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I think this is a large part of it. While I can sit here and think about how great it would be, when reality starts to creep in it starts to seem more daunting. I think that the insecurities start to play in...........you start to worry about your weight, your cock size, your looks. Guys are just as insecure as women sometimes. Another part of it is the fear. We can sit here and say disease free, but there's no way to truly tell. Timing and location are always problematic. (add in the safety issue of meeting with someone unknown) I've cammed with a few guys, a few years back. I love the idea, but actually making it happen...............that's a different story. I would love to stroke someone else off, and feel him come all over and then have him do the same to me. There is a part of me that would like to move to the next step of sucking him off, and suck him dry but again, the disease issue rears its ugly head. I'm actually surprised that more connections don't happen here. I know I feel more confident about long-term posters here than I ever would from Craigslist.
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hungchad
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I first did it when I was 16 and it was amazing. Reading these posts makes me crave it. It's got me thinking.....
womaneater58
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Still looking for the first opportunity to try it.
jerkme2005
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Would love to hook up with a bud to exchange hand jobs!
Would love to hook up with a bud to exchange hand jobs!
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A handy fest with another guy that is fun and chill like myself just sounds very gratifying. I'm 30 years old and it's been eating at my mind for years, to elicit the kind of reaction the male orgasm results in, in and of itself is part of the turn on for me
Anyone else with me?
Anyone else with me?
110% agree
zukethecuke
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Any port in a storm, any hole when you're horny....
windycityplay69
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773 in Chicago, could be interesting
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NoVA here 30 curious to try it
windycityplay69
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Originally Posted by itsallgood View Post
it sounds so easy while reading these forums btt then reality creeps back in with all the nerves and uncertainties
This....
bumping this
zukethecuke
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Originally Posted by itsallgood View Post
it sounds so easy while reading these forums btt then reality creeps back in with all the nerves and uncertainties
This....
Nerves and uncertainties.... Also known as 'excitement.'
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Could really use a good hj right about now.
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Always could use one too
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Originally Posted by itsallgood View Post
it sounds so easy while reading these forums btt then reality creeps back in with all the nerves and uncertainties
This....
I agree
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Sigh
This is a lonely time of day
This is a lonely time of day
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looking to chat... yim easportz2004
GeorgiaSub
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ok, I know this thread is for guys, but since watching guys j/o is my fetish I couldn't resist...
you're exactly right..being open to new things and going outside your comfort level...
Someone on this thread mentioned they felt "safer" meeting a person on Lit than they would from CL. Well, I was looking for a couple of guys to indulge my fetish, with NO luck on Lit. So I did go outside my comfort zone and took a chance with CL and found two professional, intelligent men that I was able to vet. No regrets and so glad I was open to trying something different to get what I wanted!
HI Georgia sub,
I would be willing to JO with you. I am a MWM that can play during the day.... Let me know.
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Hard to find a good friend
or is it good to find a hard friend? 51 yo professional from the Lehigh Valley in PA, 610 18018. I have been entertaining the idea for a long time and almost had a friend but he got weird-ed out and while we are still friends, that will never happen. I find it difficult to even know when it is safe to broach the subject and since most of my acquaintances are through work or trade associations, pursuit could be hazardous. I am not desperate enough to do the parking lot, rest stop thing. I would like to find someone who would be open to some exploration. Hand jobs are a good start but what I really want is to give my first blow job and ideally to someone who is as inexperienced as myself.
or is it good to find a hard friend? 51 yo professional from the Lehigh Valley in PA, 610 18018. I have been entertaining the idea for a long time and almost had a friend but he got weird-ed out and while we are still friends, that will never happen. I find it difficult to even know when it is safe to broach the subject and since most of my acquaintances are through work or trade associations, pursuit could be hazardous. I am not desperate enough to do the parking lot, rest stop thing. I would like to find someone who would be open to some exploration. Hand jobs are a good start but what I really want is to give my first blow job and ideally to someone who is as inexperienced as myself.
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