satindesire
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*smack* Stop biting your nails! You'll ruin good acrylics like that!
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Sir_Winston54
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Canes needn't terrify you, BB, if used by someone who knows what they're doing. As you can see from Chicklet's pics, not all canings end up looking like my AVBiBunny said:
When the cane is used properly, it can sting and burn and make you shudder while leaving no mark that isn't gone in an hour or less - or leave marks like those in my AV. It all depends on the experience and wishes of both the caner and the canee which. I would never cane someone who had never been caned before and leave marks that weren't gone in an hour or so - not her first time, nor second. By the third or fourth go-round, if she was comfortable with the idea, she could end up with marks similar to those on Chicklet's second, third and fifth pics, though most likely only on her bottom and upper thighs, not the insides. Marks like those in my AV would only ever appear on someone with a *number* of canings behind her (pun intended), who had shown that she was capable of, and desired, that level of caning.
Don't be afraid. Find someone with experience, whose judgment you trust, and begin with a light session, probably no more than eight to ten strokes. A good spanking and flogging warm-up session should precede it, along with a substantial cool-down period and an opportunity to discuss how you and he/she felt before, during and after the session. Incidentally, while I have tremendous respect for all the Dommes I've "met" here, I would not recommend your first few canings to be by a woman. Women know how much women can take, so they tend to be... ummm... shall we say, a little less cautious of the "weaker sex?" LOL!
ETA: I'll second satindesire's "Stop biting your nails!"
Sir_Winston54
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I wasn't gonna say anything, but I noticed that and drew the same tentative conclusion with a secondary - and much less likely possibility - that the cane wielder had trouble staying on target. (The reason I say "much less likely" -- I think Chicklet has better judgment than to select someone with that little control over his/her implement as to "miss the mark" to that degree.)DVS said:
BiBunny
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Sir_Winston54 said:Canes needn't terrify you, BB, if used by someone who knows what they're doing. As you can see from Chicklet's pics, not all canings end up looking like my AV
When the cane is used properly, it can sting and burn and make you shudder while leaving no mark that isn't gone in an hour or less - or leave marks like those in my AV. It all depends on the experience and wishes of both the caner and the canee which. I would never cane someone who had never been caned before and leave marks that weren't gone in an hour or so - not her first time, nor second. By the third or fourth go-round, if she was comfortable with the idea, she could end up with marks similar to those on Chicklet's second, third and fifth pics, though most likely only on her bottom and upper thighs, not the insides. Marks like those in my AV would only ever appear on someone with a *number* of canings behind her (pun intended), who had shown that she was capable of, and desired, that level of caning.
Don't be afraid. Find someone with experience, whose judgment you trust, and begin with a light session, probably no more than eight to ten strokes. A good spanking and flogging warm-up session should precede it, along with a substantial cool-down period and an opportunity to discuss how you and he/she felt before, during and after the session. Incidentally, while I have tremendous respect for all the Dommes I've "met" here, I would not recommend your first few canings to be by a woman. Women know how much women can take, so they tend to be... ummm... shall we say, a little less cautious of the "weaker sex?" LOL!
ETA: I'll second satindesire's "Stop biting your nails!"
I just hate stingy things of all sorts. The visual effects don't really bother me as much as the idea of the sting. I hate crops and singletails, too, for what it's worth. I've always been told I'd like being caned, but...I just don't know.
ETA: Though your description made it almost sound like fun.
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Chicklet
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DVS said:
Well I've been going to the local munches, two different groups. One in Vancouver and one in Portland. The people seem to be VERY different. The first thing I went to before the munches was a spanking group called Red Cheeks. Not so much D/s but a lot of spanking S/m play.
A couple there recognized me from my collarme account and we had a good conversation. She thought I was a top, because I'm agressive and had a friend there and I tend to beat on people I'm friendly with
but he recognized my personality and had me pegged from the get go. Except he thought I was a lesbian. Whatever.Anyways, since they attend the Vancouver group and I already had a person to introduce me around in Portland, I met up with her and she introduced me to a lot of people in Vancouver.
The two of them have been active in the scene for years, him for 20 years, I don't know how long for her. He was in the military, has great knowledge of the human body, she has done the good kind of pro domme work (which is the non sexual contact kind) and they both reek of good character. So I set out to seduce them
hohoho. they were helpless against me.
No, I wasn't tied up, except for a little thing on my hands. She held my legs open for him, and he spent a good hour and a half building me up. Yes, there were many other impliments, and the inner thighs are actually where most of the damage was. My breasts are also lined with marks. But I didn't get any photos and was unable to take any I liked the next day. First time ever having my breasts beaten. Was a fantastic experience. We didn't have sex. I just wanted the play.
Woo.
I barely made any noise at all. I'm stoic like that.
Stress on the fact that he tested my limits out for a good hour and a half before really getting in to it... he was quite surprised at how much I could take. And very, very good at reading my body - I ALMOST ALMOST ALMOST asked him to ease up, but he could tell by my body language before I asked, and did it on his own. Spent what felt like an eternity bringing all the blood to the surface before giving me any hard swats in any one spot.
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lostsavage
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Sounds like you had a great time. you found a good couple to play with. I wish our scene was a little more active. I so want to learn more about this stuff, but I learn a lot better seeing and then doing over reading about it.
I wish you many more good times like this and your new AV is
, and your booty is mucho nice too.
Lost
I wish you many more good times like this and your new AV is
, and your booty is mucho nice too.Lost
Evil_Geoff
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I'm in lust!
graceanne
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Chicklet said:Well I've been going to the local munches, two different groups. One in Vancouver and one in Portland. The people seem to be VERY different. The first thing I went to before the munches was a spanking group called Red Cheeks. Not so much D/s but a lot of spanking S/m play.
A couple there recognized me from my collarme account and we had a good conversation. She thought I was a top, because I'm agressive and had a friend there and I tend to beat on people I'm friendly with
Anyways, since they attend the Vancouver group and I already had a person to introduce me around in Portland, I met up with her and she introduced me to a lot of people in Vancouver.
The two of them have been active in the scene for years, him for 20 years, I don't know how long for her. He was in the military, has great knowledge of the human body, she has done the good kind of pro domme work (which is the non sexual contact kind) and they both reek of good character. So I set out to seduce them
hohoho. they were helpless against me.
No, I wasn't tied up, except for a little thing on my hands. She held my legs open for him, and he spent a good hour and a half building me up. Yes, there were many other impliments, and the inner thighs are actually where most of the damage was. My breasts are also lined with marks. But I didn't get any photos and was unable to take any I liked the next day. First time ever having my breasts beaten. Was a fantastic experience. We didn't have sex. I just wanted the play.
Woo.
I barely made any noise at all. I'm stoic like that.
Stress on the fact that he tested my limits out for a good hour and a half before really getting in to it... he was quite surprised at how much I could take. And very, very good at reading my body - I ALMOST ALMOST ALMOST asked him to ease up, but he could tell by my body language before I asked, and did it on his own. Spent what felt like an eternity bringing all the blood to the surface before giving me any hard swats in any one spot.
That sounds like way too much fun.
Evil_Geoff
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Because you're as big a tease as I am...Chicklet said:
And a masochist maybe? *LOL*
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