don't call or come by. I don't go out, for fear that he is still having me followed. Going somewhere by oneself is no fun anyway. He is still planning his *expose'* of my "lifestyle" in court, to discredit me.

His plan is to leave we with no place to live, no money, no friends... nothing.
Not a pretty picture. And one I had tried very hard to avoid. I am not vindictive, or mean... I just wanted out.

I know that things seem to be bleak in what you are going through. Please remember that the end result will leave you in a better place. All the material things which are being used against you are just that, material things. You will find a way to overcome and be stronger than you ever have been. The worst thing about divorce is going through the process. No matter how things turn out you will be able to view yourself as someone who is a survivor and, in a big way, a winner. I do wish you good fortune.
 
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