Bend Over Beginner Strap-On Question?

[Snowman5933]

My SO and I currently have the Bend Over Beginner Set, which is a harness, 2 dildos (1 small and 1 slightly bigger, both smooth), and a bullet vibe. We are wanting to know whether it would be possible to buy a new dildo that would work with this harness. We'd like something more lifelike, and maybe a little larger. Let me know what you think.

Snowman

 

[SweetErika]

Yep, read this - you may just have to get more O-rings if your new dildos don't fit the sizes you have, and make sure the dildos have the same kind of flange that uses O-rings.

 

[Snowman5933]

Yep, read this - you may just have to get more O-rings if your new dildos don't fit the sizes you have, and make sure the dildos have the same kind of flange that uses O-rings.

As always, thanks for providing good advice. It makes sense that you can just buy new O-rings. I want to search for a new dildo on ebay (is there an easy way to search for ones with flanges that use O-rings). We want one that is more realistic (preferably flesh colored with a nice head and in the 6-7 inch size range. Any suggestions???

Thanks.

 

[SweetErika]

I searched eBay's Mature Audiences section for 'dildo' ('dildo o-ring' didn't produce anything) and found this on the first page:
7 INCH MR BENDER DILDO
Item number: 250122463529
It's $9.99 and ends later this morning, so check it out asap.
http://www.hollywoodnovelties.com/shop/images/20719_mr_bender.jpg

It's not silicone, so you'd probably want to slip a condom over it for anal. That's what we do, and it makes for very easy clean up, plus no worries about bacteria problems.

I really, really looked, and just didn't find anything else on ebay for your style of harness - unfortunately, most of the dildos there are either for Vac-U-loc, have balls, a suction cup base, no flange, etc. Next time you get something like this, check out how well it will grow with you, seeing if accessories are easy to find and not too expensive. I looked at that kit, but ended up with the leather Ultra Harness Pro 2000 (or something like that), which is a Doc Johnson vac-u-loc system because it was inexpensive, got great reviews AND I saw it would be very cheap and easy to add on to it in the future. Yeah, the silicone dildos are nice, but it's not worth it to me if it's hard or expensive to get additional dildos later on.

Tantus has lots of other silicone dildos that will fit that harness, of course, and you can certainly continue to look on eBay and other places for the right style.
I only looked for Tantus dildos at a few sites, but http://www.nawtythings.com/tantus1.html#dildos seems to have very good prices on them.

Anyway, I hope you have better luck than I did in finding a new dildo!

 

[SubNebGuy]

+1 for Tantus products. very high quality. silicone toys should not be 'cheap' as that usually indicates inferior silicone.