Bi curious men; how would you like to lose your gay virginity

Hi, I live in Syracuse over the summer and Sarasota in the winter. I am married but learned I enjoy sex with men, especially oral with swallowing cum and getting fucked in my ass. I am always horny and always looking, including online masturbation partners.
So I guess jjfish would like to lose his gay virginity with a quick cum and go hookup.
 
I’m not sure where I fit on this spectrum. Maybe I already have lost mine by getting a blowjob from a strange man in a nearby adult theater. But most of the responses seem to hint at something more, sucking a cock myself or anal sex. For me the answer to the question as far as those acts go is “ I don’t”. I don’t have an interest in sucking cock other than perhaps in a passing fantasy with a trans girl, and I do not as a matter of unshakeable policy, interact with the human anus, male female or any combination of the two.
You say you don't interact with the human anus. Do you interact with other anuses? 😆
 
I lost my gay virginity after I arranged to meet a trans woman in Hong Kong. I had previously chickened out on making a trip with a different person so I basically forced myself to follow through the second time.

I had chatted with her for a couple of months before I met her in person and she agreed to be my top. OMG. That first time was like being in another dimension. I could not believe that I was actually doing what I was doing.

She fucked me five times that first night and I knew I was born to be a bottom slut for any trans woman who wanted to use me.
I lost my anal virginity to a trans women also. What I found out years later, and just recently, is cock is cock. A man fucking you feels just as good as a trans women. Trans women are few and far between. There are horny guys all over the place. It is fairly easy to suck cock or get fucked if you submit to guys. I am finding out this fact now, should have been a gay slut my whole life, would have had a lot more sex.
 
I lost my anal virginity to a trans women also. What I found out years later, and just recently, is cock is cock. A man fucking you feels just as good as a trans women. Trans women are few and far between. There are horny guys all over the place. It is fairly easy to suck cock or get fucked if you submit to guys. I am finding out this fact now, should have been a gay slut my whole life, would have had a lot more sex.
Cock is cock, yes, but I am far more interested in the person attached to the cock than the cock itself. For me, nothing is better than my gf's cock because it is HER cock and I am crazy about her.
 
For Bi curious guys, how would you like to lose your gay virginity? Not necessarily your anal virginity, but your first time with a man where there's sex involved.

Would you turn to a trusted friend? Or maybe be completely anonymous, and suck off a stranger at a adult book store?
Would there be alcohol and a massage involved? (that works for me)

Would there be any kissing? Maybe you would go to a gay bath house, and rent a private room? Maybe you'd like to suck your first cock while people watch?

How do you want to lose it?

My gay virginity is long gone, and it was a bumpy ride. But I wish it had been in an MMF situation, with the woman encouraging us. Perhaps she would tempt or bribe us by saying 'you only get to fuck me after you've 69'd each other' or 'frot and kiss him, I know you'll like it' or 'show him how you like your cock sucked'

Another way I'd like to lose it would be to get seduced by a more experienced, older gay man. I'd want him to be attractive and fit. We are both attracted to each other and we flirt and flatter each other. We both know we're going to end up in bed sucking and fucking, and the air is ripe with possibilities. Perhaps he has picked me up hitch hiking, and I'm cold and wet.

(This is my 'let me get you out of those wet clothes and into a dry martini' fantasy)

He invited me to spend the night and to clean up. As I'm showering he fixes some drinks and washes my clothes. I come out of the shower, dressed only in a short robe he provided. He is dressed the same, relaxing on the couch, watching gay porn on his big screen TV. He invites me to join him, and I do. He puts one arm around me and pulls me in close with one hand and strokes himself with the other. His robe has dropped away, and I watch as he stroke the full length of his curved, cut beautiful 8" cock. He continues to stroke and I can't take my eyes off his cock. I'm filled lust, fully aroused and hard. I've never wanted anything in my life as much as I want that cock. I take one long sip from my drink, then I roll off the couch, onto my knees between his legs. He spreads his thighs to ease my access, and pulls my head to his crotch, gently but he holds me firmly. I reach out with the tip of my tongue and trace a line from his knob slowly down to his balls, which I'm caressing gently. Reaching back up to his knob I surround it with my wet lips and start sucking ever so gently, exploring every curve of it's shape.

You'll have to use your imagination from here on ... I have something I need to take care of right now

p.s. A few of the best things about hitch hiking is that you meet a lot of horny gay men. You meet them only for a short time then you never see them again. So you can play any role you want and be a total cock slut if you like, and no one else, especially no one at home, will ever know
I actually wrote this down in the form of a story published here on Lit. Started as a dream then I added some details. Pretty much how I envision it happening.
 
I lost my anal virginity to a trans women also. What I found out years later, and just recently, is cock is cock. A man fucking you feels just as good as a trans women. Trans women are few and far between. There are horny guys all over the place. It is fairly easy to suck cock or get fucked if you submit to guys. I am finding out this fact now, should have been a gay slut my whole life, would have had a lot more sex.
Where I'm at now, I'm not submitting to any guy unless I really know and like him well.

I enjoy my wife pegging me...she's wonderfull!

But a real dick, and I would like to play with one, would need to be a T-woman, or at least a cross-dresser.
 
MWM 63. I feel like I am ready to try. I'm very beta and want to meet a mature confident man on line, then meet him in a hotel bar and give him the key to my room. When he comes in, I want to be on my knees in panties and he tells me exactly what to do, makes me confess that I'm a closet sissy and want to suck his cock. I'm finding it very hard to take the first step. I actually went to a bar to meet someone, but the entire trip there, I kept thinking of the ways it could go wrong. I stepped into the bar, saw him (he still doesn't know my face). I panicked and left.
 
I previously posted on how I gave away my virginity but the original post was about how I wanted my virginity to be taken.

My fantasy ideal first time experience would be to have a gay couple take me home from a party. Once at their house they would teach me all I need to know to be a good bottom.
 
The first time I was fucked it was by a trans woman with a cock smaller than my own average sized dick. Good thing too! She slammed her cock up my ass balls deep in one mighty thrust. She was so horny it was less than a minute before she was pumping her cum into my hole for the first time.

Damn, she had a stiff little cock! Every time I turned around, there it was, hard and throbbing, ready to go to work. Needless to say, my slut ass did not resist her!

By the end of the week with her, I had been fucked well over thirty times and I knew I was a bottom slut for trans girl cock.
Just like I posted, a trans with small tits and dick, an easier fit
 
When you let your inhibitions/ego go and answer to your desires, it's often beyond the point of no return. That's how I felt before I'd been penetrated for the first time. I kept making excuses for the mutual masturbation and sucking his cock. I knew we would be naked and I'd be the woman in that relationship. I nearly said no. I held out but once his cock was in me i knew. I knew what I was
Nice 😋
 
For Bi curious guys, how would you like to lose your gay virginity? Not necessarily your anal virginity, but your first time with a man where there's sex involved.

Would you turn to a trusted friend? Or maybe be completely anonymous, and suck off a stranger at a adult book store?
Would there be alcohol and a massage involved? (that works for me)

Would there be any kissing? Maybe you would go to a gay bath house, and rent a private room? Maybe you'd like to suck your first cock while people watch?

How do you want to lose it?

My gay virginity is long gone, and it was a bumpy ride. But I wish it had been in an MMF situation, with the woman encouraging us. Perhaps she would tempt or bribe us by saying 'you only get to fuck me after you've 69'd each other' or 'frot and kiss him, I know you'll like it' or 'show him how you like your cock sucked'

Another way I'd like to lose it would be to get seduced by a more experienced, older gay man. I'd want him to be attractive and fit. We are both attracted to each other and we flirt and flatter each other. We both know we're going to end up in bed sucking and fucking, and the air is ripe with possibilities. Perhaps he has picked me up hitch hiking, and I'm cold and wet.

(This is my 'let me get you out of those wet clothes and into a dry martini' fantasy)

He invited me to spend the night and to clean up. As I'm showering he fixes some drinks and washes my clothes. I come out of the shower, dressed only in a short robe he provided. He is dressed the same, relaxing on the couch, watching gay porn on his big screen TV. He invites me to join him, and I do. He puts one arm around me and pulls me in close with one hand and strokes himself with the other. His robe has dropped away, and I watch as he stroke the full length of his curved, cut beautiful 8" cock. He continues to stroke and I can't take my eyes off his cock. I'm filled lust, fully aroused and hard. I've never wanted anything in my life as much as I want that cock. I take one long sip from my drink, then I roll off the couch, onto my knees between his legs. He spreads his thighs to ease my access, and pulls my head to his crotch, gently but he holds me firmly. I reach out with the tip of my tongue and trace a line from his knob slowly down to his balls, which I'm caressing gently. Reaching back up to his knob I surround it with my wet lips and start sucking ever so gently, exploring every curve of it's shape.

You'll have to use your imagination from here on ... I have something I need to take care of right now

p.s. A few of the best things about hitch hiking is that you meet a lot of horny gay men. You meet them only for a short time then you never see them again. So you can play any role you want and be a total cock slut if you like, and no one else, especially no one at home, will ever know
What a delightful thread, I have enjoyed reading all the posts!

I lost mine about 55 years ago and never looked back.
 
i've helped more than a few get over their curious thoughts.. some were random that i had met, others we got to know each other a bit.. i'm guessing they are all still bi too
 
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