Bi guys are so sexy!

[ru23]

Bi-guys

First off great job Jenna, Starting this topic and with all these sexy responses.
Second GREAT stories Satin!!!!
I'm a very bi-curious guy. have had these thoughts for many years and until I started reading stories and personals on this sitei thought i was the only one.
seems like alot of males have fantasies of sucking cock. i'm very oral love eating pussy and rimming ass but have never done anything with a male besides in my mind.
recently joined bisexualplayground in hopes of hooking up but no luck yet. By the way I'm frodo23 there.

keep the stories rolling Satin!

 

[HornyGirlBBW]

*joins the club*

 

[Gingersnaps]

hey jealousy

I've posted before how important I think jealousy is to this.

First, I am so jealous of the kind of bi-girl fad... the power women have to turn men on with homosexuality. I hate that this power doesn't seem to swing both ways. I don't think a woman's acceptance of my bisexuality is hot. What I think is hot is a woman being helplessly turned on by gay sex. I mean drooling, begging, jaw-dropping, do-anything, say-anything turned on.

Second, I want women to be jealous of gay/bi men. I want a woman who watches gay porn, masturbates, and curses her own existence for being born without a cock. And she has thoughts like this: "I can never make a man feel THAT good.... two cocks sliding against each other must be the best feeling on earth... I would do anything to see that"

Third, pretend our ideal bi-hag is married or, in a relationship. She begs her handsome husband to try it. She does the brainwashing strap-on, gay porn, gay club thing. Finally it happens in front of her eyes. He loves it. Here's the crucial part for me: she will be jealous, fearing that he will like gay sex more, and no longer enjoy fucking her. Possibly he will leave her, she fears, even after those chicken soup for the soul, 'soulmate' reassurances. Wow, I think that is hot, that fear.

Another thought... I also get jealous of straight men... because they are a kind of virgin. And I guess that is a component of all sex. But, for me, there was a wonderful, illicit thrill to becoming bisexual... or, as a wife or girlfriend or crush may fear- gay.


Gingersnaps

 

[ChasingShadowsX]

Hey people, im 18m from Sydney and new to all of this. But I'm so keen on meeting guys or girls interested in bi guys. I'm bi-curious trying to think of ways to have experiances without letting it out that im bi. If anyone wants to chat I have MSN, contact me

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[webber1998]

Most women that I have met want NOTHING to do with bi guys at all. Only one of my GF's ever really enjoyed it. The others wouldn't allow it so I didn't do anything while I was with them.

Of course, us guys LOVE it when two women are getting it on. I guess that we are JUST that different.

Would love to meet a nice woman who LOVED to have sex with two guys who LOVED having sex with each other....

 

[Satin Kitty 69]

Most women that I have met want NOTHING to do with bi guys at all. Only one of my GF's ever really enjoyed it. The others wouldn't allow it so I didn't do anything while I was with them.

Of course, us guys LOVE it when two women are getting it on. I guess that we are JUST that different.

Would love to meet a nice woman who LOVED to have sex with two guys who LOVED having sex with each other....

I hope that by reading through this thread, you realize that there are quite a few woman whose reaction to bi guys is more than just slight enjoyment

Personally, I find pictures and the thought of two guys enjoying each other more of a turn on than hetero images. I really like the thought of two guys, their arms around each other as they kiss each others faces, lips and neck as they explore with soft lips and wet tongues. Their hands running over each other's back and chest feeling the skin beneath the layer of cloth, as they feel the heat and excitement rise between them. Their hot bodies rubbing as there mouths and hands increase in there intense pace and search for pleasure. I can picture their hard ons straining to break free of the constraints of clothing as their hands explore the ass, thighs, back and chest of each other. Their kisses and teasing hands causing their barely touched cocks to throb, as their breathing comes faster and faster. finally after almost an eternity of teasing pleasure the shirts are unbuttoned, and the rest of the clothing soon follows as they explore the skin that had until then lay hidden beneath clothing. Hard cocks and tight asses become the focus of their pleasuring, as they begin to lick and kiss the sensitive flesh of the other. Their needs and desire peaking and rising up as hard cocks slide between their lips as they lay in a 69 position, enjoying the taste of the precum seeping out of the throbbing heads of their playmate. Over and over their throats would swallow their long hard ons, pausing only to lick and tease the head and ridge. Feeling themselves and their lovers build in crescendo of moans and waves of pleasure, until they feel the electric current begin and build and build untill released and allowed to flash through their bodies, as their mouths fill with the taste of the other's pleasure....MMMMM

 

[sdedalus]

be sexually free

i love all the discussion.. my girlfriend is really into it... we hardly ever watch straight porn anymore.. usually lesbian or gay males... or group sex...

she has a strap on.. which i want to see her use on a girl, but for now has been an okay substitute for me to suck on and take in the ass a couple times (and boy does that hurt at first).

can't wait for the real thing..

SD

 

[kdwb63]

Thinking it through

This fantastic thread has produced comment from women who want to see it, guys thinking about it, couples talking it over, and those who have been there, done that.

In the latter group, I wonder how many continued to enjoy MMF sex, even as an occasional or sometimes diversion, and how many concluded it was something best left in the realm of erotic fantasy.

I began my exploration of this new (MMF) territory at the prompting of a GF and, once over my own, self-constructed, hurdles, became absolutely comfortable with it. It was, for me, sensual, erotic, and completely natural . . . just an extension of the great love-life my GF and I had enjoyed all along. She was the one who chose to discontinue our explorations along these lines, citing her concern that I would "like" my sexual involvement with another man too much. The ten-cent word for that is Jealousy and there was no reason for her concern, but nothing I could say changed the way she felt. It was better to stop. She also ceased her own adventures into bisexuality . . . activities that Did Not include me but which she talked about freely afterward.

We parted company because of career decisions and job transfers, not over bedroom issues, but these things could have been problems eventually. She loosed something in me, then put it back in its cage. I don't think I would have been happy keeping it there. The years since have not been full of women eager to share the MMF experience, either. A forum such as one, where it is possible to even talk about it, is a precious resource.

I would enjoy hearing from women or couples . . . whether you've been there or are thinking it through. Comment here or PM me.

-bob-

 

[Satin Kitty 69]

Trick or Treat

I wanted to let anyone interested in reading a delicious story know that I posted one with the title "Trick or Treat" in the following forum:

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&postid=6477733#post6477733

ENJOY!

 

[Satin Kitty 69]

Re: Thinking it through

This fantastic thread has produced comment from women who want to see it, guys thinking about it, couples talking it over, and those who have been there, done that.

In the latter group, I wonder how many continued to enjoy MMF sex, even as an occasional or sometimes diversion, and how many concluded it was something best left in the realm of erotic fantasy.

I began my exploration of this new (MMF) territory at the prompting of a GF and, once over my own, self-constructed, hurdles, became absolutely comfortable with it. It was, for me, sensual, erotic, and completely natural . . . just an extension of the great love-life my GF and I had enjoyed all along. She was the one who chose to discontinue our explorations along these lines, citing her concern that I would "like" my sexual involvement with another man too much. The ten-cent word for that is Jealousy and there was no reason for her concern, but nothing I could say changed the way she felt. It was better to stop. She also ceased her own adventures into bisexuality . . . activities that Did Not include me but which she talked about freely afterward.

We parted company because of career decisions and job transfers, not over bedroom issues, but these things could have been problems eventually. She loosed something in me, then put it back in its cage. I don't think I would have been happy keeping it there. The years since have not been full of women eager to share the MMF experience, either. A forum such as one, where it is possible to even talk about it, is a precious resource.

I would enjoy hearing from women or couples . . . whether you've been there or are thinking it through. Comment here or PM me.

-bob-

I'm happy that you explore your sexuality and were able to get over those hurdles that we all seem to create when we are young. I have always wondered if I would be jealous if my guy ever explored his bi side in reality and not just fantasy. I know that he chose me when he asked me to marry him, and that meant that he wanted to be with me instead of with another girl or guy. I think that I would want to share his first experience with him if he is okay with that, but I know that afterwards he will love me and I will love him just as much as we do now. I am not a guy, so there are a few things that I could never offer him, but am comfortable knowing that he will continue to love me inspite of and because of what I lack and have.

Goodluck & Enjoy life!

 

[mac_crazy]

edited

 

[infinityoverzero]

Telling your gf

Great topic, and even better responses!

I'm 32, have had many bi experiences, both with just men, and with M/F couples... I was seeing one couple in Ohio exclusively for about a year. The woman was very content with her husband's desire for cock, there were many times that she would just sit back and watch us in a 69, till we came in each other's mouths. Other times, he would cup my balls and finger my ass while I fucked his wife silly. She loved watching us suck each other off, but curiously, she (in his words) didn't want to see us fuck each other, which we only tried a couple of times anyway. I wonder now if he really didn't want her to see him having anal sex with a guy, or if it was really her aversion. Regardless, when I let him fuck me, she wasn't there to witness it, but it was incredible! Feeling his thick cock filling up my ass (kinda painful, but with enough lube and gentleness, it's awesome) made my cock harder than it's ever been. I came three times while he was fucking me, and that is RARE for me! I'd love to find another couple who is so open and fun to play with. Too bad they live too far away to see often enough.

Now I'm dating a woman (for about 5 months now), we have very good, albeit quite tame, sex. I'm very hesitant to divulge my bi-side to her, for fear of a negative reaction. I guess no matter how I do it, it will be an initial shock. I love this woman, and we'll probably marry soon, but I don't like the idea of hiding my bi-sexual urges from her for the rest of our lives. I don't always have to have a guy there to enjoy sex, but it is nice sometimes. I think she is very inhibited though, as mere mention of 3somes with another woman (even mentioned in a movie or something) brings about a disapproving look to her face. And if I were to mention getting together with another man?? I dunno, I just don't see it. But what if she's just never been introduced to that kind of excitement before, and doesn't know what she's missing?

Anyone have advice on how I might introduce bisexuality to her, without completely freaking her out?

First of all, really enjoyed your descriptions of the MM / MMF encounters that you had, gets me hard just thinking about it.

As for telling your gf, if your sex life is really tame, you may want to try changing that first. That way she can gradually go from "tame" to "slightly uninhibited" to "wild no-holds-barred" to "my boyfriend is bisexual and has had threesomes".

When you do tell her, make sure that you deal with the common misconception that bi people are by nature polyamorous and unfaithful. Just because we enjoy both doesn't mean that we can't be faithful in a loving relationship. Also, she may feel like she can't fulfill all your desires and that you may run away with a guy ... my gf was worried about that for a bit when I came out to her, but she soon realized that the chances of me running away with a guy were the same as the chances of me running away with a girl (both practically nil).

Good luck, and I hope that you will be able to share your sexuality with her and that she will be able to accept it.

--Infinity

 

[ONOURL8]

How to do it without freaking here out....that's gonna be tricky. You'll have to spend some time, feel it out (so to speak), maybe drop hints and suggestions from time to time and get an idea of how she's going to react. Go slow, that's all I can tell you.

On the other hand you have to tell her up front. It sounds like you've pretty much made up your mind that you're going to spend the rest of your life with her, so she's got to know. If she accepts that as your past but not your future then you're going to have to make another decision. Can you spend the rest of your life without bi sex?

In my case, I dropped hints to my wife. After several months she asked me once if I would suck a guys cock. I didn't respond very fast and she says "or have you? Just how far have you gone?" That got us talking and she admitted her fantasy of seeing two guys in action.

We've since been there, done that. The odd thing is that she can't handle the thought of me with another woman. But I can play with a guy anytime, anywhere. All she asks is that if she's not present that I tell her after the fact. Strange, but she has no fear of me playing with men. (I do get together with women and couples once in a while but I'm cheating).

 

[mac_crazy]

Thanks for your input, guys. Good points from both of you.

Glad you liked the descriptions, infinity. I enjoyed them myself... ;-)

 

[ru23]

telling wife

long time mwm here, had the most vivid wet dream of my life when I was about 15. I woke up after a fantastic orgasm! The dream....sucking my brother off! At the time I wondered what was wrong with me! I'm no Wilt Chamberlin, but have had sexual relationships with close to 60 different women. Love a womans body! But also admire a mans body. I have always checked out men as much as women. friends have commented about me looking at their crothches. I never considered this a sex thing just body admiration. A couple of years ago a girl friend and I were discussing and trying to hook-up with another girl for a ffm 3 way. oUt of the blue (I thought) she asked me if I would have sex with her and another guy. at first i was a little mad, but after a while that is about all i could think about.
which gets me to the point, I want to ask my wife to have a mmf
with her just watching us have oral sex. She always comments about me liking guys (kidding about me going to camp and things) so I don't know how receptive she might be and very scared to find out. so we all have our dillemas .

 

[Wyldone2004]

Bi

I'm very bi-curious and searching for a my 1st experience. I have had thoughts about it for a very long time and was so scared to do it until now. I thought women hated the thought of 2 men together and that was a huge fear on my part. But now that I know that some women like it, i can talk about it now.

 

[Wyldone2004]

Bi

I'm very bi-curious and searching for a my 1st experience. I have had thoughts about it for a very long time and was so scared to do it until now. I thought women hated the thought of 2 men together and that was a huge fear on my part. But now that I know that some women like it, i can talk about it now.

 

[sifer]

on the subject of breaking it to the GF

Thanks for your input, guys. Good points from both of you.

Glad you liked the descriptions, infinity. I enjoyed them myself... ;-)

This is in responce to the previos post I didn't think you would mind me using the shorter.

One way to test the waters with the GF would be to introduce a vibe. or dildo into your normal play under the gise of to stimulate her (or better yet if she has one use hers) and after using it on her start with licking it see how that goes.

If she is realy uncomfortable with you and your posible maskulinity she will react to this but it should be suttle enough that you can play it off as just being attacted to her juces.

If all goes well (not the same night to give her time for the delayed responce) you can move up to sucking on the toy.

For anal I personaly would start with the old slip of the toung while eating her. This should let you know if she freaks out over anal sex in general.

I have had a couple of anti BI GF in the long run they just were not fofilling. However the ones that accepted my bi side, even if it was a purely monogomus relationship, were.

A serios relationship should be truthfull otherwise how can it be complete. Your partner needs to accept you for who you are not a mask that you hide behind or it is not realy you that she loves and that is just asking for trouble.

Jellosy is a nother beast all together but communication is the key there.

Ok this is just getting far to seriose

Its all about being happy with yourself and your partner.

I had a interlude with a friend and his wife a couple of years ago. They together requested my pressence. The event itself went quite well. He said it was the first 3 way he had been in that had been a true bi encounter. However I think he decided that his wife had too much fun. He started showing seriose signs of jellosy afterwords. So sence then I have kept a decnt amount of distance. It hurt the friendship and as such has made me hesitant to aproch anyone that I consider a good friend even though I know that my wife says she is eager to get together with another for MMF play. You may have a resorce in the OH couple that you can draw on as they are not so close to make things uncomfortable if there is a negative reaction to the actual event.

Good luck and great sex
Sifer

 

[mac_crazy]

well said, sifer, thanks for your input. I think you are hitting the nail on the head with the "slowly building up to it" part. I appreciate you taking the time to reply!

 

[Satin Kitty 69]

Baby steps

well said, sifer, thanks for your input. I think you are hitting the nail on the head with the "slowly building up to it" part. I appreciate you taking the time to reply!

I think slowly working up to the bi topic is key, especially if she seems quite unadventuresome to start. It took a long time for my guy to discover he was bi, which allowed me time to adjust in baby steps to the idea. Now I love the thought and sight of two guys having "loads" of fun, but I wasn't always this enthusiasic.

Starting with an "accidental" lick of her ass is a good idea, and so is the licking of her toy. If she seems okay with it, try doing it again the next time you play. If she is still okay with it, don't push to hard, but if she is enjoying it then move onto the next level.

One thing to keep in mind is that it is far easier to walk forward slowly than to try to erase any negative response that might happen if you move to fast. But don' worry a little bit of unsureness on her part isn't neccessarily a red light, it just means you need to slow down on that topic.

After my guy told me that he like the feel of playing with his ass, I asked him to give me a day to think about it. He did, and after thinking about it I was curious enough to try. We did and I am so glad that he introduced me to playing with his ass, although if he had pushed on the issue I think we would still be back in the unadventuresome category.

I guess what I'm trying to say in my babbling is good luck, go slow, read her reaction, and allow time for interest and comfort level to build with each new step.

 

[Dick Cheyney]

Satin,

Your posts are gifts from the heavens!

Many thanks!

 

[mac_crazy]

thanks, satin, you make a lot of sense, and it's good to hear a woman's perspective of the situation. It's weird, on one hand, I can totally see her learning about my desires, and enjoying them with me (as well as me continuing to learn about and enjoy hers), but on the other, I can easily see it going badly. But I know she loves me, and that she wants to be with me forever, so if that's the truth, then I can hope that she will still feel the same way once she finds out that I'm bi.

 

[mac_crazy]

*accidental double post!

 

[Satin Kitty 69]

It has been a while...

I haven't been to this thread for a bit, and I thought that I would ask those interested to name their top 3 reasons that Bi guys are so sexy!!

My reasons:

1) There is nothing hotter than 2 guys kissing, and if they are bi there is a chance I can play too

2) They can appreciate the sight of a cute cock, yet love licking a pussy. They don't have any hangups about seeing guys in sexy pictures, instead they enjoy it too.

3) A lot more possible combinations when creating a story!!!

 

[sdedalus]

Re: It has been a while...

I haven't been to this thread for a bit, and I thought that I would ask those interested to name their top 3 reasons that Bi guys are so sexy!!

My reasons:

1) There is nothing hotter than 2 guys kissing, and if they are bi there is a chance I can play too

2) They can appreciate the sight of a cute cock, yet love licking a pussy. They don't have any hangups about seeing guys in sexy pictures, instead they enjoy it too.

3) A lot more possible combinations when creating a story!!!

1) Possibilities
2) Cock
3) MMF Threesome