Because you all are so nice...

Hi there

I just went through 38 pages in one sitting on your threat..... and wow. What a range of emotions... from pregnancy to having a beautiful baby girl...... and then the seperation.

Well I can tell you this..... you are by far one of the sexiest women on Lit. I am glad I stumbled upon your page for sure..... what a beautiful body... and a dirty mind..... such a dangerous combination. Hope all is well with you now and look forward to seeing more pics.... and maybe even getting a PM or two from you? :rose: :devil:
 
lilevilpunk1267 said:
seperated from my ass hole of a husband....for good

Oh wow... I'm sorry hon. I know you must be going through a tough time right now.
 
lilevilpunk1267 said:
seperated from my ass hole of a husband....for good
I'm on my way to a woman in distress....If I'm invited... :)
 
dreading Monday

So... the asshole comes home on Monday, and is still expecting me to pick him up from the airport...which isnt going to happen. I just realized that I never told yall what he said to me in our last conversation... he told me that he hasnt wanted to be with me in well over a year and a half...and that he was sorry he got me pregnant...

yeah, when he comes home, Im chopping his balls off...not kiding.
 
lilevilpunk1267 said:
So... the asshole comes home on Monday, and is still expecting me to pick him up from the airport...which isnt going to happen. I just realized that I never told yall what he said to me in our last conversation... he told me that he hasnt wanted to be with me in well over a year and a half...and that he was sorry he got me pregnant...

yeah, when he comes home, Im chopping his balls off...not kiding.

I'm so sorry hon. And I'm sorry that your child will not likely have an active father (at least in the early years).
 
now dont get me wrong, I love my daughter to death. She is the best thing to ever happen to me; however, had I known that he didnt want to stay with me, I would have never gotten pregnant.
 
lilevilpunk1267 said:
now dont get me wrong, I love my daughter to death. She is the best thing to ever happen to me; however, had I known that he didnt want to stay with me, I would have never gotten pregnant.

That's totally normal to feel that way. Obviously (well, we'd hope), you'd never want to take it back... to undo her birth, the pregnancy, etc. But yeah, your feelings are definitely understandable. Not many people truly want to become single parents.
 
lilevilpunk1267 said:
now dont get me wrong, I love my daughter to death. She is the best thing to ever happen to me; however, had I known that he didnt want to stay with me, I would have never gotten pregnant.

I feel for yah. My wife and I just had a kid, then she basically told me that I can hang around, but she has no further use for me.

Don't worry, things will get better.
 
what gets me now, is that when he tells everyone his side of the story, he makes it sound like everything is my fault. And its not...I did EVERYTHING I could to make his fucking ass happy. I did things for him that I would have never even thought of doing. And he had me so fucking brain washed, thinking that certin things were ok,.....when in actuality, they werent.
 
definetly sounds like an ass to me, it actually sounds like one of my friends that had the exact same thing happen to her, shes a mother of 2 now and single, she deals but she cant stand the father anymore
 
lilevilpunk1267 said:
what gets me now, is that when he tells everyone his side of the story, he makes it sound like everything is my fault. And its not...I did EVERYTHING I could to make his fucking ass happy. I did things for him that I would have never even thought of doing. And he had me so fucking brain washed, thinking that certin things were ok,.....when in actuality, they werent.

He'll only see his side of things, hon. That's why you have a voice - so you can express your own view of things.

Few break-ups are amicable and 'healthy', especially once kids and marriage are involved.
 
RawHumor said:
He'll only see his side of things, hon. That's why you have a voice - so you can express your own view of things.

Few break-ups are amicable and 'healthy', especially once kids and marriage are involved.
this one would have been had he not told me that he hasnt wanted to be with me for over a year and a half. I dont think you guys realize the shit that I went through and the things that I have done FOR HIM within that time frame.
 
lilevilpunk1267 said:
this one would have been had he not told me that he hasnt wanted to be with me for over a year and a half. I dont think you guys realize the shit that I went through and the things that I have done FOR HIM within that time frame.

If it's not too hard for you, do you want to elaborate? If you'd prefer, you could mention it in PM instead of public...
 
lilevilpunk1267 said:
So... the asshole comes home on Monday, and is still expecting me to pick him up from the airport...which isnt going to happen. I just realized that I never told yall what he said to me in our last conversation... he told me that he hasnt wanted to be with me in well over a year and a half...and that he was sorry he got me pregnant...

yeah, when he comes home, Im chopping his balls off...not kiding.
If that was his feeling he should have never let you get pregnant, it only hurts the child in the long run.
 
lilevilpunk1267 said:
this one would have been had he not told me that he hasnt wanted to be with me for over a year and a half. I dont think you guys realize the shit that I went through and the things that I have done FOR HIM within that time frame.
sorry you had to go through that my dear
 
Totally totally understand how you feel. And you are right that your baby comes first. You obviously adore her. Shame that the man who fathered her (I won't say 'dad', cause he ain't) turned out to be such a shit, and put you through so much shit in the breakup as well as in the relationship.

But tell me - you said 'when he comes home'. Is he still resident with you two? I hope I've misunderstood, love, and that you're rid of him.

It's really shit too when your ex goes and disses you to all your mates, and you feel like you have to either justify yourself or else hide away - it's happened to me after my divorce (which was generally amicable).

Love & hugs to you. I know you've got the strength to go on. You're wonderful. :)
 
Ass

The guys sounds like an ass. You and your daughter sound like you will be better off without him.
 
Hang in there lil
get back to us when you can.
tell us what you want
we will be here to listen.

Jack
:rose:
 
Just from viewing your treads I've seen he was well taken care of in all ways. To now say those horrid things is pretty pathetic on his part. I hope you know that words my hurt but living well is best revenge. You just do what you need to make you and daughter happy. If he wants to wallow in self pity thats his loss. Money, looks and health can all disappear or fade. It's family and love that are a true measure of a mans worth. He just is blind to fact of how rich he really was and don't go down negative path with him. Let your daughter see what a strong beautiful woman you are inside and out.
 
i hate to see such a beautiful person treated like crap
have fun making him hurt in return :catroar:
 
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