gmrochesternygu
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Would love to find a regular handjob bud in Western NY. Anyone around?
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pearldiver69
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Please, let's all be abit more "honest", shall we?
Alright you guys, here it is. Well, part of it, anyway. I was just working on another site when that little "alert window" popped up about this ongoing discussion. I read the latest posting, and had to go all the way back to the first one to get back on track. Here's a couple of thoughts on what we've been talking about.
If you care to indulge in it, there's a certain "thrill" that can come with the anonymity in sitting in a darkened "adult theater" and being discretely, and usually silently, sexual with another guy. Your ever so well manicured "masculinity", and "straight" image isn't brought to bear or threatened, or even relevant during these encounters. The object of the exercise is to easily and somewhat "safely" discover, explore, and enjoy some of the sexual pleasures that can be shared by members of the same sex. More than likely, no one will know who you are and your carefully crafted and fiercely held onto heterosexuality will not be an issue. What will be, is your ability to intensely enjoy and share in a "hot" sexual encounter with someone who has the same secret yearnings, as well as the same genitals, as you, but without all the heavy social, political, and religious, pressures that keep these curiosities, desires, and needs, so deeply hidden and repressed. Your "manhood" will be simply evidenced by your willingness to be connected intimately and sexually with another "man". Another man who, in most cases, has as much to "hide", outside the darkened confines of whichever venue you're in, as you. 99.9% of the time, no names, business cards, phone numbers, e-mail addresses, or other personal information is exchanged, and your secrets remain your's, and safe. These days, however, "adult theaters" are, with precious few exceptions, almost a thing of the past, what with the internet, DVDs, and the like. And to me, this is a sad loss.
As far as getting together with "the guys", or one other guy, and watching some porn in order to create a sexually charged atmosphere where something "might" happen between the two of you goes ....... Well, cards have to be put on the table, one or two of those "secrets" revealed, and huge chances have to be taken in order to maintain the same identity, reputation, and social standing you had before you initiated this socially ambiguous foray into same sex intimacies. Just do whatever it takes to first be lead pipe certain that your desires are actually shared by whomever it is you suggest this to. It's way too easy to confuse perception with actual reality. I once found this out "the hard way". However, when it does happen, it's well worth all the groundwork you've laid beforehand. New portals to pleasure can be opened.
Lastly, if you're in for a penny, then consider being in for a pound. By this I mean, what's better than a "hand-job"? Right, a blow-job! I've discovered that giving is just as good as getting, and is a much more serious act of "bonding" with someone you're close to and trust. It can also reveal things to yourself that you may not have paid attention to in the past. Frankly, just watching another guy jerk-off is something like attending a banquet, where everyone has brought their own food, and won't share. What's the point, unless you're pretty involved in both exibitionism and voyeuruism, exclusively, and that satisfies your needs, which is okay, but that's not what we're discussing here, is it? I just find it frustrating, as I've said here before, that men aren't "allowed" to be as sexually "intimate" with other men as women are. Two (or more!) women have sex, and it seems to enhance their attractiveness. Whereas, two (or more!) men have sex, and western civilization becomes suddenly threatened. Trust me, if you're truly "honest" with yourself, and wise enough to be as "discreet" as any situation demands, then your "manhood" will remain intact and you'll have found another way to be sexually fulfilled. Remember the catch phrase to that old commercial, "Try it! You'll like it!" And, thanks for enduring my long windedness. Ciao.
Alright you guys, here it is. Well, part of it, anyway. I was just working on another site when that little "alert window" popped up about this ongoing discussion. I read the latest posting, and had to go all the way back to the first one to get back on track. Here's a couple of thoughts on what we've been talking about.
If you care to indulge in it, there's a certain "thrill" that can come with the anonymity in sitting in a darkened "adult theater" and being discretely, and usually silently, sexual with another guy. Your ever so well manicured "masculinity", and "straight" image isn't brought to bear or threatened, or even relevant during these encounters. The object of the exercise is to easily and somewhat "safely" discover, explore, and enjoy some of the sexual pleasures that can be shared by members of the same sex. More than likely, no one will know who you are and your carefully crafted and fiercely held onto heterosexuality will not be an issue. What will be, is your ability to intensely enjoy and share in a "hot" sexual encounter with someone who has the same secret yearnings, as well as the same genitals, as you, but without all the heavy social, political, and religious, pressures that keep these curiosities, desires, and needs, so deeply hidden and repressed. Your "manhood" will be simply evidenced by your willingness to be connected intimately and sexually with another "man". Another man who, in most cases, has as much to "hide", outside the darkened confines of whichever venue you're in, as you. 99.9% of the time, no names, business cards, phone numbers, e-mail addresses, or other personal information is exchanged, and your secrets remain your's, and safe. These days, however, "adult theaters" are, with precious few exceptions, almost a thing of the past, what with the internet, DVDs, and the like. And to me, this is a sad loss.
As far as getting together with "the guys", or one other guy, and watching some porn in order to create a sexually charged atmosphere where something "might" happen between the two of you goes ....... Well, cards have to be put on the table, one or two of those "secrets" revealed, and huge chances have to be taken in order to maintain the same identity, reputation, and social standing you had before you initiated this socially ambiguous foray into same sex intimacies. Just do whatever it takes to first be lead pipe certain that your desires are actually shared by whomever it is you suggest this to. It's way too easy to confuse perception with actual reality. I once found this out "the hard way". However, when it does happen, it's well worth all the groundwork you've laid beforehand. New portals to pleasure can be opened.
Lastly, if you're in for a penny, then consider being in for a pound. By this I mean, what's better than a "hand-job"? Right, a blow-job! I've discovered that giving is just as good as getting, and is a much more serious act of "bonding" with someone you're close to and trust. It can also reveal things to yourself that you may not have paid attention to in the past. Frankly, just watching another guy jerk-off is something like attending a banquet, where everyone has brought their own food, and won't share. What's the point, unless you're pretty involved in both exibitionism and voyeuruism, exclusively, and that satisfies your needs, which is okay, but that's not what we're discussing here, is it? I just find it frustrating, as I've said here before, that men aren't "allowed" to be as sexually "intimate" with other men as women are. Two (or more!) women have sex, and it seems to enhance their attractiveness. Whereas, two (or more!) men have sex, and western civilization becomes suddenly threatened. Trust me, if you're truly "honest" with yourself, and wise enough to be as "discreet" as any situation demands, then your "manhood" will remain intact and you'll have found another way to be sexually fulfilled. Remember the catch phrase to that old commercial, "Try it! You'll like it!" And, thanks for enduring my long windedness. Ciao.
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I think one could masturbate/jerk someone off just reading this thread. It has me intensely aroused...anyone care to assist me? 
homunculus
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Thanks, pearldiver, whoever you are, for your remarkably articulate and thoughtful post. You put it all so clearly and persuasively. I'm not yet persuaded that the category man is as arbitrary or anachronistic as your quotation marks would suggest, or that the general aversion to watching male on male sex is necessarily homophobic or originating in desire (being turned on by x makes me x so I had better lash out). Sex is more complicated than that. Nonetheless, for those who are daring and who do have the desire, yes, a liberated and thrilling experience awaits.
I like to watch, by the way, and I think others do as well. The rhythm of my fantasy is watch, help, watch, participate, come.
Thanks, pearldiver, whoever you are, for your remarkably articulate and thoughtful post. You put it all so clearly and persuasively. I'm not yet persuaded that the category man is as arbitrary or anachronistic as your quotation marks would suggest, or that the general aversion to watching male on male sex is necessarily homophobic or originating in desire (being turned on by x makes me x so I had better lash out). Sex is more complicated than that. Nonetheless, for those who are daring and who do have the desire, yes, a liberated and thrilling experience awaits.
I like to watch, by the way, and I think others do as well. The rhythm of my fantasy is watch, help, watch, participate, come.
big_bad_boy_toy
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Poker Gone Wild
I am straight but curious. At poker night last month, I was pretty tipsy and cocky, and said I'd go down on the host if my 2 pairs didn't win. Well, he was holding a hand that beat mine and they wouldn't let me off the hook.
My girlfriend was there to witness it. He sat in his living room chair and I was forced to my knees. I undid his belt and pants. I could smell his sweaty meat as soon as I lowered his boxers. He had a huge thick cock. I started playing with him as he grew harder. I hoped to make him cum with my hands to avoid blowing him, but his wife said to do it or 2 guys would force me. I started licking the underside of his shaft and he moaned. I licked under his head and all around it. A gush of pre cum ran down his shaft. I licked back down and was curious about the taste of his huge balls. I licked his whole scrotum and took each ball into my mouth. Then I licked the pre cum off him and swallowed his head in my mouth. I worked about 4 inches into my mouth. He was huge, at least 9 inch and I couldn't do more than half. His pre cum was leaking in my mouth.
2 guys noticed I had a bulge in my pants and told his wife. Soon she and a guy were taking my pants off to show off how hard I was. Sucking him excited me and I couldn't lie. I kept sucking him. His wife started stroking him while I sucked the tip. My G/F came over and was stroking me and she said how hot it looked to see me sucking cock. His wife fingered his ass and I felt the hot cum spurt in my mouth, and I lost it and exploded in Susan's mouth too.
Nobody there (3 guys and another gal watched) ever repeated this to anyone. Susan wants to see me suck another guy for her now and then. The guy is my coworker and he really got off seeing me suck him, because I am his boss now. But I can't deny how hot and hard I was smelling and tasting that cock and cum.
anybody else ever do this on a bet? dare? forced to? for a lady?
I am straight but curious. At poker night last month, I was pretty tipsy and cocky, and said I'd go down on the host if my 2 pairs didn't win. Well, he was holding a hand that beat mine and they wouldn't let me off the hook.
My girlfriend was there to witness it. He sat in his living room chair and I was forced to my knees. I undid his belt and pants. I could smell his sweaty meat as soon as I lowered his boxers. He had a huge thick cock. I started playing with him as he grew harder. I hoped to make him cum with my hands to avoid blowing him, but his wife said to do it or 2 guys would force me. I started licking the underside of his shaft and he moaned. I licked under his head and all around it. A gush of pre cum ran down his shaft. I licked back down and was curious about the taste of his huge balls. I licked his whole scrotum and took each ball into my mouth. Then I licked the pre cum off him and swallowed his head in my mouth. I worked about 4 inches into my mouth. He was huge, at least 9 inch and I couldn't do more than half. His pre cum was leaking in my mouth.
2 guys noticed I had a bulge in my pants and told his wife. Soon she and a guy were taking my pants off to show off how hard I was. Sucking him excited me and I couldn't lie. I kept sucking him. His wife started stroking him while I sucked the tip. My G/F came over and was stroking me and she said how hot it looked to see me sucking cock. His wife fingered his ass and I felt the hot cum spurt in my mouth, and I lost it and exploded in Susan's mouth too.
Nobody there (3 guys and another gal watched) ever repeated this to anyone. Susan wants to see me suck another guy for her now and then. The guy is my coworker and he really got off seeing me suck him, because I am his boss now. But I can't deny how hot and hard I was smelling and tasting that cock and cum.
anybody else ever do this on a bet? dare? forced to? for a lady?
When I was about 14, I saw two guys on the beach jerking each other. It had such an effect on me that I had to sit down and jerk off myself.
From time to time I remember this and have always got an erection. Needless to say it has to be satisfied.
Only twice have I been in situations where we could mutually masturbate, once when I was travelling on a train and a guy pulled his cock out opposite me and I just had to pull mine out. WE ended up helping each other out.
Second time was when I went to a conference and we had to share a room. I came in late in the afternoon to see my room mate naked and jerking off. Again we finished up playing wih each others cock.
I would love to do it more often, but I feel the problem is that we can't approach friends as the penalty of being refused would probably mean that the friendship would end and trouble would ensue.
What is needed is a secure site like this to publish addresses and phone nos. of willing men so that we could discretely and securely approach each other.
I'm up for it anyway and am in Melbourne Australia if there are any other guys in my area.
homunculus on long island there are a few adult shops with movies, A few times i go to get sucked off. Its hot to have guys watch as you get head, i like to get almost nude as i cet sucked. I dont suck people i dont know so i offer to jerk them off instead. A few said yes & with a few guys watching i jerk them off. Its hot to watch the cum shoot, & feel the cock in your hand as it cums. I still pefer to suck if i know the guy is safe & iam lucky to have to friends who i know are safe. We get together every few weeks for suck sundays
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Is today a Suck Sunday?
irishcollegeguy
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Man I wish I lived in the states, no one in Ireland seems to be attracted to cock only!
homunculus
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only?
Cock only? Does that mean people want threesomes? Or are you supposed to have a cock and a cunt. Very rare, maybe not even that sexy.
Come to NY, Boston, Philly. Your brogue will get your cock sucked every day of the week if you want.
Cock only? Does that mean people want threesomes? Or are you supposed to have a cock and a cunt. Very rare, maybe not even that sexy.
Come to NY, Boston, Philly. Your brogue will get your cock sucked every day of the week if you want.
We assume that you have done this and that you also like it....
Have not yet but probably would like it....
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